To me (and this is gonna make me sound like an a$$hole but fukk it), her desires aren't the issue. I never have a problem with people wanting whatever they want. Ur entitled to ur desires.
The issue is whether or not SHE is who she needs to be to get them. There are guys out there that are like that. But a number of factors could be keeping her from a.) finding them b/c she is in the wrong environment b.) attracting them (b/c she looks wack or is lame) or c) keeping them (b/c she attracts them but once they know her, she repels them lol).
I take people's attraction lists with a grain of salt b/c life is a troll. Most of the time u end up with people outside of ur prescribed preferences. Probably b/c life knows that we wouldn't be happy if we actually got what we thot we deserved.
I mean, if you say so. If I say "I want a nice chick who loves culinary arts, music, and silent movies" I am way more likely to find that than if I also attach:
-Must have a big ass and slim waist
-Should keep a luxurious weave
-Needs to be wealthy/hood rich
-Should have plugs in her ears
This ain't the sims, so while she is entitled to her preferences, she might be walking in with such a specific set of preferences that dudes who may check 60% of the boxes are out
of the running, cause we all know that other 40% might be just what she would like as well. From her gripe, I don't get that she has a particular look in mind e.g. six pack and chiseled face, but
she is asking for things you couldn't possibly get without going through every man with a fine-tooth comb. That is a lot of time and frustration, and potentially a lot of good fish she chucks before
even finding out if they are compatible.
"Fun? Risk? That ain't for me. I'm bout these books, maam."
