That's part of it but it involves social strata and location as well. My grannies would have slapped me in my mouth for saying what his granny said not the way I said it.
He's being honest in a way that's contrary to how 90% of the members here operate,though.
He related personal stories about a loved one that adds context to this topic.
We've seen people here reluctant to criticize a
complete stranger who they follow on youtube,even when they say something wrong. We've seen people who have strong vocal opinions about
other Blacks who duck/dodge threads and questions about their own culture.
If you read everything, he's not copping pleas for her either. In fact, having heard similar sentiments expressed by older Black folks....I am the one who is putting her comments in time/generation context. Older generations did the best they could, the way they knew. My father was super hard on us. I resented him for years for it. As a grown man understanding who he was, where we grew up and his intentions....I fully get it.