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I’ve been this way for minute.....

shyt fukks with your reality when you’ve been on both sides of deception. I’ve never deceived anyone per se, but I’ve been an accomplice. I was with a chick who was otherwise a good girl. Seeing her lie about her where abouts through text and phone calls next to me in bed naked, while I’m gearing up for round 2, always made me feel some type of way.


Like the people on the other end have no idea what I’m about to do this woman once she hangs up.....

Women low key love that thrill.....even though they feel bad about it later.....it’s just that in moment all that matters is lust.....

And that’s the point we’re driving home. How you can build with someone like this...
How you can have kids and be sure they’re yours
How can you be sure you won’t get an std
The list goes on
This isn’t just regular slut behavior, “good girls” are susceptible to this behavior as well
I’ve turned out a few myself @paperbag



And then there’s the other side of deception. When you can tell your partner is lying because they are full of deflection. You don’t what it is, but your instincts are telling you that something is off or isn’t adding up.....

shyt comes full circle....

And makes it hard for you to truly trust anyone.

Someone who gets it.

Someone who gets it.

THIS is what the thread is about. Illiterate, whiny, never-had-real-life-p*ssy before dudes and women in this thread acting like they don’t know wassup.

 

[Serious]

Someone who gets it.

Someone who gets it.

THIS is what the thread is about. Illiterate, whiny, never-had-real-life-p*ssy before dudes and women in this thread acting like they don’t know wassup.

Man the thing that haunts me about the “good girls” is that they felt bad about it......

They don’t even know why they did it.....
Or kept doing....

And after every crying session it ended the same. I comforted them, with a hug, then 10 minutes later, i fukked them to sleep.


And I’m not even some Mac daddy or smooth playa with words either


It’s just so easy, and if I can do it like nothing, then what’s the point of me building up a relationship with my time, money and effort, so some cat who does the bare minimum of keeping contacting them on low gets to smash and dash. Plus she could end up pregnant not by me....

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I don’t need to have all the women in the world when I’ve had a good enough sample size to see standard behaviors across the board. This is like a man telling a beautiful woman she doesn’t know anything about men just because every man she’s come across wants to fukk her. She doesn’t need to experience every man to know it’s true.



No disrespect after blatant disrespect, nice. Did you read the OP? Who else is the problem if a women in relationships are stepping out of their relationships? The other guy? He’s just doing his job as a man to get sex. The woman on the other hand is getting commitment from one man and sex from another. Yes men are responsible for a lot, but women are the gatekeepers of relationships, as even the law supports them in times of crisis. Are they not part of the problem? Don’t white knight.



Any woman can and will cheat on her man if the a dude can hit certain switches within her. Remember, when dealing with single women you’re competing with hundreds of dudes, with taken women you just need to seem “better” than one guy, her man.

I encourage the truth-shaming though. Let’s keep the ball rolling guys, we’re 10 pages deep.

There are faithful women out there. Not trying to white night. When I said hurt child j wasn't trying to call you a child. You'll meet someone who will change you ideas about women and you'll see what I mean. If you're generalizing, then you should know you're off base.

 

[Taadow]

 

[Taadow]

If you're generalizing, then you should know you're off base.

Or, you generalize if something is generally true.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I been with this chick bout 4 months and she cool but there's a couple things she said that I didn't like that stuck wit me and I been waiting to end it. It don't take much for me to wanna move on to the next I got no time for BS

 

[semicko82]

I been with this chick bout 4 months and she cool but there's a couple things she said that I didn't like that stuck wit me and I been waiting to end it. It don't take much for me to wanna move on to the next I got no time for BS

What did she say?

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Last year I pulled 25k. Thats with lots of overtime. I am going to be making over double that soon.

I still live with my Mom, I've got ~15k of debt to knock out not including a car note, and a heap of self-improvement to do in terms of fashion, health, and attitude.

I have two business ideas to knock out, and started writing a short story I want to self-publish with Amazon hopefully by next month.

Now if you wanted to know WHY I want to get my bread first, there is a smidgen of it. That sound like someone ready to chase a relationship?

Chase a check, never chase a bytch. Ain't no such thing as Ms. Right. You'll meet another one. You'll never get another opportunity to make the money you didn't make.

 

[Contrefaire]

First you say you yourself aren't high quality and thus can't really pull high quality chicks, then you imply that high quality chicks aren't really worth it anyway. That's cognitive dissonance in its purest form.

You say you're young and haven't even had a lot of experience with women, yet somehow you know how all women move and have decided they all operate the same. How does that work? And of course the answer is NEVER that it may be YOU - the single common denominator - that could be the issue. It couldn't possibly be that you attract the same types of women, oh no, it's that all women are the same type.

Bonus: If you think your chick won't cheat on you, she already has or she will in the future. Just remember when it comes to how she feels in any given moment with a certain type of dude, all bets are off. I've been on both ends of this experience, being the certain type of dude more times than once, unfortunately.

I hate shyt like this because all it seeks to do is to make other dudes who DON'T feel like you, doubt themselves or their relationships. It's one thing to not want to date or get married, it's something else entirely to try to make those who DO feel insecure or as bitter as you are.

Sweeping, fear-mongering generalizations like this are shytty because not only are they demonstrably untrue, but it's bytchlike and is the exact same type of irrational shyt some of the women you're complaining about do. "All men are dogs" #MenAreTrash etc. It also reeks of insecurity.

Actually, this whole thread does. You were so insecure about your stance that you had to run to the coli for confirmation with this "does anyone else hate bytches!1!??!1?" post. Some men have tapped out of the dating game, this is nothing new and you've heard many of their reasons why already, so this thread served no other purpose than to have your angry, disappointed feelings validated.

 

[number21]

I feel this might speak about the points you have @BalmainReyes

 

[Contrefaire]

I have to add, the amount of red pill kool-aid some brehs are willing to sip because it appeals to their confirmation bias is unreal.

The red pill was invented by beta white males who were angry and horrified by the discovery that their women weren't as pure and guileless as centuries of propaganda lead them to believe. A thing most black men already knew, mind you. So to see black men parroting their same embittered talking points and applying them to ALL women across the board is not only sad but ridiculous.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

You're exactly right Breh

Marriage in 2018 is essentially a fool's errand. Not saying that there aren't good marriages these days, just that the odds are getting slimmer.

The reason why.. people are too selfish to stay married. And too short sighted to realize they are 1) dealing with someone too selfish to be married 2) too selfish to be married themselves.

It is literally a huge drag and very hard work. When you go into it you're like "Yaaaay" and once it starts to become a grind you wanna bail.

Until you find someone who you are ready to go all in with and never let go

EVEN THROUGH THE LOWEST OF THE LOW AND THE MOST BORING OF THE BORING

If you read that and it gives you pause.. then you are wasting your motherfukcing time getting married to anyone.

It's like anything. Starting a business. Do you scrap the whole thing each time it gets tough? Quite the opposite. Successful people already know that it's gonna be a mountain of bullshyt. And people who prefer fun over all else are broke.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

What op laid out about females is not new behavior. What's changed is a lot of dudes out here don't understand that you have to be firm with a female if she exhibits behavior you don't like. A lot of us have been taught that females are never wrong about anything during upbringing and when you grow and realize they are flawed as hell it frustrates a lot of dudes. To the the point they view them as a burden, which to me is some lokey homosexual shyt no matter how you slice it.

Speak your ass up if people do shyt that urks you...don't cry online about it. If she then doesn't straighten up, get rid of her.

You're not gonna have all perfect relationships and they are work. They are work.

 

[AtomicUse]

And whatever u do fellas, dont take @dora_da_destroyer or any womans advice on women. They dont give a fukk about u so theyll always sell u some cookie cutter bs.


If u want the real come ask a breh who is fukking these bytches to sleep.

Taking advice from a woman who posts on a message board full of men, bragging about how good she believes her vagina is, and how she fantasizes about getting trains ran on her, isn't a smart move.

Would you want your woman doing that? The mother of your children doing that, talking to strangers about those things? How would they feel if they found out their fiancé was posting on a message board full of men, about taking multiple dikks and being smutted out? Maybe some men would like that, maybe some wouldn't.

But you should observe.

 

[MikelArteta]

That gets old after awhile
Not only that but you begin to see them as objects which is never good


The world embraces care free living now which why marriage seems obsolete these days but there's someone still out there , don't give up

I just see women as women, they can be here today and gone tomorrow