There ain't no such thing as male "friends"
- Thread starter ADK
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Fair enough. Everyone has their own experience.
Yo folk ANYBODY know what @Colicat look like ...?!
That doesn't matter... Whether I am dime status (I'm not) or below average (I'm not) our friendship would still be a friendship because we grew up as family
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
This subject is so tired. If the guy thinks you are ugly or if y'all have grown up together than that's all it takes to be friends. I don't think some male friends are actively trying to fukk their female friends but if given the opportunity they would. There's a difference between being friends with someone only to try and get some rather than being friend with someone and if they occasion came up then they would do it.
Youseenmywork
KING
You should get out more if all it takes is a pretty face to make you happy.
I NEVER said that, stripper. But I find you to be very disingenuous. You have a male "friend" who is "handsome" and worthy of being in your social circle. The way you describe him, it's like there's nothing wrong with him at all.
So if y'all known each other for a while, he's handsome, and you have no problem hanging out with him socially, why is he not dateable to you?
My guesses: 1. he's broke
, 2. he's not "handsome"
, or3. you're "friend" doesn't exist=you're a lie
When you had a cavalcade of dudes (and a couple chicks
) in front of your house then it would be thoroughly proven 
.Ahh the "maturity" angle. That's one of my favorites.
Both genders use that one you know 
. The reality is that most guys have a very specific way that they interact with women and can't see beyond and women do too.
How many times you asked your male friends for money? How many times you helped out your male friends when they needed help?
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I don't ask anyone for money and I have helped male friends.
I have female friends who I'm not interested sexually at all 
, so it is to have female friends.
, so it is to have female friends.
Every female here says they have male friends and that its possible
Thecoli women the exceptions.
Thecoli women the exceptions.
Youseenmywork
KING
@Colicat It does matter in that men are visual creation we go off of what we see first . I also wanted to say that take a long look at this thread ....now what did i say about a MANS perspective? I said its one of the hardest things to describe and pinpoint ...cause each man is diffrent. The thing im learning that hurts the most is most women dont care about what makes a man happy or his perspective .
Its more to this but ill holla ....
Its more to this but ill holla ....
But I find you to be very disingenuous. You have a male "friend" who is "handsome" and worthy of being in your social circle. The way you describe him, it's like there's nothing wrong with him at all.
So if y'all known each other for a while, he's handsome, and you have no problem hanging out with him socially, why is he not dateable to you?
My guesses: 1. he's broke
2. he's not "handsome"
3. you're "friend" doesn't exist=you're a lie
First, he's married. Second, he has a child. Third, he's shorter than me. Fourth, he drinks, A LOT. Fifth, he's irresponsible.
All of which I could careless about when he are friends. None of which I want in a man of my own. Get it now? Cute and fun to be around are not enough to make a romantic relationship dear. Again I am not a child. I am not ruled my hormones.
Youseenmywork
KING
@Teedot
So you are dating a guy and one of your male friends needs a place to stay just broke up with his gf, you got a extra room in your apartment
