This is why black fathers instilling pride in their sons is so important. Very cringe read.

[Amused Mastery]

Its not the job of a woman who has no blood relations to him to build him up. Where is his mother? Where is his family? If he doesn't have family, I still dont encourage shyt like this because even if he does get married he will later resent her for hovering and constantly saving him, making him feel less of a man. Its not natural for men to be bad bytches getting flew out like a IG thot.

 

[Anti-Anime]

He musta been giving her p*ssy the work of god no way a bytch putting up with all that for that long

 

[threattonature]

I think women like having projects. I can't tell you the number of women I've gone on dates with who tried to judge me for lacking ambition. One in particular was close to 40 working as a cashier at walmart. She said she's going to school currently getting her degree. I asked her plan after that and she said she then wants to get a master's. Tried to say I wasn't shyt because I said I'm at a comfortable enough of a job that I'm more focused on enjoying life than moving up. Called me a loser for that ignoring that I'm making right at 6 figures, 5 weeks vacation, working 20-30 hours a week but somehow lack ambition because I've already worked my way to the lifestyle and job I want.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I keep thinking about Bernadette in Waiting to Exhale, A woman scorned: The Betty Broderick story, and other stories you hear around town...

And how familiarity breeds contempt and other related dynamics between men & women.

 

[Samori Toure]

YES! This thread was very eye opening. How can a man be okay with another woman doing HIS MOTHER's job? Because basically that's all what that girl is doing is raising a grown ass good for nothing man that cannot bring anything to the table.

So what do women bring to the table when the man is doing well financially, but she is unemployed? So is that man doing her FATHER'S job? Because basically that is all that man is doing is raising a grown ass good for nothing woman that cannot bring anything to the table. Am I right?

 

[Gold]

I think women like having projects. I can't tell you the number of women I've gone on dates with who tried to judge me for lacking ambition. One in particular was close to 40 working as a cashier at walmart. She said she's going to school currently getting her degree. I asked her plan after that and she said she then wants to get a master's. Tried to say I wasn't shyt because I said I'm at a comfortable enough of a job that I'm more focused on enjoying life than moving up. Called me a loser for that ignoring that I'm making right at 6 figures, 5 weeks vacation, working 20-30 hours a week but somehow lack ambition because I've already worked my way to the lifestyle and job I want.

Preach

 

[Gold]

So what do women bring to the table when the man is doing well financially, but she is unemployed? So is that man doing her FATHER'S job? Because basically that is all that man is doing is raising a grown ass good for nothing woman that cannot bring anything to the table. Am I right?

Both situations are equally

 

[Fillerguy]

Must've had a gun to her head cuz i got all that shyt on my dolo yet women laff at me.

 

[southern.girl]

This is very true especially with white and asian women. You see it in college they will literally change majors and move to cities to follow dudes. Then the kat blows up with a high paying gig and marries her....and folks shocked.

I have literally seen white girls see a nerd who sits at the front of the class in some high paying field and will latch on to him. With the end goal of marrying him once he gets a job and is on his feet.

Them jokers are just trained to be very strategic in the dating process.

But marriage rates are higher in white & Asian communities...especially marriage right out of college. How can you encourage black women to look for a husband in college, in mass, when brehs are GMB?

The culture needs to be there to cultivate this type of women in mass...otherwise, you’re just prepping black women to have egg on their face.

 

[Gold]

It would be interesting to hear her side, for curiosity sake

 

[old_timer]

I know some tough types like to rant and rave about people using ignore function

But what about bytch asses who lock their profile

Especially bytch asses like op who rack up "stats" then try to hide behind a new gimmick

So bytch ass @Nerdy black guy , what was your old handle?

 

[Balla]

I didn’t want to say this earlier because I wanted to see the reactions first. But her paying the bills will be a continuous pattern because he’s trying to make it as a rapper ( I’ll held this information back purposely). He’s a starting music producer right now but The businesses are still hers.

He said he’s very stable now though.

 

[Samori Toure]

But marriage rates are higher in said white & Asian communities...especially marriage right out of college. How can you encourage black women to look for a man in college, in mass, when brehs are GMB?

The culture needs to be there to cultivate this type of women in mass...otherwise, you’re just prepping black women to have egg on their face.

Black people used to get married right out of college all the time. Don't blame Black men for the change, because Black women have been on that looking for man "on their level" stupid shyt for a long time. Overall modern American Black women are just not practical. They priced themselves out of the market, which means their product is not moving. Asian and White women are more practical overall, because they know what the market will bear. African and Caribbean women appear to be more practical as well.

You know that the problem cannot solely be American Black men, because White women get married to American Black men on a pretty regular basis.

 

[southern.girl]

Question is what did she see in a crack head when there are nice guys out there?

He was a functional crackhead. She had no idea of his crack activities until he beat her into a coma. Homegirl was going on church dates with this man & everything so she probably thought that he was a straight & narrow dude like she wanted.

 

[Neuromancer]

He was a functional crackhead. She had no idea of his crack activities until he beat her into a coma. Homegirl was going on church dates with this man & everything so she probably thought that he was a straight & narrow dude like she wanted.

So she did no research. Noted.