Admit it brehs, a 30+ year old women who isn't married is someone you question

[Mike Ock]

What do you guys want
If she is married young, she didn't go through her hoe phase and will eventually cheat on you thus she's a hoe.
If she's older and not married, she's a hoe that's been ran through and no one wants her.

I think I'll go live under a rock now

That's for us to not know


And for you to find out

 

[The Mad Titan]

Its not like its a negative thing to wonder why a smart, attractive person is single at 30 male or female. Yall making way to much of this....

 

[Da King]

Why aren't they?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

The shyt a person would have to be or have been on for them being single in their 30s to be a problem, could be done between 15 to 20. So really it's asinine when you think about it...

 

[Yinny]

I couldn't help but yawn as I entered this thread.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

What do you guys want
If she is married young, she didn't go through her hoe phase and will eventually cheat on you thus she's a hoe.
If she's older and not married, she's a hoe that's been ran through and no one wants her.

I think I'll go live under a rock now

Man don't look to these dudes for answers. They don't know what THEY want either.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

This is the deal.. if it is a cute, cool down to earth chick that is like 30 with no kids and not married the question is why? What makes her so different from the rest that no man has grabbed her attention enough to tie her down?


Men usually are the aggressors, so that means either a random attractive chick has been swatting down men through her prime, or men have been running from her for whatever reason. And even if men have been running from the relationship there should have been one that got in dem drawers shot up the club and flee'd the scene by 30.


Its really just a common sense question, its like a pile of hundred dollar bills sitting in the middle of a mall and people are walking by like its no big deal. As a man you feel like there has to be something your missing. When in reality alot of the time its just that you got lucky.

So what if she's 30 and single. You risk missing a worth while relationship being judgmental.

 

[The Mad Titan]

So what if she's 30 and single. You risk missing a worth while relationship being judgmental.

What is it with people being all or nothing nowadays? I'd be a damn fool to not think something MIGHT be up with a woman being 30 single no kids and attractive, and she would be a fool not to have the same thoughts cross her mind about a man that might be 35 and up.

Its not judging people its using common sense, being 30 and single, hot no kids is not the norm, it would be great if it was but it aint.... for various reasons.

 

[Scott Larock]

some shorties out here looking for Mr right though, most women I meet over 30 never married and some are even childless.

They're really trying to hold off having kids till they met the right dude, the only thing I question is since she's a woman, why can't you meet a good man?

Anyone usually over 30 single, never married nor kids will have some issues with perception by others, they really feel you shouldn't be in that situation.

Good friend of mine is a 37 year old female no kids, man but she's a attorney so she's looking for her equal and I completely understand with all that education and hard work why should she settle for something she could have had any day of the week?

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

What is it with people being all or nothing nowadays? I'd be a damn fool to not think something MIGHT be up with a woman being 30 single no kids and attractive, and she would be a fool not to have the same thoughts cross her mind about a man that might be 35 and up.

Its not judging people its using common sense, being 30 and single, hot no kids is not the norm, it would be great if it was but it aint.... for various reasons.

Things happen in life. Dating is tricky. Maybe she was focusing on her career? Maybe she hadn't met the right man? Maybe she didn't put in the effort to catch a man?

There are tons of people who found love after thirty. Hell, look at celebrities, They are supposed to be somewhat the "models" of society and many of them have gotten into relationships around late twenties - 35.
Fore example Beyonce and Jay-z, Are these two somehow weird because they got married late?

 

[The Mad Titan]

Things happen in life. Dating is tricky. Maybe she was focusing on her career? Maybe she hadn't met the right man? Maybe she didn't put in the effort to catch a man?

There are tons of people who found love after thirty. Hell, look at celebrities, They are supposed to be somewhat the "models" of society and many of them have gotten into relationships around late twenties - 35.
Fore example Beyonce and Jay-z, Are these two somehow weird because they got married late?

I don't disagree with any of that, I'm speaking off initially meeting someone. I just to don't understand why its far fetched to think to yourself "why is he or she single" upon 1st learning that they are is all im saying

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

To be honest, I feel more pressure to knock out a kid than get married. I don't know, I don't want to get divorced, so that means that's a whole lot of years to be married, my ovaries on the other hand got a shelf life so....

 

[Vice Queen]

fukk getting married before 30; that shyt isn't an accomplishment. Getting married isn't a difficult task.... almost anybody can go down to that JOP and get that piece of paper for about $50

Maintaining a great relationship with your significant other is the difficult part.

Yes.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

I don't disagree with any of that, I'm speaking off initially meeting someone. I just to don't understand why its far fetched to think to yourself "why is he or she single" upon 1st learning that they are is all im saying

I mean that's the problem nowadays. People want someone who is already made. If people do not have A, B, and C then they are undateable. Which is why relationship fail too. Not many people understand that PERSONAL flaws come with a relationships. Accepting that person for ALL that they are. I'm working on not being judgmental as well so I'm certainly not excused.

 

[Pinyapplesuckas]

my girl 30+ with no kids

she was married once tho

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