Those of us who are 29+ let's give advice to new graduates and those 17-24

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There is pro and cons to everything.

So...another advice I would give people, educate yourself as much as possible, so you can know the pros and cons instead of taking someone else's word. Why make major decisions based on someone else's opinion? Because what might be right for one person, might not be right for another. Learn the basics, so you can come up with the best strategy instead of following someone else's blueprint.

I say this all the time... Even if i make the same decision as somebody else.. my reasons are not the same as their reasons..
 

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Not "wear a condom" type of advice. They've heard that.


Real talk....I think we need to stress this tho. That p*ssy is a motherfukker It makes smart nikkas dumb.....nikkas fukk they lives up over a nut. With all these creampie porno videos out here, these young cats got a lot of temptations thrown at them when it comes to nutting inside of a chick. First of all...Nutting inside is the best nut period...It beats splashing on her stomach , back or in her mouth. It feels so good when u know u supposed to pull out but dont...and then when u have a girl that just lets u do that or when u find afreak who, with a tongue in your ear, says shyt to u while you getting ready to cum like "Daddy I wanna feel it shoot inside of me":banderas:




A lot of these young cats are gonna be on some simp sh*t lets be honest...They might come across that piece of p*ssy that has them hooked and they gonna get sloppy.....Some might fall for strippers. Some might fall for hoodrats. Some might fall for dimes. Some might fall for average chicks. Some of these cats are gonna get they a$$holes licked out and get sprung. They gonna come across that feak chick who been around the block that nobody want but a fool who dont know better...she gonna see a young cat with worth and drain him of his life juices by fukking up his flow and getting pregnant. A worn b*tch is the worst trap for a young cat trying to come up. A worn b*tch will use all her sexual powers to get pregnant so she can trap a nikka doing good. So many scenerios to mention my dude we need to stess that these young cats wear condoms.


Wear condoms.......Only go raw when u get married. Dont take the condom off just because ya'll been in the relationship for months..I dont care if its years...keep the condom on until the ring goes on ....Only go raw in ya wife. Wear condoms until marriage. Or.....if u aint into marriage and just wanna have kids in the future...Dont have them until after 28. Stress that u will not have kids till after 28 and ya money is straight to were u can afford to put money in their savings and have something set for them if u pass.
 
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Real talk....I think we need to stress this tho. That p*ssy is a motherfukker It makes smart nikkas dumb.....nikkas fukk they lives up over a nut. With all these creampie porno videos out here, these young cats got a lot of temptations thrown at them when it comes to nutting inside of a chick. First of all...Nutting inside is the best nut period...It beats splashing on her stomach , back or in her mouth. It feels so good when u know u supposed to pull out but dont...and then when u have a girl that just lets u do that or when u find afreak who, with a tongue in your ear, says shyt to u while you getting ready to cum like "Daddy I wanna feel it shoot inside of me":banderas:




A lot of these young cats are gonna be on some simp sh*t lets be honest...They might come across that piece of p*ssy that has them hooked and they gonna get sloppy.....Some might fall for strippers. Some might fall for hoodrats. Some might fall for dimes. Some might fall for average chicks. Some of these cats are gonna get they a$$holes licked out and get sprung. They gonna come across that feak chick who been around the block that nobody want but a fool who dont know better...she gonna see a young cat with worth and drain him of his life juices by fukking up his flow and getting pregnant. A worn b*tch is the worst trap for a young cat trying to come up. A worn b*tch will use all her sexual powers to get pregnant so she can trap a nikka doing good. So many scenerios to mention my dude we need to stess that these young cats wear condoms.


Wear condoms.......Only go raw when u get married. Dont take the condom off just because ya'll been in the relationship for months..I dont care if its years...keep the condom on until the ring goes on ....Only go raw in ya wife. Wear condoms until marriage. Or.....if u aint into marriage and just wanna have kids in the future...Dont have them until after 28. Stress that u will not have kids till after 28 and ya money is straight to were u can afford to put money in their savings and have something set for them if u pass.
Its true. If you hate condoms you'll hate herpes and child support more. If you wanna go raw so bad rock Trojan ultra thin with spermicicde :manny:
 

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29 here.....my advice is get a plan. Write down your goals and map your way to them. You'll make it :blessed:
Best advice I could ever give a lil n*gga. So I'm just gonna quote myself saying this

29 here.....my advice is get a plan. Write down your goals and map your way to them. You'll make it :blessed:
 

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Save money. If you gotta impress the people you're around with material shyt, then they probably ain't shyt

Educate yourself about finance

It's never as bad as it seems, it's never as good as it seems. Be fukking level headed

Learn from your mistakes, don't be a dumbass

Never trust a big butt and a smile, that girl is poison
 

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The one last thing I can stress is credit cards. My advice...If u can avoid them do so.. .If u never had one good. Get one from a mall or a mail in.....When the physical card is in your hand. This is what u do. Go to the mall and buy 1 pair of sneakers(or 1 item under $100) with the credit card. Dont buy anything else. When the bill comes pay the bill then cut up the credit card and dont think about getting a credit card till after u graduate or when u are 30. This way when u pay the bill u will establish good credit and as the years build up ya credit will be A1. At 30 u are now more mature to handle a credit card and ya credit score will be excellent. If u are someone who already has habits with credit card spending...Just keep in mind u have to always pay ya bills. Dont mess up ya credit. U keep it clean by paying ya bills...U fukk it up by not paying ya bills. I have no advice for anyone who is wreckless with credit cards.
 

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I got a Bachelor's and been out of school since December. Still unemployed, sleeping on my pop's couch. That first post hit me like :ohhh:



GoD bless this thread, I'm taking notes :whoo:

Dont beat yourself over it. I was jobless for nearly a year after graduation. :mjcry: just overall being a lazy, worthless fukk
 

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But 1 thing I learned is you cant second guess yourself. you make a decision and live with it good or bad.... We can always second guess ourselves and say what if i did this, what if i did that. but we cant live our lives on what ifs we gotta live in the now..
My great great grandfather would say "Make a decision. If you don't like the outcome, make another decision." I prefer that to "live with it". We always have choices. Might not like all the options, but making a decision can lead you to better options.
 

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i'll say life can change in a damn instant, you never know when it can turn around.

Treat everyone with respect and kindness you never know when you may need their help.

Life rarely goes as plan, just live it, time flies. feels like yesterday I was just 21 and now i'm 30.

Validate yourself, screw pc jargon

dont compare yourself to no one else
 

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no trolling but sell drugs :yeshrug: at least on the side. all the dealers I knew who are not in jail are eating. some have their own businesses.


moral of the story be ready to compromise your values to make it in life
 

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My great great grandfather would say "Make a decision. If you don't like the outcome, make another decision." I prefer that to "live with it". We always have choices. Might not like all the options, but making a decision can lead you to better options.

I like that way of saying it better... make a decision if you dont like the outcome after some time make another decision... thanks...
 

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Dont beat yourself over it. I was jobless for nearly a year after graduation. :mjcry: just overall being a lazy, worthless fukk
I'm there right now :mjcry: searching for a job with no experience and just a degree is fukking HELL. I keep dealing with these bullshyt ass staffing agencies that never lead anywhere too.
 
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