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What?


So I guess every time a man says something derogatory about another man that is a reflection of how he truly feels about his father.......I don't understand this line of reasoning and when I hear rhetoric like this it usually comes from a female just saying....

You sound stupid my dude. We're specifically talking about nikkas saying ALL women. If you honestly believe ALL women are x it says something deep about how you feel about your mom because your mom is definitely not a unique person.
 

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After internalizing the opposing opinions to my OP, I've come to a conclusion. I want to say thank you to TheColi.

It took a minute, but I realize now that the problem isn't with women, it is with me. I'm not good enough and need to work on perfecting myself. Women cannot and will not do any wrong to a man who is worth something. I am the issue. All I have been doing is pointing fingers as if women are the issue. The issue is with me and my mindset. True love where a woman will never do any wrong to a man exists and I need to work on myself so that I can become worthy of experiencing it. I am a jaded individual who needs to become less jaded. Thank you for all the men and women who have convinced me. This has been one of the most polarizing and insightful threads I've ever made and had the pleasure to be a part of.
 

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Both men and women are flawed creatures mostly. You can look at society and see that.

All relationships especially romantic ones have major value to this thing called life. Knowing that, nothing has changed my views or how I go about finding a significant other. I’ve always known it will take an exceptional woman to keep my interest and lock me down. I embrace the challenge of finding that connection rather than get discouraged by it. You gotta make life fun.
 

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Both men and women are flawed creatures mostly. You can look at society and see that.

All relationships especially romantic ones have major value to this thing called life. Knowing that, nothing has changed my views or how I go about finding a significant other. I’ve always known it will take an exceptional woman to keep my interest and lock me down. I embrace the challenge of finding that connection rather than get discouraged by it. You gotta make life fun.

And I am sure with this attitude, there will be plenty of exceptional women wanting to lock you down. Good shyt breh.
 

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I can't be the only one.

After a certain amount of experiences with women - arguably, not even a lot - it seems that the lifestyle of wifing up a girl appears less and less appealing. You'll realize how women tell tales. How they all say extremely similar things. How they view life solipsistically (look it up; very important key to understanding everything she says and does). How easy it is for her to ease out her boyfriend's worries while she's chilling with you. How easy it is to have sex with married women. How she doesn't want really to be your companion, but rather your groupie. How she only wants to see you as her idol and if you slip from that image at any moment, it's over.

It's like after a certain point you know what to expect, you don't even have to go through the drama anymore because you know the direction she's moving in. And then suddenly, outside of conquest and sex, she has nothing more to offer you. And then you move onto the next.

Is this really the cycle? Do men who [really get women and not just catch feelings for every chick they mess with] marry just realize that it is better to lock down the one that provides the least runarounds? At this point, I don't think getting a girlfriend is even worth it. Once you see women for how they move, it's kind of depressing, because you're constantly finding more that do nothing but prove what your experiences have taught you to be not delusional but based in reality.

A decade. Maybe then I'll choose a pick of the litter to put up with. And I'll admit, I'm still young and while I've had my fair share of attractive chicks, I've never had a super-high quality (incredible looks, financial/career/ambitious status, knowledge, and personality all in one) woman which is perfectly understandable and fine because at this point I'm not super-high quality myself (though I am building constantly). But for now? Why would any sane man who understands women put himself through the trouble? Are those "super-high quality" women worth the "sacrifice?"

Bonus: If you think your chick won't cheat on you, she already has or she will in the future. Just remember when it comes to how she feels in any given moment with a certain type of dude, all bets are off. I've been on both ends of this experience, being the certain type of dude more times than once, unfortunately.

Congrats junior, you have now become what we call "enlightened". That means you understand that every girl you meet is the same person with a different shape, haircolor, etc. It means you know that all of these bytches, even your own fukking mother belong to the game, so you should ruthlessly exploit them as much as humanly possible until you've gotten everything you need or they finally cant take it any more and tap out, before they can do it to you first. That means you cheat on them every opportunity you get, take their money if their stupid enough to let it get taken, try to fukk their friends if you can get away with it, purposely doing shyt they hate like cumming inside of them and then leaving them there to make them feel dirty, purposely not texting back after you give them the good dikk and they're in their feelings. Everything my nikka.

To answer your question about marriage and girlfriends, The only reason to marry a girl is to have children that aren't b*stards, and you leave them once they're past their prime. The only reason to have a girlfriend is if she pays all the bills and is easily manipulated. And in both instances you should be fukking as many women as possible whilst sending iloveu texts. Be a scumbag, they deserve it for what they will do to you if you get in your feelings over them.

Funnily enough, once you adopt this mindset opposed to the one where you're trying to do right by her and have a meaningful relationship and they start stunting, a complete reversal happens, THEY'RE the ones jumping through hoops to try to get you to settle down and do right by you, THEY'RE the ones that start getting possesive on some 'I dont want you goin out with ur friends anymore' or 'i dont want you going on instagram' etc. They start losing their minds over the fact that you truly don't give a fukk. Be careful though, emotional creatures as they are... this is the state where they are likely to pull out a knife on you or try to ruin your life in some way out of spite. Speaking from experience.

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You sound stupid my dude. We're specifically talking about nikkas saying ALL women. If you honestly believe ALL women are x it says something deep about how you feel about your mom because your mom is definitely not a unique person.

Yeah, there was absolutely nothing stupid about what I said.Also, you making the assumption that the reason some of these dudes have problems with women, in general, is because of there mothers is ignorant plain and simple.it's okay though...

After internalizing the opposing opinions to my OP, I've come to a conclusion. I want to say thank you to TheColi.

It took a minute, but I realize now that the problem isn't with women, it is with me. I'm not good enough and need to work on perfecting myself. Women cannot and will not do any wrong to a man who is worth something. I am the issue. All I have been doing is pointing fingers as if women are the issue. The issue is with me and my mindset. True love where a woman will never do any wrong to a man exists and I need to work on myself so that I can become worthy of experiencing it. I am a jaded individual who needs to become less jaded. Thank you for all the men and women who have convinced me. This has been one of the most polarizing and insightful threads I've ever made and had the pleasure to be a part of.

Good luck to you in your growth.

But it's true!
Is it.....because so far I'm not convinced.
 

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Like other brehs said, i got lucky...

Sometimes you get lucky.

But I got enough sisters and homegirls to know how girls move ..... Women are savage. They know it.

But theyre good actors because society judges them harshly.

nikkas always gon defend and simp women tho.... Its male nature. Cant blame the simps in the thread.

I wish it was possible to simply treat women like princesses like in the movies and still be respected... But I've had all my success by doing the opposite and treating them disposable... Which made me realize women are fukking retarded. Its so backwards. All the simp nikkas get burned and done wrong.

And all the a$$hole nikkas like me get chased and have our phones blown up.

It should be the opposite. But oh well.

Female nature gon female nature.
 

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Like other brehs said, i got lucky...

Sometimes you get lucky.

But I got enough sisters and homegirls to know how girls move ..... Women are savage. They know it.

But theyre good actors because society judges them harshly.

nikkas always gon defend and simp women tho.... Its male nature. Cant blame the simps in the thread.

I wish it was possible to simply treat women like princesses like in the movies... But I've had all my success by doing the opposite and treating them disposable... Which made me realize women are fukking retarded. Its so backwards.

It should be the opposite. But oh well.

Female nature gon female nature.

Shoutout to you for having one that holds it down breh.
 

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Congrats junior, you have now become what we call "enlightened". That means you understand that every girl you meet is the same person with a different shape, haircolor, etc. It means you know that all of these bytches, even your own fukking mother belong to the game, so you should ruthlessly exploit them as much as humanly possible

:sas2:
Please be Poe's law.....
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You know what? @K Bishop ......
 

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Congrats junior, you have now become what we call "enlightened". That means you understand that every girl you meet is the same person with a different shape, haircolor, etc. It means you know that all of these bytches, even your own fukking mother belong to the game, so you should ruthlessly exploit them as much as humanly possible until you've gotten everything you need or they finally cant take it any more and tap out, before they can do it to you first. That means you cheat on them every opportunity you get, take their money if their stupid enough to let it get taken, try to fukk their friends if you can get away with it, purposely doing shyt they hate like cumming inside of them and then leaving them there to make them feel dirty, purposely not texting back after you give them the good dikk and they're in their feelings. Everything my nikka.

To answer your question about marriage and girlfriends, The only reason to marry a girl is to have children that aren't b*stards, and you leave them once they're past their prime. The only reason to have a girlfriend is if she pays all the bills and is easily manipulated. And in both instances you should be fukking as many women as possible whilst sending iloveu texts. Be a scumbag, they deserve it for what they will do to you if you get in your feelings over them.

Funnily enough, once you adopt this mindset opposed to the one where you're trying to do right by her and have a meaningful relationship and they start stunting, a complete reversal happens, THEY'RE the ones jumping through hoops to try to get you to settle down and do right by you, THEY'RE the ones that start getting possesive on some 'I dont want you goin out with ur friends anymore' or 'i dont want you going on instagram' etc. They start losing their minds over the fact that you truly don't give a fukk. Be careful though, emotional creatures as they are... this is the state where they are likely to pull out a knife on you or try to ruin your life in some way out of spite. Speaking from experience.

:sas2:

I used to think like this when I made the thread, but I've learned that all women are not the same.
 

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Yeah, there was absolutely nothing stupid about what I said.Also, you making the assumption that the reason some of these dudes have problems with women, in general, is because of there mothers is ignorant plain and simple.it's okay though...

So if these dudes would meet a woman with the same personality traits as their mom, I'd assume they'd wife that woman up then since they think women with their mom's character are winners right?

This a straight up yes or no answer, save me the Juelz.
 

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So if these dudes would meet a woman with the same personality traits as their mom, I'd assume they'd wife that woman up then since they think women with their mom's character are winners right?

This a straight up yes or no answer, save me the Juelz.
what is your point breh, are you saying all mothers are perfect or that a woman is worth more because she's a mother?
 

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So if these dudes would meet a woman with the same personality traits as their mom, I'd assume they'd wife that woman up then since they think women with their mom's character are winners right?

Don't know about you but when I talk to women the last thing I'm thinking about is my mother...not trying to be an a$$hole it is what it is but then again neither Her nor my Father where apart of my life like that so maybe that has something to do with it.
 
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