you're getting too discouraged by trump's wins; they both came against women, and in cycles when the republican primary was basically the general election
-in 2016, the republican party had the momentum back after 8 years of a Dem president. hillary was an awful, disliked, establishment candidate, AND up against the gender barrier
-got his ass kicked in 2020
-in 2024, any republican with a pulse beats kamala. she sucked, and the economy sucked. it's time we all admit that
a good moderate Dem represents the widest range of voters, and can beat a republican in most years. trump is not a "winner", with a coalition; he's a fukkin fluke