The Radiant One
Superstar
Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?
Then love them don't marry them.
Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?
That is sad af and pathetic.Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?
IT WASN'T BECAUSE OF THE STUDENT LOANS
IT WAS BECAUSE THEY KNEW THEY HAVE STUDENT LOANS, BUT PROBABLY CONTINUE TO LIVE OUTSIDE THEIR MEANS
Student loan debt can't be discharged with a bankrupcy. If you default on your loans it messes up your ability to buy with credit or get loans including car loans and mortgages.
Then love them don't marry them.
Facts. Ole what can we do for each other ass people.Na that doesn't work for me either. Because if your suggesting not to marry them to avoid potential issues like these then i doubt you actually love them at all, id go as far as saying you dont love them. Your treating it more like a business arrangement if you have these things in the back of your mind
If u ain't got debt before marriage... You'll probably run into it during marriage.... There's always gonna be something... That's just life...
And if you love someone why does any of that matter. For me so what if we cant get a car loan? or its difficult to get a mortgage? What happened to ride or die?
I understand that, i dont care how much i love someone i'd never put up with things such as cheating etc. love can't cure blatant disrespect for me. But if i loved a women i would marry her regardless of whether she was 100,000 dollars or pounds in debt. If i loved someone money would never ever be make or break for me. I dont understand how people can be like ' I love you but the money just aint enough, we gonna have to wrap this shyt up...'
And if you love someone why does any of that matter. For me so what if we cant get a car loan? or its difficult to get a mortgage? What happened to ride or die?