Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

[Rawtid]

They basically saying she tied the rope around her neck, kicked the chair, then a few seconds later was like "I can die from this huh."

It's just so life insurance will pay out. You know they don't pay out if you commit suicide.

 

[CoochieMane]

Damn, she's like a 10 British standards, no idea why she couldn't find a man.

 

[8====D]

Such a shame. . .I'm sure a coli breh would have if we only knew. . .

:ohnooo:

 

[Cynic]

You really live up to your screen name..dont you?

Women are more likely than men to initiate divorces they've been found to  initiate
69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men.

GMB strike 1

A ground-breaking examination of 27 different studies of suicide, conducted by the Samaritans organization,
confirmed this grim trend is worldwide: “The majority of studies suggest that men are at a greater risk of suicide
than women in the aftermath of relationship breakdown.

GMB strike 2

North American men going through divorce are eight times more likely than divorcing
 women to commit suicide, reports Augustine Kposowa, of the University of California, Riverside.

GMB strike 3

 

[godkiller]

Women

 

[Ark]

She could have married any black guy she wanted.

 

[Roberto Firmino]

Actually I don't know. He lied about it before and ended up staying with her again at one point. Plus made my sis call their house to apologize for "wrecking their home"

And she did it and is still with the nikka?

 

[broller]

and at the same time



**next morning, post smash **

Chick: Wow, you're just as "smashing" as I remember. Fancy some breakfast?

Dude: Uh no, actually. I'll be heading off

Chick: What?! But I thought last night was about us rekindling what we had? I thought you still had feelings for me too?

Dude: Well, not really. I just fancied a roll in the sack with me ex. No hard feelings, love. But we're over and been over for 5 bloody years

Chick: No! If you leave, I'll hurt myself. Actually, I'll kill myself. I'll f#cking kill myself...and it'll be on your hands

Dude: Yea right....bugger off

**next morning, dude reads paper**

Dude: Bloody Christ

I'm not trying to be insensitive, but this chick was pining for a dude who left her half a decade ago. Dude smashed and then left the next morning like she was a smut. Chick kills herself behind it.

Chick was in her 30s, single, depressed and living with a cat. The Coli talks about this all the time and this chick actually lived that life. So much so that she didn't want to live it anymore.

I hope her family and friends recover, but she needed help way beyond marriage and getting over an ex.

Peace

the british vernacular had me dying

 

[1 other person]

Women are more likely than men to initiate divorces they've been found to  initiate
69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men.

GMB strike 1

A ground-breaking examination of 27 different studies of suicide, conducted by the Samaritans organization,
confirmed this grim trend is worldwide: “The majority of studies suggest that men are at a greater risk of suicide
than women in the aftermath of relationship breakdown.

GMB strike 2

North American men going through divorce are eight times more likely than divorcing
women to commit suicide, reports Augustine Kposowa, of the University of California, Riverside.

GMB strike 3

 

[Turbulent]

The point I was getting to was that for some people, their identity is vested in their careers and/or superficial things.

Think about it from a certain perspective, I wake up every morning and go to work. I make my employer thousands upon thousands of dollars for my labor, they're definitely getting the lion's share of the rewards of my productivity but I make a very reasonable wage. Day after day, it's the same routine.. 12 hour days, on call, etc.. Something's missing, I'm happy in my career but I feel it's not enough. I see my friends.. They're marrying, they're in sustained relationships.. there's a warmth that comes from them now that is strange to me but I feel that joy, I want it for myself but how? I've been in school for so long, working so long to get to the top that I really don't know how to really establish myself within a relationship.. I'm frustrated but I am OK, I guess.

If I think about it, I've devoted myself to my work but when think about the thought of me laying in my deathbed and I think of the people I've impacted.. Will they come to comfort me in my last hours? Will the company that I've devoted years of my life to, made hundreds of thousands of dollars for..will they give a damn? Of course, my kin are always there but the thought of descending into the grave without leaving a tangible legacy would terrify me. No children, no spouse.. None to carry my memory or blood beyond my death. I'm speaking in hypotheticals but imagine getting older and wanting this but being frustrated by your inability to accomplish this for whatever reason.. Desperation can sometimes become inescapable.

This is why I ask folks what is it that you want to do on this Earth, what do you want to leave behind? Beyond a career and security.. What else is there? Money get spent, tombstones get whited to a point where names fade. Do you want to die alone or with no one (such a child, spouse, etc..) to fully cherish and/or pass off your memory to their kids?

i feel you to some extent but the other way to look at it is, whether you do all of these things or not, whether you leave your mark on the world or not, you could even find the cure for aids and be remembered forever, etc etc. or maybe you do nothing note-worthy. but you'll still be dead at the end either way. one way to look at it is to enjoy your time while you're here. not saying this is 100% my mindset but i guess just like everything, it's all about balance...

 

[acri1]

Women are more likely than men to initiate divorces they've been found to  initiate
69 percent of all divorces, compared to 31 percent for men.

GMB strike 1

A ground-breaking examination of 27 different studies of suicide, conducted by the Samaritans organization,
confirmed this grim trend is worldwide: “The majority of studies suggest that men are at a greater risk of suicide
than women in the aftermath of relationship breakdown.

GMB strike 2

North American men going through divorce are eight times more likely than divorcing
women to commit suicide, reports Augustine Kposowa, of the University of California, Riverside.

GMB strike 3

 

[1 other person]

I'm too old to entertain guys like that

He should be looking at women in the 20-25 age range.

How old are you?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

in those 5 years since her last relationship, im sure dudes probably hit on her all the time.

She probably turned down every guy who hit on her. I bet she was expecting some brad pitt. bytch, you aint worth it. good riddance

My sentiments aren't nearly this harsh. But you hit on some truth. Not able to get over somebody for 5 years. Stop and think about that really hard folks. And then invited dude over...says he left the following morning...we know what went down there. Dude no doubt had moved on but was still smashing on the low.

 

[The Mad Titan]

My sis just got engaged to a dude that cheated on his wife to meet her she's been through all types of bs with that dude and has a 6 year old by him, now she finna marry him I think this pressure plays a big part in it because she's 34

I'll never understand people that hook up with people that they cheated with to get. 100 percent failure rate at some point and time

 

[semtex]

And she did it and is still with the nikka?

yep