There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

[KinksandCoils]

You don't have to be attracted to suck or ride a dikk.

Men and women can be work friends, Facebook friends, long distance friends and that's about it.

Yo

Well what u said just depends on the person. If I have no attraction to u I won't sleep with u. While the next girl might just be trying to get some so she doesn't give a fukk. And as far as what u said I don't disagree. I never specified how close of friends they can be I just said they can be friends.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Finances and emotional support, like some women get from their male friends.

I said I don't ask for money so u should have ended it right there. And what is wrong with emotional support? Isn't that what friends are for most of the time .

 

[FTBS]

I agree with the bolded. Maybe a better term would be "unable to see pass your own perspective." However, being able to see pass your own experience is an aspect of maturity. Honestly most people will never reach that level of maturity much less be able to step out of the box. So I see why you all are so die hard but there are people who are have done it (thank goodness.). I just can't imagine in a world of free and endless dikk that I would not be able to form many different kinds of relationships and have many difference experiences b/c I couldn't keep it in my pants. Just sounds boring, pointless and a waste of time.

It's always funny when people make statements like this when they arguing against something i.e. not seeing past their own experience . Females, especially attractive females, have no idea the lengths the men go to or the lies they tell...none at all. Sex is priority number 1 for the great majority of guys.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Really? Ok you see a girl you like. U ask to be with her but she is like naw we can be friends so even though u aren't cool with it you befriend her in hopes to getting the goods. Versus a woman that you are cool with you aren't trying to sex her, you don't even like her like that but yet she is average looking and u would be willing to have sex with her if the situation came up.

I have had male friend that I have no intentions on sleeping with but they are attractive enough to do that with. Not that I would because I wouldn't and I don't care to.

This answer tells me she’s under 25. How bout yall ?

 

[Wild self]

I said I don't ask for money so u should have ended it right there. And what is wrong with emotional support? Isn't that what friends are for most of the time .

Some people just take, take, take. Even your so called "friends"

 

[Meadow]

Male friends are low key charlies, waiting for that right moment to swoop in or shyt on your relationship.

 

[FTBS]

Really? Ok you see a girl you like. U ask to be with her but she is like naw we can be friends so even though u aren't cool with it you befriend her in hopes to getting the goods. Versus a woman that you are cool with you aren't trying to sex her, you don't even like her like that but yet she is average looking and u would be willing to have sex with her if the situation came up.

I have had male friend that I have no intentions on sleeping with but they are attractive enough to do that with. Not that I would because I wouldn't and I don't care to.

It's not gonna get deep enough to even have the appearance of friendship if the women is just average looking . The thing that most women don't get is that men do not value friendship as much as you all do and conversely men value sex far more than you guys do. 9.9 times out of 10 if a guy is spending a lot of time with a female, sex is his motive. Now if you are just talking about being associates where you guys may talk at work or in school or in passing at a function, that's one thing. But if you are talking friendship, that requires a lot of time and effort, time and effort that guys generally reserve for p*ssy.

 

[SheriffOG]

I hear that's going down now.....twisted shyt.

Gay man who thinks he's a woman sleeping with chicks because the woman that's "trapped" inside his male body is really a lesbian

 

[Luke Cage]

first few pages of this thread had me

woman are so oblivious, friendship with people who wanna fukk you are not real friendships. that's just patience.

 

[hypo666]

Been saying this.... let your girl have male friends that's not family or gay, brehs

Be very suspicious of a girls male friend who is 'supposedly' gay.... It's amazing what can happen when both have been drinking.... Anyhow I disagree up to a point, a true friend would never fukk your wife or girlfriend, just as a true friend would back you up in a fight or argument if you were in the wrong or not. But there are friends and 'friends' I admit that.

 

[KinksandCoils]

It's not gonna get deep enough to even have the appearance of friendship if the women is just average looking . The thing that most women don't get is that men do not value friendship as much as you all do and conversely men value sex far more than you guys do. 9.9 times out of 10 if a guy is spending a lot of time with a female, sex is his motive. Now if you are just talking about being associates where you guys may talk at work or in school or in passing at a function, that's one thing. But if you are talking friendship, that requires a lot of time and effort, time and effort that guys generally reserve for p*ssy.

Ok. But people determine how they classify people in their lives. So for me a friend doesn't have to be someone I talk to everyday or even see every week. Now a close friend would be someone who I do that with. It seems like in this thread u guys are only referring to the close friend.

 

[KinksandCoils]

This answer tells me she’s under 25. How bout yall ?

My answer just proves that I'm not a jealous insecure person. I've stated my age here plenty of times so throwing out that number means nothing. I bet u would want your girl to be jealous because men thrive on a jealous girl. It makes him feel more wanted.

 

[FTBS]

Ok. But people determine how they classify people in their lives. So for me a friend doesn't have to be someone I talk to everyday or even see every week. Now a close friend would be someone who I do that with. It seems like in this thread u guys are only referring to the close friend.

For the purposes of this thread that is the only relevant definition. What does it matter if you talk to a guy every so often and never spend any time alone and don't really have connection of any depth? Why would a boyfriend care about some dude that you chit chat with on occasion in the company of other friends? What the OP is referencing and what the "friendzone" is all about is the establishment of a level of intimacy where feelings could develop and something could happen.

 

[The Mad Titan]

And here lay's the underlying problem.


Females friend= any random person that talks with them from time to time and is cool.

Male friends= people they talk to or hang with regularly.

 

[Youseenmywork]

My answer just proves that I'm not a jealous insecure person. I've stated my age here plenty of times so throwing out that number means nothing. I bet u would want your girl to be jealous because men thrive on a jealous girl. It makes him feel more wanted.

First my mentality when it comes to women comes from a another planet . I dont wrap my ego around a women like they are possesions. I just let women know you cant CONTROL what i do either. If im in a exclusive realationship then im in it if not im chillin. I dont thrive on jealous woman im 30 yrs of age im beyound that i love myself too much to fall for the jealous shyt. You talkin to a nikka that gets up and walks out on DATES if a chic wanna play with her phone or is completely disrespectful...I anit the one