A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[Actually6Foot3]

Hint Hint my nikka

let's see how tomorrow goes. Gonna get hit with a ton of BS

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

This is like the one and only time she looks like Maya Jama, but anywhere else she doesn't at all

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

Breh, I read this shyt twice.

Man take this rep.

Why not cheat?

 

[PhillyzFinest]

Statistically speaking she’ll divorce you first but good luck breh

I pray to god I don’t end up like you

Technically we are not married. We were supposed to marry in August... but that's not gonna happen. I'd be a complete FOOL to do that based off of what I'm seeing now.

 

[xCivicx]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

thanks for the honesty

I'm sending positive energy your way

 

[BigMan]

Technically we are not married. We were supposed to marry in August... but that's not gonna happen. I'd be a complete FOOL to do that based off of what I'm seeing now.

Aight good looks

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So many factors that point to the ENDGAME for the culture.

People too comfortable with their own company.

Others carry the pat pains/pains of others with causes the fear of opening up to someone / being in a realtionship.

Social Media age projecting false narritives.

The mentality that there is always better out there.

Placing yourself too high on a pedistal.

Lack of sensible compromise.

The multi date culture.

People not realising that time and youth is not as long as they think.

People mistreating relatioships like job interviews.

Too much overthinking and to little enjoying the company.

Listening to people on the outside who know no better.

It is some excellent posts in this thread

 

[intruder]

But you quoted it

Exactly my point
I'll admit she's easy on the eyes

 

[DaRealness]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

I was married once to the wrong woman but luckily the bullet was dodged and we never had kids.

Being in that situation you described is way worse than being lonely at times. Some people just wanna have someone on their arm, but if it's the wrong person your life can be absolute hell.

I can't see myself getting married again to be honest.

 

[number21]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

God damn. You lost.


Bush her and bounce back from this breh.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Black women are going to be dating each other in the near future.....

And they ain’t going to like that shyt either .

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

Awww. I'm sorry Breh, *hugs*.

 

[Cat piss martini]

because aint no broad gonna
appreciate,ride for or take care of
me better than me.
Besides......this is not the Climate
for relationships as far as i'm concerned.
hoe culture won.

 

[HARLEM AL]

But divorce rates between Black men and White/non-black women are high. A lot of those relationships don't last breh, dunno why dudes wanna brag about this.

And more than likely its the women who initiated the divorce.

Their is no difference between black and white women. /or Hispanic. They all believe in the same shyt which is feminisms. The difference is with the non black women you’ll get it in the back end. With black women they’ll let you know on the front end. shyt white men are having the same problem as black men in the dating game. Black women just throw us under the bus.

I personally prefer black women, always have and always will. But I don’t knock any dude that wants to do different.

Reality women like this need to just swirl and get over with. Just do it. Contrary to their belief most black men don’t care who you date. We just hate the hypocrisy and the fact the white men y’all do end up dating don’t have to have half the shyt y’all require from us.

 

[hatealot]

You mean before I divorce her?

This relationship won’t make it to the summer. I’m already setting up side pieces on Tinder... never thought I’d be that guy but fukk it three months is fukkin ridiculous

thanks for your post into your life, mind sharing how long yall been together/married for context?