This is why black fathers instilling pride in their sons is so important. Very cringe read.

[Gold]

Now I see why broke nikkas be railing so much against gold diggers

They want it to be them. They competing with these hoes for their desired position

You see it now too huh?

A large amount of TheColi wannabe women. The jealous as fukk of them.

They hoping a girl gonna buy them their next whip too.

Vroom vroom

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Just because you personally feel joyless, unsupported and unable to resolve those feelings with the presence of others doesn’t mean that those who do are experiencing a lack of pride in themselves.

Your assessment is very cringe worthy and reveals a thing or two about what mindstate you may be in at times...

Black men are given a raw deal. Society provides us with less. Other races and sexes can receive help without facing a negative stigma.

We're expected to make it on our own. If, by some chance, we make it to end, we're expected to prop up the community that would shyt on is if we fell through the many cracks on the rocky path we walk.

Man, you two are preaching. We’re starting off handicapped in society. Most of us with a single parent, no trust fund, no mentors, just the streets. The school system is designed for us to fail.

And then somehow if we make it out of the education unscathed, we’re expected to be the finished product by 25. We don’t have the connections like Asians, Jews, Arabs have.

I know exactly what it’s like coming straight out of college broke. I was fortunate to have both of my parents but I never asked them for money even though they were there for support. Not everyone has that luxury. Very few women saw the potential in me and that changed my view completely. I never asked them for a dime, penny or their car but the few who fukked with me, always offered to help.

The other 99.9% either wanted a sugar daddy, athlete or the dope boy who was making fast money.

Now that I’m in a better position that I expected, I have zero sympathy for those supporting bums. I saw they weren’t shyt and they knew it too. But they looked at style over substance.

 

[paperbag]

She lost. Hopefully her family has money so she has something to fall back on.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

this is why I advocate more people to go outside tbh

I feel like there could be more to his story than this abridged version. I'm all for black love so I wish them nothing but the best

What's wrong with finding somebody with potential and uplifting them?

Too many people bitter and cynical about love and life

Bitter women and men hate seeing other people happy in love

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

The only thing I have a problem with is BIM detailing all that on twitter, it wasn't nesscarry but as for everything he said I have no problem with that. That's the sort of girl you should be marrying, she has fully bought in to team 'that nikka'.

My boy got married recently to a similar type of girl, supported him for a long time when he had no job, he got into some things and she paid bags on a lawyer to help him beat the case without him asking her to.

 

[Prynce]

Black men are given a raw deal. Society provides us with less. Other races and sexes can receive help without facing a negative stigma.

We're expected to make it on our own. If, by some chance, we make it to end, we're expected to prop up the community that would shyt on is if we fell through the many cracks on the rocky path we walk.

Honestly makes me wanna say fukk the black community

They shyt on you when you're down but expect you to lead and guide them when you're prospering

 

[mag357]

The only thing I have a problem with is BIM detailing all that on twitter, it wasn't nesscarry but as for everything he said I have no problem with that. That's the sort of girl you should be marrying, she has fully bought in to team 'that nikka'.

My boy got married recently to a similar type of girl, supported him for a long time when he had no job, he got into some things and she paid bags on a lawyer to help him beat the case without him asking her to.

U cant congratulate that type of behavior from a woman...
If that was ur momz or ur sister, u would think doing all that for a man is cool?
Yall wanna call it "supporting" to make the shyt sound sweet... nah bruh.

If dude ain't got his shyt together, but u paying for his life and u given this niggs p*ssy, and not fukking nobody else that's helping u out... as a woman u lost.
Why would u take care of a grown ass man, when theres nikkaz out there that are decent dudes and u dnt have to take care of them

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Let's keep it a buck. That nikka was clapping them cheeks and eating that ass like a jbo seasoned vet for that year.

 

[litty]

Man, you two are preaching. We’re starting off handicapped in society. Most of us with a single parent, no trust fund, no mentors, just the streets. The school system is designed for us to fail.

And then somehow if we make it out of the education unscathed, we’re expected to be the finished product by 25. We don’t have the connections like Asians, Jews, Arabs have.

I know exactly what it’s like coming straight out of college broke. I was fortunate to have both of my parents but I never asked them for money even though they were there for support. Not everyone has that luxury. Very few women saw the potential in me and that changed my view completely. I never asked them for a dime, penny or their car but the few who fukked with me, always offered to help.

The other 99.9% either wanted a sugar daddy, athlete or the dope boy who was making fast money.

Now that I’m in a better position that I expected, I have zero sympathy for those supporting bums. I saw they weren’t shyt and they knew it too. But they looked at style over substance.

There are always dudes like you. "Keisha with the fat ass didn't want me because I was in the library" ass nikka.

 

[International Playa]

Shes a solid woman, this the type of woman you wife. They dont make many women like this anymore

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

U cant congratulate that type of behavior from a woman...
If that was ur momz or ur sister, u would think doing all that for a man is cool?
Yall wanna call it "supporting" to make the shyt sound sweet... nah bruh.

If dude ain't got his shyt together, but u paying for his life and u given this niggs p*ssy, and not fukking nobody else that's helping u out... as a woman u lost.
Why would u take care of a grown as man, when theres nikkaz out there that are decent dudes and u dnt have to take care of them

If my mum or sister do that and support a man who eventually gets back in his feet and appreciates it I would be proud of them both. Your acting like every man always has it together. Everyone goes through rough patches, the whole point is to find someone who loves you enough to support you through that.

Your response is the exact mindset that perputates these entitled bytches. Its why divorce rates are so high. People should only be with someone if they have all their stuff together and can do something for them. Any girl who isn't willing to support you when you need it doesn't love you, and will leave you when a man with more money turns up.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

There are always dudes like you. "Keisha with the fat ass didn't want me because I was in the library" ass nikka.

Is that really meant to hurt? I never had a problem pulling women. I had a problem with women expecting the finished product. I don’t need to brag about my accomplishments, it’s uncouth but I’m in a much better position than those who chose poorly. Like I said, no sympathy.

 

[litty]

Is that really meant to hurt? I never had a problem pulling women. I had a problem with women expecting the finished product. I don’t need to brag about my accomplishments, it’s uncouth but I’m in a much better position than those who chose poorly. Like I said, no sympathy.

It's probably because you're an ass dude.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Honestly makes me wanna say fukk the black community

They shyt on you when you're down but expect you to lead and guide them when you're prospering

Word. All this “when you giving back to the hood” from bum ass bytches and nikkas who did nothing with their lives. They expect you to bail them out but they don’t want to put in the work.

If my mum or sister do that and support a man who eventually gets back in his feet and appreciates it I would be proud of them both. Your acting like every man always has it together. Everyone goes through rough patches, the whole point is to find someone who loves you enough to support you through that.

Your response is the exact mindset that perputates these entitled bytches. Its why divorce rates are so high. People should only be with someone if they have all their stuff together and can do something for them. Any girl who isn't willing to support you when you need it doesn't love you, and will leave you when a man with more money turns up.

Exactly. Let these guys see how most of these women get ghost when you can no longer provide the same resources when you’re hard on your luck. Finding someone who sticks with you through thick and thin is extremely rare.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I swear some people here are just agents trying to shyt on any Black marriage they can find.