A Black woman's perspective...

[DaChampIsHere]

Lets take for example Carlton Banks (I don't know his real name). He would struggle to get a sista because he seen as a nerd, lacking thug attributes. The brotha had to be forced with who actually likes him.

This is the equivalent a woman saying: "Black men only want light skinned video models who are dimes".

Like, we all know it's not true, but we'll let you not well rounded and scorned individuals keep believing such in hopes that you'll gather some form of self-esteem and step out of stupidity long enough to realize your own faults.

If you can't feel good about getting women because you can't do it, at least you can feel good about being smart.

btw men ain't attracted to degrees. so all that i'm successful and can't find a man talk is irrelevant.

Perpetually POOR men from such families (mentality wise and financially) who like to deal with rats aren't attracted to degrees.

@ A chick thinking she's gonna step into my family fold with no degree/formal education.

We got 4 generations of college educated women in my family (all married, no divorces). A chick without a degree in today's age is disgraceful, lazy, shameful, and is more than likely, a RAT.

at the generalizations in this thread. My last 4 ladies couldn't cook a damn thing and they're representative of today's white woman.

Pretty much. These threads suck and bring out the stupidity in people.

Got black people (male and female), putting white people on pedestals. Do better guys.

 

[yawn]

It's more dynamic than that. He's going to leave his white, pregnant wife and probably lose the presidency because he loves this black woman so much.

Shonda Rimes writes to women's fantasy and some women like to believe that if a married man cheats with you it's because he loves you and can't breathe without you. So it's written as a live story and not as a white man and his concubine.

People like it because it puts the black woman in the position of being desired. He's gonna jump off a cliff for this woman. Meanwhile, his wife and a cold, calculating, power hungry white woman he can't wait to get away from.

It's quite a social commentary and role reversal. A welcomed message (foolish though it may seem) in contrast to the constant, and loud bashing of black women as single and unwanted.

I see why you women like it but this has to put black men in a weird predicament.

@Binary I don't see BM fretting over a BW/WM relationship.

 

[KingDanz]

Perpetually POOR men from such families (mentality wise and financially) who like to deal with rats aren't attracted to degrees.

@ A chick thinking she's gonna step into my family fold with no degree/formal education.

We got 4 generations of college educated women in my family (all married, no divorces). A chick without a degree in today's age is disgraceful, lazy, shameful, and is more than likely, a RAT.

that depends if you use a degree as indication of intelligence.

so you think a chick without a degree is a rat? You got pornstars out there with master degrees..

 

[Luchini]

@Binary I don't see BM fretting over a BW/WM relationship.

prbly because it's rare depending on where you live. black women only make up 9% of all interracial relationships

 

[DaChampIsHere]

that depends if you use a degree as indication of intelligence.

so you think a chick without a degree is a rat? You got pornstars out there with master degrees..

I didn't say every woman with a degree is disqualified from being a rat. I said that women who don't have them in this day in age are more than likely rats who will have little to no monetary value and that dudes who will accept such will more than likely have the same value.

If you are a college educated man and your prime picks/women whom surround you are women without degrees (indicating that you are more than likely not making money/broke), or you are passing up your social circle of women with degrees to bottom feed/go lower than your level, then in most cases you are gonna be poor/have low family value.

Reading is fundamental.

 

[KingHelga]

i'm starting to think it is just a bunch of beta men always crying about women needing to be submissive. go prove yourself in some other area

I've yet to read any article with sistas calling out other sistas or even getting into any deep rooted analysis as to why so many of THEM choose to date white men

really? how often do you visit sites catering to bw dating out? i don't even regularly visit those sites but i've seen this several times.

 

[yawn]

prbly because it's rare depending on where you live. black women only make up 9% of all interracial relationships

Not a lot of black women where I live

I still believe interracial relationships involving blacks are grossly exaggerated.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

What were they storming out about? Is your current gf more patient with you and willing to talk it out, or she just don't seemed as bothered by things as another woman would?

I was living with one for about a month. In that time she gave another nikka her number, tried to go out and drive drunk, and even went on a date behind my back (I think).

Another one I told specifically that we couldn't have sex on my pool table. She walked in the door and climbed right up on it first thing.

One got super heated because she was so hateful of white girls that she made us leave this bar where a handful of them were dancing. She couldn't stand seeing them. I mentioned it the next morning jokingly and she blanked.

Basically in all these situations I wasn't having it and I let them know. This resulted in massive blow ups.

My white gf is hard headed and all but she more or less follows my lead. She dealt with a couple brothers that dogged her so she's very appreciative that I'm faithful and other simple stuff. Important things that we kind of take for granted or overlook (picking her up wvery weekend, paying for dates, shoveling her driveway.. little stuff that adds up).

 

[AAKing23]

Some good points made from both sides in this thread.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I didn't say every woman with a degree is disqualified from being a rat. I said that women who don't have them in this day in age are more than likely rats who will have little to no monetary value and that dudes who will accept such will more than likely have the same value.

If you are a college educated man and your prime picks/women whom surround you are women without degrees (indicating that you are more than likely not making money/broke), or you are passing up your social circle of women with degrees to bottom feed/go lower than your level, then in most cases you are gonna be poor/have low family value.

Reading is fundamental.

nikka are you slow?

Quantify that statement playboy...

You have no evidence to back that up whatsoever...

You had to be sheltered all of your life.....

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You have no evidence to back that up whatsoever...

I see you're on your CrimsonTider "prove all thick women get fat" steeze.

Fine. I'll let you tell it. People with no degrees/formal education are soaring past those with such financially. In fact, it is a well known fact hood rats attain college degrees at much higher rates that those from college educated backgrounds so much so that most females with degrees are indeed hoodrats. You are correct.

 

[JBoy]

y'all give these Blacks who date out way too much attention

 

[MadameMoreaux]

Not a lot of black women where I live

I still believe interracial relationships involving blacks are grossly exaggerated.

I agree. I think that both black men and women use the "well I'm gonna go get a white man/white woman" threat to hurt each other.

 

[DaRealness]

really? how often do you visit sites catering to bw dating out? i don't even regularly visit those sites but i've seen this several times.

Yes, really. I don't visit those sites because I have no need to, neither am I interested.

 

[Big Blue]

I said this before, but we need to put a halt to these new females flooding the forum. You can already see the negative effects in this thread and some others. And it aint their fault, it's these simps being thirsty AF and embarrassing the rest of us here.


Just sticky a welcome thread for newbies so the simps can beg for their attention over there.

It's a drought out here with these simps.