A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

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Yeah, and I blame yall for it :umad:


I used to really want to have a relationship during my 20s but all the women I tried to pursue either curved me to death or simply treated me like shyt .

So I focused on me and got more comfortable with having my own independence.

Yeah, I still wanna date but social media has fukked the game up .

Plus , I'm not tripping about being single as much as I used to.
 

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I only brought it up because Amanda is starring in the show.

I mean you would think that she would learn the lesson from the show that she is actually on. That would have saved her from looking dumb with this video she made.
I'm confused
So what was the point of that element of the show?


That Black men only wife up none Black women?
 

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I'm confused
So what was the point of that element of the show?


That Black men only wife up none Black women?

I think the point is that women like her have ridiculous preferences for a mate. The Asian girl got with an ordinary black guy, while Molly was out there chasing the 6 cert, 6ft + type of guy.
I'm willing to bet that Amanda is in the same boat.
 

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Am I the only one that's looking at her choice of words as suspect?

She uses "brotha" like its the cool thing to say, no Black Man, which would be the real thing to say.

shyts odd to me, but I might be reading to much into it.
She comes off as someone who wasn't raised around Black folks that weren't in the entertainment industry. Women like her always seem to be "on" or performing.
 

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Ya'll are no better though. You want "perfection" when you're riddled with flaws. The funny part is black men have THE SAME issue with each that black women have, we just see it from different perspectives.

I've seen dudes my age with no retirement, no savings, no life insurance, a bunch a kids, that he buys a bunch of jordans for, but you can't tell them they aren't father of the year. Even a corporate dude I know 6 certs, 6 figures, 6+ ft, BROKE as fukk. No health insurance. "Scared of the dentist". New truck though! You all will bring this mess into a woman's life and swear you're doing something. Laundry smells like mildew. "you separate the colors?" looking asses. Debt out your ass...at BEST BUY. Renting ass "I might move, I don't want to buy" aka commit. Ya'll just do the least.

So leave us the fukk alone and find u a white boy
 

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I tried to give women the blueprint and was met with nothing but resentment and resistance:respect:. Alot of loneliness and bitterness to come for these hell hounds if they don't improve.
A righteous womans guide to becoming righteously attached within 2 years tops.



1. Limit social media and demonic female friends and family-Womens minds are too easily corrupted by other women,so this is dangerous. If you are going to use social media you should find good female role models who make you feel ashamed to be the womanly defecient woman you might be if you are over 28 and haven't already been snatched up and taken off the market.Stay away from your female circles of bitterness you've created over the years if you can't remain a constant positive influence.

2. Be humble but friendly in the pressence of men- Ho's are great at taking the pressure off of men socially,they are great flirts,let interest be known. You have to be able to do this in a righteous less sexual version.


3. Carry yourself/Dress for how you want to be seen- No a woman can't wear what she wants,and feel free to talk about they pussies in open spaces and not be seen as ho's,its just not possible.


4. Curb your eagerness- You have to force men to put effort in long distance for a long period. Meaning early contact should only be done by text and calls. When he starts saying "When can I see you:mjgrin:" ,you have to let it be known you are a righteous women who needs to see effort and that he is a righteous man first.


5. Take him to church-First date should be him taking you to church,this gives you the chance to observe if he is respectful of god and your beliefs,which shows a humble man. Observe his reaction to the pastors words,does he appear hot:whew:? Does he appear to find this comical:mjgrin:?Is he sincerely moved:mjcry:?



6. Find out his intentions-At this time you need to make him aware that you seek to be married or at least righteously attached. You need to see his feelings on commitment and find out his history

7.Swap social medias-See if he is a vain man,flashing money and red bottoms?high angle selfies?See what he is really thinking and saying to the friends and family he cares about. Leave room for sattire,but look for a pattern of nonsense,lack of knowledge,lack of care.

8. Boost your sex skills-You should have been studying your whole life,but if you haven't had men stalking you,never been proposed to,never been begged to come back your sex game probably isn't that good. Study sites where men talk about what they like if it isn't already obvious by now. Focus on the head game,that is what will seperate you from the next woman.

9. Ultimatum-You've probably had sex by now,hopefully not within the first 30-45 days. At this point you have to let it be known you are seeking a commitment and he needs to leave his other women he's been entertaining alone. You also need to put a time frame for him showing different signs of commitment, by 6 months you should be making arrangements and discussing living together. If he cuts you off for suggesting that he leaves his ho's,you need to go back and work on step 8:francis:

10. Use your discernment-At this point you are in a relationship,you should act on your intuition and use whatever techniques neccessary to find out the truth. You should trust your gut only depending on your track record of accuracy.


Follow these steps and you will live a happy life with a righteous black man.
This is only advice for black men,not advice to help you find your Zack and Cody:martin:
 

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It's how I am. I think I want a girl sometimes, but then I start talking to one and it's like damn, I really want to be alone and this bytch is bothering me.


Women are natural naggers. I’m kind of dealing with this broad and every morning she messages me, then messages me throughout the day and wants to see me all the time Abeg

I don’t mind going to work coming home watching s movie or the nba relaxing peace and quiet
 

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