True. There's this (can't think of the right word) stigma if you will, of when a young black man or woman who still lives with his kin, that their a failure or whatever. I agree, that the family unit is not what it once was. When everybody literally stayed in one big house, and if said family would go off to the military, the city, or work or college, then that's what it was. If it didn't pan out, "you can always come home" now,it's not "cool" to be staying with your kin whether you productive or not. I agree, but I feel its on us to help break the cycle somehow someway. Idk honestly man. Its not looking good at all tho.

One thing that would help is if we were more other cultures ain't didn't just throw out kids out to wolves at 18. So we can get our groove back or prove we still got it. It's a tuff world. As long as your son/daughter is productive let them live with you. Give them the opportunity to stack they cheese up. Don't throw them to the wolves 10k in debt from going to college struggling to find a job IF they completed it or working to make ends meet if they Didn't. Lose the who. WELL I MADE IT attitude. because times are different. Gone are they days are graduating HS and finding factory work for 18-20/hr.
Thank you for sharing that with me. I see and hear it all the time. Its alot deeper than just going to a college, graduating, and getting married. In between all that, we have to start young. And instill our future children and grandchildren the values, and self sufficient, and focus, so on and so forth. I know its easier said and done but my baby sister a baby out of wedlock, and I understand life don't go as planned, we all make mistakes and stuff. I look at her in tell my sister that its time to break it. One at a time . No matter the influence or temptation we face, we have to stay positive and change the game.This is a major problem. When I started working after college and was staying at home I definitely was treated differently for living with my folks while I tried to stack. Being in your mid 20s and living with your folks if heavily looked down upon especially by black people. Try hollering at professional black women and let them find out you still live at home with your parents....
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This happened to me a few times back in the day![]()
Black men shop at their corner stores and Black women buy their hair. nikkas lost.
nikka this is india
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i really aint even wanna argue with you
but yes certain cutures have higher values of success more than others
i dont know where to begin
everybody thinks that the people that leave their country to come to america are some broke ass refugee type status lol
man...you're clueless
My old coworker was 29 living with her husband at her parents house and her husband was a dr.

not only to me, but to many of my friends as well. i have never seen a spanish or indian/asian parent threatening or wanting to kick their children out to be independent and "do them". in fact their parents often get mad if they try to leave. shyt just makes me sad for real. im paying some old lady 600$ a month to live because my mom kicked me out. thats 600$ i could of been giving her or saving
. i swear on everything if i ever won the lotto... id make a lot of people in my life pay. ill never make my future children go through this stupid shyt.looking back when i was young, i would clown migos for being 8-10 deep in one crib. as i got older i realized how many cars were outside their crib, how much bread they were probably all stacking. they would all be working saving. then they bought the house right next to them..... then the one down the street until they owned 4 houses on the block. nikkas never wanna help each other. give a nikka an inch they take a god dam mile. cant tell you how many times i heard " i cant wait till yo ass turn 18 so you can leave"not only to me, but to many of my friends as well. i have never seen a spanish or indian/asian parent threatening or wanting to kick their children out to be independent and "do them". in fact their parents often get mad if they try to leave. shyt just makes me sad for real. im paying some old lady 600$ a month to live because my mom kicked me out. thats 600$ i could of been giving her or saving
. i swear on everything if i ever won the lotto... id make a lot of people in my life pay. ill never make my future children go through this stupid shyt.
Only an Indian could make that shyt look so swagless![]()
Yup making hella money BREH her and her husband lived in her parents basement and her younger brother lived their as well. She was the supervisor at my job when I was in college.
But hey, life is more fun when you scour the internet for black people taking the L and base your life