A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[Actually6Foot3]

nikkas break commitments to every kind of woman, worthy or not. Even you don't know men or you don't know women.
I know plenty of throwaway thots in long-term relationships or married, and I know plenty of righteous women who are sitting on the sidelines waiting.
There's a mass disconnect as well when it comes to viable numbers between Black women and Black men that needs to be taken into account.

Stop frontin.

nikkas commit to shyt THEY deem worthy. Just cause YOU think you know "righteous" women doesn't mean the nikka she's interested in is interested in her or deems her worthy of his commitment

One man's trash is others treasure

 

[MMA]

nikkas break commitments to every kind of woman, worthy or not. Even you don't know men or you don't know women.
I know plenty of throwaway thots in long-term relationships or married, and I know plenty of righteous women who are sitting on the sidelines waiting.
There's a mass disconnect as well when it comes to viable numbers between Black women and Black men that needs to be taken into account.

Stop frontin.

And that's the point. A women who wants to be settled down and married will get what she wants. There's breh marrying black women who can't cook, past hoes, deep in debt etc etc. There's no you need to do this and that to be married, all a women has to do is find a man who expects himself to be married one day and if needed apply pressure for him to grant that. The one's that can't simply are not tooled enough to get it done.

All brehs in here are saying is black women need to start looking at themselves like what have they done to be in their position (regarding their love life), why are other black women getting married but you aren't. Blaming black men/women for your failure to not find a wife/husband is indicative on that individual - the minute you begin to blame a collective you are deluded yourself and only further harming your future.

The way Amanda and some brehettes in here are speaking/believing in absolutes about us is dangerous, it's the same formatted tool used by WS to destroy us by any means. Anyone who thinks or believes in this manner doesn't need to be in a relationship with another black person to begin with anyways, they are detrimental to other black people mentality.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I know y'all hate her but let's keep it real. There's a lot of us who even if we met the perfect woman we would be hesitant to commit and give up the option of what we may perceive as freedom.

True but those same men would still give it all up for certain women. I've had my fun in the streets and definitely had to lose out on some good girls. But EVEN THEN there were some special girls that I would've given it all up for. Part of "settling down" is being comfortable with the person and feeling it's the best you can do. No one is gonna settle down when they have better options.

 

[prophecypro]

Her wokeness is a brand gimmick

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

We literally have a dedicated GMB contingency and nikkas like Alpha Male Strategies talking about fukking bytches to sleep for life and we b still giving her a hard time for saying an honest complaint that black woman genuinely have?

So many of my brehs in my circle - I'm taking nikkas who have their shyt together, attractive, making money, professionals, etc - and they enjoy the bachelor life so much it's hard to break away from it.


shyt it took me way too long to commit to the best woman I've ever met. I literally gambled losing the best woman for me because I enjoyed being THAT nikka for a gang of women.

She has a point that should begin atleast an amicable discussion.

How old is your circle breh?

I swear this isn't rocket science. There's a reason women date older men. Amanda Seales is 37 YEARS OLD!! I refuse to believe she can't find a 40 year old breh looking to finally settle down.

 

[blaccbeard]

Her face bothers me for some reason

 

[Lannister]

When she finally gets a Brad and gets her ring, Coli will be on fire

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

We've got threads everyday with brehs talking about relationships and not committing.
Yet every single time it is brought up, brehs cop excuses.
The cognitive dissonance is apparent, and not surprising.

Theres nothing dissonant about my argument. feminism has freed men and women from having to commit to eachother. Its a two way street. Women dont need men, and we dont have to commit to them if we dont want to. No one is obligated by society to mate or take care of anyone of the opposite sex.

 

[richaveli83]

Matter of fact Amanda know what she doin. She ain’t dumb.

She’s pre-emptively putting out these little bullshyt potshots at black men so that when she inevitably pops up with a white man ala Serena she has a built in narrative she can fall back on....

I can just SEE it now

2021
“Bu bu but... I WANTED a black man! I got love for my brothas, Black men just don’t want to commit! NONE of these black men out here want a wife and family! Every single one of them wanna go to the club, smoke weed, and be fukk buddies! I couldn’t allow my physical chakra to be continually drained in such a manner. So I went on retreat in the Caucus mountains and my earth bound spirit animal spoke to me and told me it was time to ditch Jamal and find me a Jason”


2023

“My debut novel ‘Black Men Are The White Men Of The Black Community: Just With Worse Credit!’ Will be in stores this Sunday! It has already been given a 4 star review from The New York Times which called it “Bold, Edgy, Witty, and Uncomfortably Closer to truth than fiction”. It is a fictional account of my life, times, and trials trying to find love and acceptance in the black community. As a light skinned woman of color, my struggle and pain has been continually deafened and buried by the very race of men I once fiercely championed. It is a story of the fall. The rise. And the redeemed. It is the story of every black woman living in America. It is my truth. Special thanks goes out to my Husband Jason Jacobs, who supported me through everything. We playing Mammy Betty and Master Charles tonight boo!”


2027

Via Instagram (as presented by BET Voice)
“ I am very happy to announce my new talk show, Amazing Amanda, has been picked up by the new Viacom streaming service! Debuting next year, Amazing Amanda will be a show geared towards black women in America who need a voice to champion their struggles! We will discuss Toxic Black Masculinity, the dangers of Raising black babies in a traditional patriarchy where the black man’s word goes unchallenged, and why Michelle Obama would have made a better President than Both Barack and Bill Clinton (still love you boo!) combined! Its a little Oprah! A little Dr Phil! And a WHOLE LOT OF ATTITUDE!

The accuracy

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

I mean, its true in my case, but I just happen to be black. One of my biggest role models is my brother who has been married 20 yrs + and raised a black family. I really respect what he's done without losing himself. They basically complete each other .

I led a different life, one where I had the good girl, lost her, and am experiencing true freedom for the first time in years.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I think the married women on this site should whip the ones who want to be married but aren't wifey material into shape.

The women who know they need to step they game up to get a quality man are then called "Pick Me's" by immature thots who don't wanna change for the better.
:mjzooted:

Anytime ayesha curry comments on relationship or gives advice you see the reaction from majority of how these broads think .

 

[HarlemHottie]

No one shames a white male for getting married and starting a family in their 40s+...

Not true at all.

 

[Kings County]

she just spoke to my soul going through some shyt like this rn

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

She needs to understand that some brothas don't want to deal with the bullsh*t that comes with being in a committed relationship, especially if the woman is a headache

Why be stressed out in a relationship, when you can have a piece of mind by yourself. And that goes for both men & women.

 

[Max Power]

Am I the only one that's looking at her choice of words as suspect?

She uses "brotha" like its the cool thing to say, no Black Man, which would be the real thing to say.

shyts odd to me, but I might be reading to much into it.

As many have said in this thread, she's simply laying the groundwork so she can wench in peace. She's probably already got her cac but she needs to perform and justify before wheeling Connor out. If you notice it started with her crying over Tariq saying she has no sex appeal.