There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

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It's rhetorical :heh:. No one is suggesting that you actually do this (at least I am not). The point is friends don't fukk and thusly anyone down to fukk their friend isn't really a friend because they clearly have ulterior motives behind their "friendship".

If you aren't being literal then there really is no way/basis to prove that an other wise platonic friend would be anything other than...well other than that person being a man (according to you).
 

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Believe me, your "male friend" wanted/wants to get with you. Why do you think he's so readily available to you?

Absolute :duck: that he views you in a strictly platonic light.

But :what: to that dude for not being clear with you as to his feelings.



You can believe that if you want.... But why would I tell stories about a life long friend?
 

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I could walk outside and find 200 dollars in the parking lot, it happens. Its just not very likely....

Somehow everyone woman with a male friend, seems to think its platonic until proven otherwise. That's cool I guess, just weird that women want so badly to feel like they're situation is different when 8 out of 10 men will tell you what the deal is.
 

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No it's possible....it's just unlikely. In order for a man and woman to truly be friends they must either have history from their youth and I am talking deep history and/or the guy must be getting his sexual needs met elsewhere and the girl must be having her needs for attention met elsewhere. If a guy is getting all the p*ssy he can stand then he's not gonna be pressed for p*ssy like that. If a chick is getting her needs for attention met elsewhere then she's not gonna be pressed for male attention like that. Thusly they are indeed friends. Realistically though, not many "friendships" meet these criteria.


"In order for a man and woman to truly be friends they must either have history from their youth and I am talking deep history "

:duck:...save that sh*t for Hollywood.


"the guy must be getting his sexual needs met elsewhere and the girl must be having her needs for attention met elsewhere. If a guy is getting all the p*ssy he can stand then he's not gonna be pressed for p*ssy like that. If a chick is getting her needs for attention met elsewhere then she's not gonna be pressed for male attention like that. "
But you KNOW that if that's the case, they aren't really friends. :sas2:

Would any straight man's significant other be OK with her man having a "friendship" with a person of the opposite sex? Would any straight woman's significant other be OK with his woman having a "friendship" with a person of the opposite sex? In both instances, the answer would be "no". And the "friend" would likely be the first person waiting to pounce/pursue a relationship the minute the couple breaks up. :sas1: Even more, the significant other would also view the "friend" as a threat to the relationship.

I think people use and define the term "friend". Just because 2 people of the opposite sex are cordial/social with each other doesn't mean they're friends.
 

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It would. I would change rolls and make me the "fake" friend. One of the guys is married. It would ruin my friendship with him and his wife. C'mon now. You are usually better than this. That is a terrible idea absolutely horrible.
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You are smarter than your name suggests

You know I'm right tho :sas1:
 

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I could walk outside and find 200 dollars in the parking lot, it happens. Its just not very likely....

Somehow everyone woman with a male friend, seems to think its platonic until proven otherwise. That's cool I guess, just weird that women want so badly to feel like they're situation is different when 8 out of 10 men will tell you what the deal is.

Sounds similar to dating and yet people do it everyday :yeshrug: true friends don't come a dime a dozen.
 
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