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Bruh did u see my question ? U be cold approachin? U got advice ? My ego makes it hard to do it.

And whatever u do fellas, dont take @dora_da_destroyer or any womans advice on women. They dont give a fukk about u so theyll always sell u some cookie cutter bs.


If u want the real come ask a breh who is fukking these bytches to sleep.
 

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Guys, gals, now this is just childish. This is what we don't need: attitudes like these held by both parties that ruin the purpose. The objective is literally to love each other. Thats the problem, we biologically can't love each other. Women want too much and men supply too little. That doesn't mean we have to hate one another.

This is the world, mayne.

We aren't the same.
Attitudes like these were here before we got here and will be here after we're gone.
You (and I would say 'most') can't grasp this because you seek from the other side something they can't give.
 

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Couple of things

1) you sound full of yourself. There is no possible way you know all there is to know and you've experienced all there is to experience with women. Humble yourself.

I don’t need to have all the women in the world when I’ve had a good enough sample size to see standard behaviors across the board. This is like a man telling a beautiful woman she doesn’t know anything about men just because every man she’s come across wants to fukk her. She doesn’t need to experience every man to know it’s true.

2) You sound more jaded and unhappy than anything, and you're trying to point to women being the problem. Also might be that you have fears of commitment. You sound like a hurt child (no disrespect).

No disrespect after blatant disrespect, nice. Did you read the OP? Who else is the problem if a women in relationships are stepping out of their relationships? The other guy? He’s just doing his job as a man to get sex. The woman on the other hand is getting commitment from one man and sex from another. Yes men are responsible for a lot, but women are the gatekeepers of relationships, as even the law supports them in times of crisis. Are they not part of the problem? Don’t white knight.

3) Like attracts like. I'm trying to work on this myself. If you want something meaningful you better figure out what that means to you. Otherwise you'll just run around lost, fukking random women (let's face it, these are low quality hoes if they're cheating on their man).

Any woman can and will cheat on her man if the a dude can hit certain switches within her. Remember, when dealing with single women you’re competing with hundreds of dudes, with taken women you just need to seem “better” than one guy, her man.

I encourage the truth-shaming though. Let’s keep the ball rolling guys, we’re 10 pages deep.
 

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:comeon:Last year I pulled 25k. Thats with lots of overtime. I am going to be making over double that soon.

I still live with my Mom, I've got ~15k of debt to knock out not including a car note, and a heap of self-improvement to do in terms of fashion, health, and attitude.

I have two business ideas to knock out, and started writing a short story I want to self-publish with Amazon hopefully by next month.

Now if you wanted to know WHY I want to get my bread first, there is a smidgen of it. That sound like someone ready to chase a relationship?:rudy:
Yeah man.......get on it, because that’s damm near poverty
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Imagine these nikkas talking to their sons when they are 15 talmbout,

"Hey junior. Let's talk big man. Listen, I know alot of these young ladies giving you that eye.

Listen, you need to know something. Maturity and proper moral standing is key in manhood. With that being said, I would be doing a disservice to you if I didn't warn you that every woman you'll ever meet just wants to suck your blood, steal money from your wallet when you sleep and plot to kill you in a cover-up murder to take your insurance money.

I don't give a fukk if it's your mother, grandmother, Coretta Scott, they are all bytches. They all have this thing called a p*ssy that, if you listen close, whispers... Lucifer.

DONT TRUST ANY OF THEM."


nikka would wind up fukking cows and shyt.
 

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We have to be careful guys generalising isn't good, but I agree there are a lot of women who do the dirty. What are the red flags so us naive men can be aware of, who are looking for relationships?
 

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What happened?

I worked with her for a few years, we went out for a year. I thought we were in love, I was gonna marry her. She cheated on me with her brothers bestfriend. She apologized cause he was just a side dude but the damage was done. I ghosted her at work thru all her efforts to make ammends. I almost caught a case over it cause her lil side dude got mad she ghosted him like I ghosted her and called my phone thru her Facebook account but he got shook when I told him to pull up so I can crack his jaw and he started apologizing saying he is just scared he's losing her and she's jealous. Told him "Not my problem but you p*ssy going thru her shyt and calling me" told him he needs to check her but leave me out of it cause I'm done with her but if he wants problems to pull up to my job cause my emotions were strong and I wanted to do it :pachaha:

Needless to say the simp never showed up. And me and her went our separate ways.
 

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I worked with her for a few years, we went out for a year. I thought we were in love, I was gonna marry her. She cheated on me with her brothers bestfriend. She apologized cause he was just a side dude but the damage was done. I ghosted her at work thru all her efforts to make ammends. I almost caught a case over it cause her lil side dude got mad she ghosted him like I ghosted her and called my phone thru her Facebook account but he got shook when I told him to pull up so I can crack his jaw and he started apologizing saying he is just scared he's losing her and she's jealous. Told him "Not my problem but you p*ssy going thru her shyt and calling me" told him he needs to check her but leave me out of it cause I'm done with her but if he wants problems to pull up to my job cause my emotions were strong and I wanted to do it :pachaha:

Needless to say the simp never showed up. And me and her went our separate ways.
Why did you want to fight the guy

Edit: nevermind I just read it
 

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I’ve been this way for minute.....

shyt fukks with your reality when you’ve been on both sides of deception. I’ve never deceived anyone per se, but I’ve been an accomplice. I was with a chick who was otherwise a good girl. Seeing her lie about her where abouts through text and phone calls next to me in bed naked, while I’m gearing up for round 2, always made me feel some type of way. :patrice:


Like the people on the other end have no idea what I’m about to do this woman once she hangs up.....

Women low key love that thrill.....even though they feel bad about it later.....it’s just that in moment all that matters is lust.....

And that’s the point we’re driving home. How you can build with someone like this...
How you can have kids and be sure they’re yours
How can you be sure you won’t get an std
The list goes on
This isn’t just regular slut behavior, “good girls” are susceptible to this behavior as well:sas2:
I’ve turned out a few myself @paperbag



And then there’s the other side of deception. When you can tell your partner is lying because they are full of deflection. You don’t what it is, but your instincts are telling you that something is off or isn’t adding up.....

shyt comes full circle....

And makes it hard for you to truly trust anyone.
 
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