There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

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Not at all. Again though, it's simple... an S/O would not be out of line to question their S/O spending a lot of time alone with someone of the opposite sex. Why? Because of human biology. So the notion that men and women being completely plutonic friends is normal is ridiculous. Its a pipe dream women cling to to rationalize stringing men along.

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I don't agree.
I've had female friends that other people considered attractive or dated while we were friends but I wasn't into them sexually or emotionally.
I've also been friends with ugly chicks but that's self explanatory.
On the flip side there's been friendships that were the opposite of that and I stopped talking to them on good terms. Don't know why that's hard for some of you people to get. Females are people to.

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you've had so why aren't they your friends still? :sas1:
 

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Woman, do you not understand the lengths that dudes will go through to give themselves a chance to smash?

Men have admitted to putting up with being a female's "friend" in hopes of dating her/having sex with her.

Why can't females understand that straight guys (that are not related to them) have thought about/are thinking about their straight female in a romantic/sexual light?
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Are y'all dumb or stubborn?


they don't want to admit it :heh:, i've been there and done that when I was younger and I rememebr when I entered ar elationship how angry and upset my "female friend" got, I thought I was your friend why aren't you happy for me :dahell:

These chicks aint stupid
 
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:why: He is a grown man with a wife who take care of all that. It is not my job to police him. :why: I already explained earlier that I met him through his wife prior to their marriage and that she, he, his ex-roomie and I are all very good friends. You're starting to reach.

Let me put you on game real quick, real fukking quick. If his wife ever divorces him and things end especially on bad terms. You are first on his hit list. That whole friendship you believe won't exist to him.
 

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:snoop: You don't get it. I never said it was. That's the point. It's not. I'm saying people are different. Just like I can't be absolute neither can you. However being I know my friends better than you. I am fairly certain that I can make a better judgement about their character than you.

If someone has feeling that they never show yet treat me as a friend then they are a friend. We will never be privy to the inner most thoughts of all our friends. I go by how they act and how they treat me which is the only thing you can even go by. Trying to analyze thoughts we will never know is pointless.

I'm not being absolute, I have been speaking in general the whole time and acknowledging exceptions while supporting my stance with experience and logic. I've been the guy that was on that bullshyt. I have known the guys on that bullshyt. I have spoken to women who were completely :dwillhuh: when I or other guys feelings did come out. Different people are different but they aren't that damn different :heh:. Are there exceptions? Yes. Can you apply those exceptions to most cases? No, that's why they are called exceptions. It's not even about character really as much as it's about biology and socialization. Men are socialized to front and put a happy, more socially acceptable front over their true feelings and desires. That's why nice guys finish last because the a$$holes say fukk all that and women appreciate and respect that even if they don't always like it. Do you and enjoy your friends, just be aware.
 

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A females stance on this is apart of my screening process. Let's me know where to categorize her and how to treat her....
 

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loko through this thread

all the females "disagree"

teedot, the stripper , colicat etc.

they are living in a dream world
@SuperCoolP_Cal @Youseenmywork :sas2:

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Guess y'all will never understand lifelong friends.... I love my breh....:blessed:
 
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your friend is a fakkit who hasn't come out yet!! thats the only thing those messages confirmed

So because your theory has been disproved, now my friend's sexuality has being questioned....

You sound like one of those hurt girls y'all complain about who claim a dude is gay when he doesn't want her...

Don't you dare form you mouth to speak sideways of that man... there is more man in his finger than what will ever be found in your whole body...

Hater....:scust:
 

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So because your theory has been disproved, now my friend's sexuality has being questioned....

You sound like one of those hurt girls y'all complain about who claim a dude is gay when he doesn't want her...

Don't you dare form you mouth to speak sideways of that man... there is more man in his finger than what will ever be found in your whole body...

Hater....:scust:

My theory hasn't been disproved, because my theory is about heterosexual testosterone filled men, not fakkit girly men

:mjlol:, your friend is a fakkit

SLeep in the same bed in your underwear with another girl and don't make a move or feel nothing brehs
 

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My theory hasn't been disproved, because my theory is about heterosexual testosterone filled men, not fakkit girly men

:mjlol:, your friend is a fakkit

SLeep in the same bed in your underwear with another girl and don't make a move or feel nothing brehs

You are juvenile...
He is not gay... and he is not sexually attracted to me... why would he feel something or make a move?

You must be punnani deprived.... *looks at post count*.... yup... you would probably make a move on your married sister in the same bed with you..
 
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