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and what about men with their red flags?

I have no problem saying this: We men are terrible.

We expect king-like treatment due to our pride and egos when in most cases we don't deserve it. We expect everything handed to us without going through the mud. However, once we realize this and pay our dues and go through our bearings, then we usually (hopefully) develop some semblance of an honor code, or principles, so that whenever we find ourselves in similar situations we know how to move based on past experiences.

I've made mistakes in the past to learn to never make them again. I don't hate women. I don't want to hurt women. I want to be able to appreciate and enjoy energies of human beings no matter race or sex. That's what makes life fun.

Most women however, do not develop honor codes. They operate on the same survival tactics they had at 13 when they're 30. Thats why it's "okay" for women to do men dirty, but never okay for men to "survive." The more we all understand this, the closer we'll get to some kind of solution. The solution won't come any time soon, though. We can't beat millions of years of evolution in a human lifetime. This is something that has started since Adam and Eve. Adam had enough honor and loyalty to heed God's warnings. Eve's biological tendency to operate on all of her feelings caused her to listen to the Devil and led to the ruination of the human race. A relationship is a business and here we have the first woman turning her back on God for the Devil; and this is the type of person you want to run your company with?

 

[Taadow]

But you weren't quoted and still felt the need to quote someone else and highlight that you specifically agree with them. The question is why are you doing these things since it seems like having a constructive conversation is not your aim. Almost seems like you're just tryna troll really, which is fair, but there's a level of awareness to a troll that I'm not picking up in your posts

You see that?

She was the main one in here talking chit...now that you on her head,
It "wasn't her goal", it ain't her fault, and you're "post policing" her.

This is what niccas is out here up against...

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I've experienced this is really the only way to have success and peace of mind - dealing with women on your own terms only. If she doesn't like the situation or circumstances you've laid out, she's always free to leave.

Yup and if your lucky you will find someone who wants to move at the exact same pace

 

[the bossman]

You still haven't clued me into how you find women who don't date based on lust/butterflies and never fall out of love.

It's not like optimism isn't appreciated. however one thing some folks have to understand is that giving people canned/cliche ass advice or worse, shytting on them for asking the tough questions doesn't help in the ways you think it would. If anything it just adds to that sinking feeling that nobody knows what the fukk they're doing or talking about, not even the OGs.

I'm not sure why as a man you would be looking for that constant lust/butterflies type emotion from a woman. IMO I think as a man, respect from my main lady is way more important and would give me more happiness and peace of mind.

 

[Shorty K]

as i also stated - if i see something i want to respond to, i respond. and where did i say i don't want to have constructive conversation? you're literally wasting my time, so i will do you your favor and stop replying to you.

you're making it blatantly obvious you're just looking for some form of attention to your opinion. Don't know how your time is being wasted when someone is giving it to you, do you not like your thought process being questioned or is it something else?

 

[Serious]

All women have the potential, means, and opportunity to be "grimey" -
And when they are, it's not their fault socially.

You can't fade that general principle.


And yeah, it is the male equivalent of "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs".
The differences between the two principles are:

1. People will readily and freely say "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs" and mean that chit.
Men will say it about themselves (like some dudes in here), and if women say it nobody says they must be gay.

2. Little kids are taught that "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs", but don't get taught how to know when a woman is "grimey" - that something a man has to learn on his own.





I don't know what niccas like yourself are trying to accomplish in here.

The thing of it is, some women never grow out of it. Even in old age, i deal with my grandma, and she refuses to acknowledge any of her wrong doings or selfish traits. Instead she deflects the conversation and cries victim like she's under attack and people are unfairly ganging up on her......



Oh yeah and she was a thot back in the day, to the fullest extinct, she was chasing dikk, ditching her family on christmas morning while we were opening up presents, when she was in 60s.....

This shyt isnt cute and i wont tolerate this behavior from a mate either.


Now my mom was the complete opposite, she's never thotted it up, at least since I've been born. She may have done things before she met my dad but thats no big deal.....


The real problem with thots, is when they go on to exhibit the behavior of my grandma. Where they're never satisfied and always putting dikk or self satisfaction over more important things like family. My grandma is mad selfish and never takes any accountability. I damn sure dont want anyone like that as a mate.

 

[360Waves]

Y’all making the shyt more complicated than it needs to be. The only thing 99 percent of women have going for them is p*ssy. Plain and simple. Women are expendable. I mean literally nature itself says that women are expendable which is why they have a biological expiration date—menopause.

They know it too which is why they’re all about trying to catch a come up and will kick one dude to the curb the second a better option comes along. Maximize your profit before you’re retired.

I fukk new women every month and keep it pushing once the honeymoon period is over. I’m sure that 1 percent does exist but I haven’t encountered one yet and as social media continues to make the world smaller expect that 1 percent to shrink even more.

 

[King Jae]

...maybe in my 50-60's...right now I'm trying to build my life the way I see fit..if I meet someone and we compliment each others lives and share the same goals...then yeah...I just don't see it happening no time soon...I'm not perfect..got bullshyt with me like emotional baggage, bad marriage plus a child I'm responsible for... like everyone else...figure by my 50-60s I would accomplished my goals and got all my lusting pretty women out my system...and chances are a woman at that age should have as well...will say dealing with women is easier now that I'm older...I don't get my emotions involved anymore...it's no point unless she some kind of special....ever since I stopped taking women seriously life been easier....they don't know what they want out of life but I'm sposed to take their ransom notes seriously?...how can u have expectations of me when u don't have any for urself? When u take the emotion out of it u gain ur power back... nothing more empowering than seeing the look on woman's face when she realizes she can't sway u with p*ssy...

 

[Strapped]

Is it that deep op

 

[MaxPain]

You have to admit there is some truth in the red pill though

All RedPill is regurgitated pimp game from black pimps into modern context .

 

[mortuus est]

I have no problem saying this: We men are terrible.

We expect king-like treatment due to our pride and egos when in most cases we don't deserve it. We expect everything handed to us without going through the mud. However, once we realize this and pay our dues and go through our bearings, then we usually (hopefully) develop some semblance of an honor code, or principles, so that whenever we find ourselves in similar situations we know how to move based on past experiences.

I've made mistakes in the past to learn to never make them again. I don't hate women. I don't want to hurt women. I want to be able to appreciate and enjoy energies of human beings no matter race or sex. That's what makes life fun.

Most women however, do not develop honor codes. They operate on the same survival tactics they had at 13 when they're 30. Thats why it's "okay" for women to do men dirty, but never okay for men to "survive." The more we all understand this, the closer we'll get to some kind of solution. The solution won't come any time soon, though. We can't beat millions of years of evolution in a human lifetime. This is something that has started since Adam and Eve. Adam had enough honor and loyalty to heed God's warnings. Eve's biological tendency to operate on all of her feelings caused her to listen to the Devil and led to the ruination of the human race. A relationship is a business and here we have the first woman turning her back on God for the Devil; and this is the type of person you want to run your company with?

soo basically humans are fukked up? got it

at the end of the day theirs loads of relationships doing great

 

[MaxPain]

as i also stated - if i see something i want to respond to, i respond. and where did i say i don't want to have constructive conversation? you're literally wasting my time, so i will do you your favor and stop replying to you.

Go take a nap, you need it.

 

[reserved_one]

With some Women they think their man is a needle in the haystack at first sight but then after while they show you that your not actually the needle in the stack.

Women that goes from relationship to relationship chasing a ghost that is the Perfect man is they're real career that forever fails due to unrealistic expectations.

Then when they are exhausted and washed up after decades of chasing...they settle for the man that's tolerable and gives them security but in the Inside they feel like

Now some do get lucky and find that Perfect man but with all that History they have thats longer than a Social Studies textbook...they may revert back to them oldselves

But not all Women are like that though. Some do end up in a long Marriages with men and dont cheat but thats like seeing an unicorn

 

[Mugenight]

In this type of society, this is unsurprising.

Unironically this is males fault no seriously.

Apparently, the lot of us males don't understand when it comes to relationships it's literally your way or the high way it wasn't just the women who drank the feminist kool-aid.

People talking about we need God for relationships to succeed.....If you need a book to instill basic moral principles or the concepts of natural order something is wrong.

 

[Paradoxical Tiger]

Well shyt let me add my two cents


Most quality women get scooped in college so



Think about it, the fine ass introverted smart girl ain't gonna be on the market her entire life.
Eventually someone gon approach and keep her for a dog ass time. The older you are the less likely you are gonna find "the one"