There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

[Cheeky]

My best friend is a guy, but we initially met romantically and have tried to date a few times in the past. I ended it both times saying I preferred being friends. He crosses the line frequently with jokes (when I'm single) but he's respectful when I'm in a relationship. We've been friends for 10 years, but I do find his jokes annoying. I said something to him about it once and he stopped for a bit but seemed really hurt about it. I felt so bad about hurting his feelings that I haven't said anything again- I just usually ignore the jokes now.

I lightweight think he's secretly in love with me.

Eta: So yes, based on the above I would agree that strictly platonic male friends are rare.

 

[Colicat]

@Colicat

You keep saying "he's not sexually attracted to me"...but what about YOU? You sounding a little bit like you wish he WAS sexually attracted to you.

Which would prove the point of this thread.

I have literally one female friend. And we are friends because when her and I met, there was attraction at first, but I was dating someone. Then she started dating someone. And a few years have passed and now we're just friends as we didn't fool around due to circumstances and things just fizzled out.

Yet, it's understood between both of us that if her and I were to become single again at the same time, it would go down.

That attraction between a man and a woman never really completely dies if there was an initial spark/chemistry.

I am not attracted to him in a romantic/sexual way... He is not an ugly man by any means... He is just literally my brother.... I've known him since elementary school... I cant stretch my mind to think otherwise...

 

[Mordith]

I had a married friend who for years I was completely platonic with, but as soon as things weren't going so good at home guess who she turned to?

Even though I never plotted on her before that point I capitalized on the opportunity......

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

I used to believe this was not true...until I got married...

Now...yeah I keep some women around to do shyt for me my wife won't...

On the rare occasion I go to the office...

Me: You going to cook that breakfast or nah?

Wife: It's some cereal in their

Get's to work an hour later...

Me: Jessica you going to go get something for breakfast?

Jessica: Nah I already ate...

Me: Gonna do me like that huh? Have me sitting in this 10 o clock meeting all hungry...right next to you with my stomach rumbling

Jessica: You...you really hungry huh...what....what you want to eat...I think...I think whataburger serves breakfast until 10...you want some pancakes...let me go before traffic get bad I will be right back

bytch shaped like an overturned tortoise so I have no plans of having sex with her at all...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Its just pisses me off how most people on this site think they are the exception to every dam rule

 

[William F. Russell]

That's not a friend though...that's a co-worker/pawn

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

That's not a friend though...that's a co-worker/pawn

I was just laughing at how he described her.

But , I would think that someone has to believe they are your "friend" to want to go out of their way to go get you food/ be your servant.

Spoiler

Until she admits she waiting for the pipe from him

 

[Fatboi1]

These tags are funny

Tags: mjlol beeches be like, women logic, we all trynna smash, charge it to the game

 

[Skrt Angle]

My best friend is a guy. He is married now and I've never even thought of kissing him. He is perfect for when I don't understand anything but I like my men dumb. He knows the true extent of my manipulative bytchness but game recognize game. I see sex as something very intimate and cannot do it with someone who knows the real me.

Point is they can be friends but for what reason, all to do with context.

 

[William F. Russell]

My best friend is a guy. He is married now and I've never even thought of kissing him. He is perfect for when I don't understand anything but I like my men dumb. He knows the true extent of my manipulative bytchness but game recognize game. I see sex as something very intimate and cannot do it with someone who knows the real me.

Point is they can be friends but for what reason, all to do with context.

But he's probably thought about kissing you (and maybe doing more) at least before he got married.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Friends without ulterior motives. A straight dude ain't lookin' at no attractive or semi-attractive broad talmbout, "I want to be her friend "

Dat boy waitin' in the cut

Spoiler

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[Skrt Angle]

 

[duckbutta]

That's not a friend though...that's a co-worker/pawn

Most often than not...when one person comes to realize they cannot manipulate a person into doing a thing for them...that person stops being a "friend"

 

[Youseenmywork]

My best friend is a guy. He is married now and I've never even thought of kissing him. He is perfect for when I don't understand anything but I like my men dumb. He knows the true extent of my manipulative bytchness but game recognize game. I see sex as something very intimate and cannot do it with someone who knows the real me.

Point is they can be friends but for what reason, all to do with context.

Why do you like your men to be dumb?

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Why do you like your men to be dumb?

She can't handle an independent, smart, strong, intelligent man