Daughter kills herself after Father cuts her hair and posts online

[The Devil's Advocate]

Pfffft, how is that worse than catching a whoopin in front of your friends in school?

cause it's 2015 and that will get your ass thrown in jail... you already see the teacher was like "if i knew i'd take her home and call the police for abuse" bytch for what... for taking off 6 inches? and you think he was gonna whoop her ass and waltz up out of there.... nah

Aldo, these kids know what they're doing.

Told this story to my 17 year old daughter, first thing she said is,"She did it so her dad will have to live with that for the rest of his life." In an attempt to punish him.

That's what kids try and do now (really not new) try and punish the parent for punishing them. Give threats like, "I'll run away" and "I'll start doing drugs" attempting to manipulate the adult.

My generation tried that, only our parents would hit us with, "Fine, run away, but you're leaving naked" or "You won't hurt me cutting your arm....YOU will be the one dead and in hell. If you live I'm beating that ass again." So we got no wins with our parents, total domination.

parents were ruthless in our days... remember when ANYONE could whoop you?? not your uncles and shyt... them too but i mean the damn neighbor, the baby sitter, the lady down the street... anybody see you fukk up they'd get in that ass... then you'd get home, they already told your parents what you did AND that they whooped you... and you get ANOTHER fukking whooping

and you wonder why the older gen has more respect... we was getting military lashings from the fukking marines of the block by the age of 3

nowadays you even mention a belt and it's off to jail

so your mom made you cut your hair as a kid

yet u still ended up going to jail



yeah that worked

as dmx once said... those two beatings (cuts) saved me

yea i was a fukk up... but i remember those two moments more than any single ass whooping.. and i got the switch, belt and extension cord... but it was whap whap whap, cry, forget about it by the next day

that haircut shyt was for MONTHS... took me forever to grow that shyt back.. and during that time i had to answer why every fukking day.. i had to look at myself and think about why i was in that position... i had to look like shyt again while that shyt grew back.. clowned on every chance someone got



at no time did i think about jumping off a bridge..... ever


everyone talking all this shyt... what if he beat that ass and she killed herself? what if he took her phone and she killed herself?

we have no clue what her mental was... rich people kill themselves everyday when nothing is wrong in their life.. so we can't put 150% on him, when i'm sure there's at least a million children who've experienced this, and didn't kill themselves

 

[Dreadknox77]

That dad is fukkin' retarded. Who chops off their daughters hair That is what some prisons do to inmates Thats what the military does to male recruits How you do that your little girl

That's what I'm saying..y the fukk would u do that to a young female??

She's fragile at weird stage in her life, these young girls their hair is major part of their self esteem and u cut that shyt off and put it on the internet???

Dude should be charged..

 

[Spade]

No, that particular style of parenting is fukked up under ANY context

Keep your personal business/family matters in house.

Exactly. Discipline your child but I don't need to see it nor do I need to know that you did it. I hope this haunts the father for the rest of his life.

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

The ignorance of this post

 

[Cabbage Patch]

It's just hair. Get a weave. This wasn't about the hair at all. Something else was going on. Why should her self-image be bound in her hair? Even the article falls for the game.

 

[mrken12]

Damn did she die?

Did she die?

 

[Sad Bunny]

Did she die?

Huh?

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I'll say it again, 70s babies the WOAT parents.

Preach.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Aldo, these kids know what they're doing.

Told this story to my 17 year old daughter, first thing she said is,"She did it so her dad will have to live with that for the rest of his life." In an attempt to punish him.

That's what kids try and do now (really not new) try and punish the parent for punishing them. Give threats like, "I'll run away" and "I'll start doing drugs" attempting to manipulate the adult.


My generation tried that, only our parents would hit us with, "Fine, run away, but you're leaving naked" or "You won't hurt me cutting your arm....YOU will be the one dead and in hell. If you live I'm beating that ass again." So we got no wins with our parents, total domination.

so true

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Eh, I'm numb to the whole scenario.

 

[Flash Thunderton]

Aldo, these kids know what they're doing.

Told this story to my 17 year old daughter, first thing she said is,"She did it so her dad will have to live with that for the rest of his life." In an attempt to punish him.

That's what kids try and do now (really not new) try and punish the parent for punishing them. Give threats like, "I'll run away" and "I'll start doing drugs" attempting to manipulate the adult.

My generation tried that, only our parents would hit us with, "Fine, run away, but you're leaving naked" or "You won't hurt me cutting your arm....YOU will be the one dead and in hell. If you live I'm beating that ass again." So we got no wins with our parents, total domination.

But y'all also didn't have the resources to run away and well...live.

If I ran away last year before college, at 17, I could go to a library or somewhere, put an ad on Craigslist, get some free rides/stay a night somewhere for free, and be in another state on the other side of the country in like a week.. Running away before all this shyt was basically just going to the damn park or something

 

[Giselle]

I wonder if some you of that praise fathers for doin the same thing to their sons will keep it consistent with your opinion on this

Yes. I will. It's not his fault that his daughter chose to do that. Many people do that to their kids and they have never killed themselves over it. It is (was) obviously something wrong with that girl since she chose to do that. That girl is (was) weak minded. I feel sorry for her family.

The article says that in addition to cutting her hair and recording it dude also cut up all her clothes and underwear. Sounds like he was the emotionally unstable one in the fam

I don't think so. He bought it, it was her punishment. I know lots of parents who took clothes away from their children on punishment and made them wear uniform or other less attractive clothing. It's the same thing.

 

[Dzali OG]

But y'all also didn't have the resources to run away and well...live.

If I ran away last year before college, at 17, I could go to a library or somewhere, put an ad on Craigslist, get some free rides/stay a night somewhere for free, and be in another state on the other side of the country in like a week.. Running away before all this shyt was basically just going to the damn park or something

Run away and live how? Feed yourself....cause no one feeding you and buying clothes, etc. THAT was the point.

Anywhere you go and depend on someone they will have rules.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

But y'all also didn't have the resources to run away and well...live.

If I ran away last year before college, at 17, I could go to a library or somewhere, put an ad on Craigslist, get some free rides/stay a night somewhere for free, and be in another state on the other side of the country in like a week.. Running away before all this shyt was basically just going to the damn park or something

You have no idea of what you're speaking on

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Yes. I will. It's not his fault that his daughter chose to do that. Many people do that to their kids and they have never killed themselves over it. It is (was) obviously something wrong with that girl since she chose to do that. That girl is (was) weak minded. I feel sorry for her family.


I don't think so. He bought it, it was her punishment. I know lots of parents who took clothes away from their children on punishment and made them wear uniform or other less attractive clothing. It's the same thing.

If the father didn't cut her hair and videotape it, would she still be alive?