Theres no L to hold.Marriage isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, especially for women, so they are smart to exercise caution towards the institution instead of caving into societal pressure. Pressure we can even see being applied in this thread and every thread we have about marriage or single women Lol!
Dudes legit lose their absolute shyt if a woman even mentions enjoying the single life. She ain’t even gotta be bashing men. Just the idea of a woman enjoying being single makes some dudes go full retard. WHY?!
Chicks aren’t even saying it CAN’T benefit women, but acting like it’s should be the be all end all for women when many are clearly suffering in them is irresponsible.
Marriage these days is a crap shoot and does absolutely nothing to guarantee anything for a woman especially as more women increasingly become breadwinners, but it can come with a LOT of stress and not even the guarantee of protection and provision. Meanwhile, if a chick does decide to pump brakes, you’d think as much as some of these dudes allegedly hate on women, they’d be happy that a lot are beginning to think more critically about it instead of just wanting to get with somebody just to say you got somebody.
But that’s not the case. Which is baffling. These dudes literally complain all damn day long about women.
We evil. Bitter. Single. Conviving. Trying to pressure men into marriage. Lying. Don’t wanna be friends with em. Fukk these hoes. Not marriage material. Aggravating. #GMB. Don’t do it, reconsider. Ole ball and chain. Child support!
But as soon as a chick agrees and says “Yeah guys, I ain’t that eager to get married either!”
Same idiots get overly sensitive, and legit hurt on some
“Y-you can’t get happy without me!!!”
“Y-YOU LYING! You not having fun!”
“Y-you betta hurry up or u gon die alone!”
“FEMINIST!”
“YOU BITTER!”
There’s gotta be a better way to have a more mature discussion about the benefits and disadvantages of marriage for women instead of dudes literally getting ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the way in their feelings to insult single women in a flawed attempt to scare or shame them down an aisle that many men themselves are allegedly and loudly against.
Ole “I can not like carrots but you lying if you don’t like em” head asses.
I love men but sometimes, ya’ll be trippin. Hard.
The only problem is that literally doesn't make sense. I get it you're on a heavily dude message board but literally on every women focused platform especially the Black ones the main point of contention is the long term non committal boyfriend.
You think if a man could literally only be on the hook for dates and the occasional gift that most men wouldn't take that deal? As it stands most women will come through and clean up and cook for her dude anyway. It's usually the women that are trying to stay over then hit you with the "lets move in together" shyt.
I think with the recession that coming there's gonna be a ton of divorces and way more marriages that never happen, Where living in a post marriage society as it is.
Are you sure you're not talking about you're personal beliefs about marriage or do you really think chicks ain't trying to get hitched like that. If you think the benefits are negilible for women what do you think it is for men?
If it’s right, it’s great. Otherwise it’s not worth it.
