There ain't no such thing as male "friends"
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you have no soul and hustle tricks out of money. every male you encounter is either a pimp or a customer, so every relationship you're in is exploitative in one way or another. you are not qualified to speak on this topic
You are free to try it if it's that deep to you
. Point is most men devote the majority of their effort/energy/money etc. to the pursuit of p*ssy. If a dude is devoting all kinds of time/energy/money/or "kindness" to you and ya'll aren't fukking that doesn't mean he doesn't want to it just means he hasn't come out and said it...either way he's not a true friend.
You are free to try it if it's that deep to you
But these women will NEVER understand that.
this is also the same forum that has declared time and time again that I am an uneducated degenerate who will have multiple baby daddies, live off the system and never be able to have a decent man in my life.All of which is untrue but spoken like it's the gospel.
You are smarter than your name suggests
You know I'm right tho
To your point, I'm not saying you are not right. I'm just saying that you are not right about everyone. I've had the pretenders before. They are pretty easy to spot. But I know the difference. So if someone has proven themselves I will give him the benefit of the doubt.
"In order for a man and woman to truly be friends they must either have history from their youth and I am talking deep history "
...save that sh*t for Hollywood.
"the guy must be getting his sexual needs met elsewhere and the girl must be having her needs for attention met elsewhere. If a guy is getting all the p*ssy he can stand then he's not gonna be pressed for p*ssy like that. If a chick is getting her needs for attention met elsewhere then she's not gonna be pressed for male attention like that. "
But you KNOW that if that's the case, they aren't really friends.
Would any straight man's significant other be OK with her man having a "friendship" with a person of the opposite sex? Would any straight woman's significant other be OK with his woman having a "friendship" with a person of the opposite sex? In both instances, the answer would be "no". And the "friend" would likely be the first person waiting to pounce/pursue a relationship the minute the couple breaks up.
I think people use and define the term "friend". Just because 2 people of the opposite sex are cordial/social with each other doesn't mean they're friends.
It's not just Hollywood. Anthropological studies suggest that there is a natural aversion to fukking a person that you have close ties to as a youth.
I clearly stated that the scenario that I laid out isn't likely. I was merely pointing out what would need to be in place in order for it to happen.
I'm not a child or a manSo handsome is not your type?
. There is more to life than looks. I look at attactive people all day. It's not a novelity to me as it seems to be like so many of ya'll.
you have no soul and hustle tricks out of money. every male you encounter is either a pimp or a customer, so every relationship you're in is exploitative in one way or another. you are not qualified to speak on this topic
13 pages before the foolishness
This must be a record.
The words most men hate hearing ..."man he is like brother to me"
My response: Does he have a dikk ?!
Gross... He has a penis that he uses on other women... Simple
The question is not whether you are lying. It's whether HE is lying. That's the point.
Oh... I see what you are saying... He's not lying.... He was never attracted to me... He has always viewed me as a sister... Never more
I'm not a child or a man
I call shenanigans.
Sounds similar to dating and yet people do it everyday
I don't disagree, I'm just saying its really hard to find a male friend as a attractive female (really just a female) that is going to be nothing but a friend. Friends get along because they like each other, if one is attractive easy to get along with hot and they both are single, even if you only had the intentions of being friends its only gonna get harder to do that as you spend more time with the person, and at some point feelings get involved and its not really just a friendship anymore.
again if you say you got a male friend you see like once a month for lunch or call or text every month or two... ok I can see that. But a friend, like legit friend you see weekly or bi monthly and call and text about BS.....nah I can't really see it.
You are free to try it if it's that deep to you
Why would I try something that makes no sense and wouldn't even prove the point? Honestly I think there is a maturity level that isn't being factored into this equation. Me thinks you all have a very specific way you interact with women and you really can't see beyond that.
But there's no way you know that for certain.
Sounds like wishful thinking on your part. His words may indicate one thing but his thoughts and intentions might reveal another. Hell, maybe his actions are revealing something else.I bet my bottom dollar that if his boys asked him in all confidence, he'd probably admit to being attracted to you. At the very least, he'd probably admit to being open to having sexual relations with you.
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Men and women dont get how you partner should be your friend and lover ...they just dont get it