There ain't no such thing as male "friends"
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
See my first posting to get your answer to this. I clearly give the answer .@Teedot
So you are dating a guy and one of his female friends needs a place to stay just broke up with her bf, he has a extra room in his apartment.
Youseenmywork
KING
One thing that bothers me about this thread is the misunderstaning of each sexes NATURE ...its like its a disconnect some were.I changed it
No woman would ever be ok with that
So your ok with it, some friend taking a shower in your mans washroom, cooking food, watching TV together, just being friends 
Women think emotional not logical. They can't fathom that Lamar, lequintan and Tyler are just biding time for some sympathy puzzy they may get one day. So they will cling to the facade that they are really friends
If any of these chicks were to tell their close guy friends let's have sex the giu would be there in ten minutes. None would be like our friendship, we can't ruin what we have.
If any of these chicks were to tell their close guy friends let's have sex the giu would be there in ten minutes. None would be like our friendship, we can't ruin what we have.
In what way?
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
U must not be understanding of what I said so let me break it down.So your ok with it, some friend taking a shower in your mans washroom, cooking food, watching TV together, just being friends
I said if a man isn't attracted to the woman or they have known each other for many yrs then they can be truly friends. My first thought would be why wouldn't she ask her parents or a female friend? If I already knew the answer to this and they had grown up together I would be ok. Other than that, no even if he isn't in to her she can be in to him.
I would have to know the very details of it to be cool with it. However that doesn't mean a man and woman can't be friends
When you had a cavalcade of dudes (and a couple chicks) in front of your house then it would be thoroughly proven
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Ahh the "maturity" angle. That's one of my favorites.Both genders use that one you know
I agree with the bolded. Maybe a better term would be "unable to see pass your own perspective." However, being able to see pass your own experience is an aspect of maturity. Honestly most people will never reach that level of maturity much less be able to step out of the box. So I see why you all are so die hard but there are people who are have done it (thank goodness.). I just can't imagine in a world of free and endless dikk that I would not be able to form many different kinds of relationships and have many difference experiences b/c I couldn't keep it in my pants. Just sounds boring, pointless and a waste of time.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Why? Get to whatever point you are trying to make.
Finances and emotional support, like some women get from their male friends.
And what is that difference?
Friends do not fukk. Friends aren't trying to or willing to fukk each other. There is no moral superiority in being down to fukk and just not acting on it. It is still directly or indirectly influencing your behavior and interactions.
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You don't have to be attracted to suck or ride a dikk.
Men and women can be work friends, Facebook friends, long distance friends and that's about it.
Yo
Men and women can be work friends, Facebook friends, long distance friends and that's about it.
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Youseenmywork
KING
Men have a ceartin prespective on women and honestly its pretty intricate. I wont go into much detail but ...you should listen to some patrice oneal its a good starting place along with the rational male(website) if your intrested
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Really? Ok you see a girl you like. U ask to be with her but she is like naw we can be friends so even though u aren't cool with it you befriend her in hopes to getting the goods. Versus a woman that you are cool with you aren't trying to sex her, you don't even like her like that but yet she is average looking and u would be willing to have sex with her if the situation came up.And what is that difference?
I have had male friend that I have no intentions on sleeping with but they are attractive enough to do that with. Not that I would because I wouldn't and I don't care to.