Why do Men have to Pay for Everything in 2021

[Bossyyyyy]

I just don’t get it. I made a post in a separate thread as well.

I would understand men paying for everything if we were in a more “traditional” time, because then the roles were clearly defined. Men would typically be the breadwinners, whilst their women would take care of the house. In 2021 that doesn’t really exist.

Today, it seems like women just want men to do and pay for everything. It’s like they’re children that need to be taken care of, and at least in the US, that idea is accepted. Like why is it my responsibility to keep you fed and a roof over your head? And what am I getting in return?


If I were to go eat w a girl and we both paid for our own meals, somehow I’m the bad guy, or broke in that situation, even if we both have jobs and the means to pay for ourselves. It’s gotten to the point that it’s an expectation which is asinine


When did we get to the point that (some) women believe that they shouldn’t have to lift a finger and be catered to all the time all while providing little to nothing? Why do we as men subscribe to this idea?

at first I thought it was a social media thing, but no I’ve met women in real life that believe their man should be paying for their food, paying their bills, paying 100% of their house/ apt bill, pay for stuff for vanity, trips etc while giving literally nothing in return, and no im not considering sex. and if im not to do all of that im broke? it’s lame

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Do you want a traditional woman, or do you want a modern woman?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I’ve never been with a woman in my 40 years of life who expected me to pay for everything

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

It's called, having your cake and eating it too

IF you haven't figured out women are amazing at this by now, idk what to tell u

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Because men won't take a united stand against these money grubbing, tight fisted whores

For every dude willing to stand up for himself and refuse to be a beta male simp/walking ATM for these soulless bytches, there are 25 desperate simps leading with their wallets and willing to pay for the "pleasure " to smell these whore's ran thur, fishy draws

No type of pride or dignity in being a stand up dude anymore because these LGBT cacs have taught you that your masculinity is "toxic"

Social media doesn't help either. This generation is DONE I'm so glad I had my formative years before all of this madness began...couldn't imagine being a young breh today trying to find a wife with the modern woman...

 

[Neuromancer]

You really can avoid women like this. Just don't date them. Don't marry them. Don't talk to them if you don't have to. Men by our very nature don't have to do anything we don't want to socially. We built this shyt. The end.

 

[TheNig]

Because these heauxs ain't got no money.

 

[Wildin]

It's never got to the point where your talking bout.

If you got the money and the bills are in your name what kind of a junkie do you look like asking for half?

How can any mammal that identifies as a human male even stress over a few funky ass dollars? You pissing yourself over splitting a Netflix bill? A Cable/internet bill? Electricity?

If you ain't got it, just say you ain't got it and you need help from the broad.

If it ain't a house, then you have absolutely no reason to be sharing financial responsibilities with anyone.

My broad pays for her phone. And half the house. I pay for all the bills cause it's my name on the shyt. Not hers. I ain't sharin no responsibilities with nobody. That being said I don't ever have to lend her money or buy her shyt cause she can save or spend the rest of her money as she wants. And a good chunk of that goes back into the house/decour and shyt.

If you can't afford it quit lyin to yourself or making excuses. It sound stupid to be fussin over a few funky ass dollars.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Like it’s cool for these ppl to be broke and begging for $ idgi. I could never do it dawg

 

[Ziggiy]

I’ve had women who INSISTED on paying after a few dates where i paid first. Some women aren’t all gold diggers

 

[RehReh]

You do not
Let her treat you once in a while

 

[Atlrocafella]

You do not
Let her treat you once in a while

Yep. Niccas got control of the money but letting these chicks dictate how much to spend.

 

[DON MA MA]

Because there is always someone who will. Some men dgaf about paying for shyt.

Same with sex. Some women won't give it up as quick. That's ok, its plenty women who will.

Let ppl be who they are. Find who's with ur program.

 

[Why]

I don’t and I still get what I want
Y’all be giving these hoes air to breathe n shyt.

cut that bytch off and find one who ain’t expecting all that or nothing hell

 

[RareHunter]

I’ve had women who INSISTED on paying after a few dates where i paid first. Some women aren’t all gold diggers

Lol oldest trick in the book. They know if they insist 9 times outta 10, the dude gon end up paying.