1 in 8 divorces is caused by student loans

[Lweezy]

Na that doesn't work for me either. Because if your suggesting not to marry them to avoid potential issues like these then i doubt you actually love them at all, id go as far as saying you dont love them. Your treating it more like a business arrangement if you have these things in the back of your mind

Where did this simp come from?

 

[Lweezy]

student loan debt is a bad idea if youre not gonna be in a career making over 80K point blank

a lot of these people are stuggling cause they have private (non-subsidized) $50k loans with $500/month payments and only making 50k a year. factor in other bills, perhaps and car + insurance and you are DONE

Thats the part they leave out. Private loans are a different animal. Federal loans are manageable AND dischargeable by way of forgiveness and various income based repayment programs

 

[ZoeGod]

I understand that, i dont care how much i love someone i'd never put up with things such as cheating etc. love can't cure blatant disrespect for me. But if i loved a women i would marry her regardless of whether she was 100,000 dollars or pounds in debt. If i loved someone money would never ever be make or break for me. I dont understand how people can be like ' I love you but the money just aint enough, we gonna have to wrap this shyt up...'

Love don’t pay bills breh. If I am in a career making 80k+ I am not going to marry a chick who has a degree in theater arts with 85k+ debt working in JCPenny making 35k a year struggling to survive. shyt is ass backwards. Marriage is not only about love it’s about economics.

student loan debt is a bad idea if youre not gonna be in a career making over 80K point blank

a lot of these people are stuggling cause they have private (non-subsidized) $50k loans with $500/month payments and only making 50k a year. factor in other bills, perhaps and car + insurance and you are DONE

Facts the reason why the student loan debt crisis is a crisis is because you have folk graduating in useless degrees like sociology,political science,communications,psychology,fashion design,liberal arts etc. Then they rack up up 50k+ of debt because they went to a private or state school. And they are working in retail making $13 an hour or have a second job trying to pay that $500 a month payment. I live in NYC and I unfortunately see a lot of black college graduates(man and woman) go down that path all over the city.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Love don’t pay bills breh. If I am in a career making 80k+ I am not going to marry a chick who has a degree in theater arts with 85k+ debt working in JCPenny making 35k a year struggling to survive. shyt is ass backwards. Marriage is not only about love it’s about economics.

Facts the reason why the student loan debt crisis is a crisis is because you have folk graduating in useless degrees like sociology,political science,communications,psychology,fashion design,liberal arts etc. Then they rack up up 50k+ of debt because they went to a private or state school. And they are working in retail making $13 an hour or have a second job trying to pay that $500 a month payment. I live in NYC and I unfortunately see a lot of black college graduates(man and woman) go down that path all over the city.

Well that's just your opinion, like everything I said is my opinion. Marriage is also about economics TO YOU. As for me, none of that matters....

 

[The Connoisseurs]

Stats like these have a domino effect so I’m guessing that the other 1/8 rate for divorce is because of being caught with a sugarparent/sponsor or just simply slanging your PP for extra $...


Late night organ donor

 

[Soundbwoy]

There was that story of this bytch who used her simp of a husband to help pay off her student loans and then she divorced him... What a trifling fukking bytch...

I work next to a guy that married a Brazilian chick, she got citizenship, he paid for her education, paid all her bills and when she 2 months from completed her masters she asked for a divorce

 

[Serious]

You must be joking? I feel you breh but that's not how life works.

What if you work remote, your car breaks down and that's your only reliable source of transportation? The brehette your dating is in heavy cc debt, and your ass still pay 400+ in student loans.

Plus your girl already pissed because y'all can't afford to have the children she been bothering you about since yeah was dating. Now you gon tell her that liberal arts degree ain't worth shyt but the 60k in debt it put u in

60k for a undergraduate degree.

I can understand a professional program but damn.

 

[ORDER_66]

I work next to a guy that married a Brazilian chick, she got citizenship, he paid for her education, paid all her bills and when she 2 months from completed her masters she asked for a divorce

but according to simps here love conquers all and her debts aren't that important if you love each other...

 

[Serious]

You said if you "really love somebody" debt shouldn't be a factor. fukk that. Someone bringing a mortgage they can't pay back into a relationship is not going to help it. There are plenty of equally lovable people who aren't saddled down with debt they can't pay back.

For the record my wife has student loans. One day out of the blue about 6 years ago she got a call. Apparently she had an outstanding loan she never paid on and they wanted to collect. She paid that shyt cash out of her account on the spot It was like $20K too from what I remember. So I never stressed that shyt because once I got to know her I knew she was good for it.

If you're going to commit to somebody for life it's hardly unreasonable to vet every aspect of their lives and pass if there's anything you can't deal with. Including student loans "Love" doesn't mean having to accept any and everything your partner brings into the equation

20k loan

How do you forget that

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Exactly, people treat marriage as business arrangements, and marry because of convenience with alot of lust mixed in not because of actual Love.

In my post i said '...if you marry someone cause you love them, like truly love them,...' Im talking about the context of people marrying because of actual love being the reason and if that is the reason for you deciding to be married then i dont understand how debt could be a factor. Im insinuating exactly what you just said, people dont marry people they truly love and ultimately that is why all these other issues can cause a marriage to fail. All those people commenting and debating with me cannot comprehend words, they don't read properly.

All love is conditional. There is no such thing as true love. Everyone has their breaking point in certain aspects of life.

A marriage is like a recipe. Love is the main ingredient. But without all the other shyt.... sex, money, respect, common goals.... shyt's probably not gonna work. I think it's stupid to say people who divorce over money don't love their spouses. Most of them loved them enough to decide to commit to them for life

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If u ain't got debt before marriage... You'll probably run into it during marriage.... There's always gonna be something... That's just life...

pretty much

nikkas worrying about $30K of debt...but then gonna go and get in $350K in debt buying a house together?


these people were gonna get divorced regardless

 

[Originalman]

I get married in 3 weeks and all I been hearing and seeing is just negative bullshyt

Don't worry about it breh. Folks on the internet and sometimes in real life are always cynical about marriage.

But the same jokers swear they gonna be millionaires. Which is even less likely than having a successful marriage.

If you got a good wife make sure yall have some older couple or 2 who have a long lasting and success marriage. That you can always bounce questions and ideas off of.

Also realize that a successful marriage is like 2 people in business. It will only last if yall work together just like a basketball or football team. Someone has to shoot and pass and rebound. Someone has to pass and run/catch.

If you work as a team no one can beat you....long as you block out the white noise in the background.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

20k loan

How do you forget that

She had a couple and they were cosigners

It happens

More importantly she was good for it.

nikkas obsess over a chick's body count... that matters.... but not as much as her credit score

 

[Originalman]

pretty much

nikkas worrying about $30K of debt...but then gonna go and get in $350K in debt buying a house together?


these people were gonna get divorced regardless

Yep shyt what about having kids, paying for day care, paying for college. Medical bills (shyt sick kids can run you into the thousands) or getting a car.

30k in student loans or a 30k car bill. Peace pipe crack pipe same thing.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Student loan debt can't be discharged with a bankrupcy. If you default on your loans it messes up your ability to buy with credit or get loans including car loans and mortgages.

breh if you default on ANY loans it messes up your ability to get more loans...