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My peace and happiness comes from within....and nothin can change that unless I allow it.

If a woman cheats or does some stupid shyt...im unfazed, cuz my happiness comes from within...I usually tell woman that that p*ssy is theirs, they where born with it and they go die with it...I cant own it or control it ...they're with me because they choose to be...and choices can change...

I love women, but the love I have doesn't affect my peace and happiness because I refuse to allow it to do so...

....because im a MAN, a superior man....some of y'all sound like girls, respectfully.
 

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This gotta be one of the most hustling backward things I hear y'all say, especially average dudes making average money. If you were zuckerberg, elon musk, Ryan coogler, random nba player, I could see this. But two incomes are better than one, the reason married couples have higher net worths and more assets.

Ol let me build alone and pay all these bills myself when two incomes would actually have me further ahead ass nikkas
This is where I disagree, two average salaries only work if the lifestyle is willing to match. Otherwise, two equal salaries generally don't work for most women. Most of them want more. They compare to the guys who had more but of course didn't settle with their dumbasses. Women don't think like that in reference to themselves. They just don't. Dora, you might feel that way for others but do you want a 60k dude if you bringing in 60k especially if you don't had better in the past? Women aren't that practical and in a capitalist society, this makes sense.
 

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you dont ..... because you used the word "you" instead of "I" in the title ....

meaning you seem to feel that concerning women your personal experience is the same with many of us .... this simply isnt true ....

the problem with a lot of dudes is that they will find a million and one reasons to explain away their failures with women

they only want dudes with money, tupac in a business suit , only after white dudes, they are all hos,they all flying to Dubai..... etc.... etc...


not everyone has that reality fam, and from the outside looking in a lot of us can see why these dudes arent doing well with women
So what would be your advice then
 

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My peace and happiness comes from within....and nothin can change that unless I allow it.

If a woman cheats or does some stupid shyt...im unfazed, cuz my happiness comes from within...I usually tell woman that that p*ssy is theirs, they where born with it and they go die with it...I cant own it or control it ...they're with me because they choose to be...and choices can change...

I love women, but the love I have doesn't affect my peace and happiness because I refuse to allow it to do so...

....because im a MAN, a superior man....some of y'all sound like girls, respectfully.
Would you still stay with that woman though
 

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It makes me search harder and be more discerning. I also focus more on my purpose and work to those ends. I love my gf but not more than writing and I encourage her to love sewing more than me.
 

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Okay, so tell me. Tell me how to move. Tell me why it's okay to deny my experiences.


I can only talk from my own point of view because everyones experience is different

Im 37 now but from day one my philosophy was If Im going to be rejected by a woman shes going to be the finest woman out there ....

And ive been rejected by a lot of 10s ...... and Ive fukked plenty of 10s

Theres no formula, I would approach beautiful woman exactly the same way I would approach an ugly woman (disclaimer I dont approach ugly women)

I can be as witty as the average dude but I aint got any killer lines... I just keep it simple and polite try and get the number as quick as possible and keep it moving ...

A lot of dudes go for the woman they think they can get rather than the woman they really want , I have always gone for the woman I want .... the reality is just because a woman isnt as good looking doesnt necessarily mean you have a better chance

yes there are certain cheat codes, being good looking, tall. having money , dressing well,having a nice ride but there are enough bums out there with fine women for you to realise that you dont need all that shyt, I had the most bodies when I was a broke student ....

I believe in treating people how I want to be treated , its the key to having a peaceful life, i dont believe in that HOH nonsense

but..

If you treat a woman as If shes the greatest thing in your life , shes going to think shes better than you ..... and youre going to have problems.... no matter what she looks like, what job she has, you have to make her understand that she is lucky to have you ..... and I dont mean by verbally telling her, what I mean is If most dudes that deal with her are going crazy over her looks and you act as If every girl you have ever dealt with ls on her level and its regular for you it will have the same effect

Never let a woman be able to sum you up within 5 minutes of meeting you , you got to have layers to your shyt (even if you really dont) .... If they think they can figure you out easily its a wrap

Point Im trying to make is , its not about them... ITS ABOUT YOU ..... for every chick out there thats got 10,000 dudes thirsting for her on Instagram theres a dude out there she likes that wont even text her back ......... and most times the difference between him and the rest of them is just confidence ,


Thats why I said Eric Benet, dude had the hottest chick in the game, she was richer, more famous, more successful, she could have got anyone and yet
she chose him .... and he still fukked 10 of her friends ..... he still treated her like a regular chick
 

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While I do agree with karma, I also think you're ignoring the biological differences between the sexes. In order for a woman to be attracted to a man, that man has to be attractive to many women. A man with many options won't put his manhood on the line for one girl who can now feel "victorious" because she's got him, and then change her feelings once she got the "winner." He's going to maintain his status as "the winner" by interacting and possibly sleeping with many women, because he knows that once he changes up, she won't feel the same way about him.

I've been there. Many others have been there.
Exactly,

It's like in the initial stages of courting or a relationship, you come off extra smooth and overly confident like you got a million other chicks and she's replaceable, but then once, you drop that aura and facade of having other women at your disposal, to show that you're truly committed to her and not playa, things start to change.....

Because now you'll get labeled as a square or not exciting enough....
But then women will say they're tired of dealing with players.....
 

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My peace and happiness comes from within....and nothin can change that unless I allow it.

If a woman cheats or does some stupid shyt...im unfazed, cuz my happiness comes from within...I usually tell woman that that p*ssy is theirs, they where born with it and they go die with it...I cant own it or control it ...they're with me because they choose to be...and choices can change...

I love women, but the love I have doesn't affect my peace and happiness because I refuse to allow it to do so...

....because im a MAN, a superior man....some of y'all sound like girls, respectfully.

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