All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[Diyhai]

I don't get why this needs to be explained to you. Your children are not an added bonus to any relationship except the one you had with their father.

kids are always a burden even if ur married
people might feel that word is negative but its real
in order to be a good parent u got to sacrifice many things in your life

 

[NZA]

it's the norm, brehs

 

[TheNig]

the only men that wife women with children and don't have kids themselves are men that don't feel they can do better, underachievers if you will.

So they settle?

 

[ZoeGod]

There you go. You have a preference and you don't have to justify it by shytting on them. I don't get why other people can't think this way.

Its the coli man. Where common sense isnt common. Just like fine ass @PeridotPuss just said earlier some nikkas here just say shyt to get daps. Life is very complicated. These dudes should just say they arent checking out for single moms and KIM. They just compound it saying every single mother are irresponsible, trash etc. It would be like a chick saying she aint messing with black men from the ghetto. That is an ignorant statement because not every single black men who grew up in the hood is in the streets.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

I don't get why this needs to be explained to you. Your children are not an added bonus to any relationship except the one you had with their father or a nikka that's shooting blanks.

And I don't get why I would need to explain to you how me considering my children anything other than a bonus is a problem...

 

[MikelArteta]

There are more single childless women than ever befote.

He'll I met my fiance when she was 27, no kids has her master's.

Stop settling for single mothers they had their fun

 

[newworldafro]

Congrats to them.

Wifing single moms though personally..nah.., and I've met some good ones.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Its the coli man. Where common sense isnt common. Just like fine ass @PeridotPuss just said earlier some nikkas here just say shyt to get daps. Life is very complicated. These dudes should just say they arent checking out for single moms and KIM. They just compound it saying every single mother are irresponsible, trash etc. It would be like a chick saying she aint messing with black men from the ghetto. That is an ignorant statement because not every single black men who grew up in the hood is in the streets.

At that subtle simpage slipped in there.

 

[2CT]

And I don't get why I would need to explain to you how me considering my children anything other than a bonus is a problem...

it ain't a problem it just means you have unrealistic expectations for most men's perspective of the relationship

 

[aXiom]

So if you had children and God forbid you and the mother broke up and she started dating again you'd be okay with the attitude of her future boyfriend's considering your children a liability?

You seem confused.

1. I did not refer to her kids as a liability. I just said they weren't an "added bonus"

2. I don't have to be "okay" with anything. She has the final say in who she chooses to date. I can only offer my opinion or express my disagreement in her choice of partner.

And I don't get why I would need to explain to you how me considering my children anything other than a bonus is a problem...

To you and their father... yes.

 

[MikelArteta]

Oh please the average single mother isn't a widow. They canoodles and csvorted with the wrong type of man and now it's your turn to clean up there mess.

Jerryld didn't have to raise little my'vonte but you do.



The reason their are so many single mothers in the black community is because they are coddled they know some simp ass nikka will be there to raise their kid and love em .


As long as she's looks decent she can have ten kids and nikkaz will simp disgusting.

Its the coli man. Where common sense isnt common. Just like fine ass @PeridotPuss just said earlier some nikkas here just say shyt to get daps. Life is very complicated. These dudes should just say they arent checking out for single moms and KIM. They just compound it saying every single mother are irresponsible, trash etc. It would be like a chick saying she aint messing with black men from the ghetto. That is an ignorant statement because not every single black men who grew up in the hood is in the streets.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

There are more single childless women than ever befote.

They ain't black.

A lot of these women are being punished for relationships ending. Yeah, some of the nikkas sucked. Some didn't. It's fukked up a chick who's relationship/marriage ended and she had two kids during that time is painted with the same brush as a thot with five kids by five thugs.

 

[AlainLocke]

This is why 80% of the nigguhs who post here get no pussay......

I rather get no p*ssy than have my life fukked up, fukking with subpar bytches...

Been there, done that...

I don't understand how you nikkas do the shyt...I got goals and plans and shyt...

If a bytch ain't at the right specifications...I am good....

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

You seem confused.

1. I did not refer to her kids as a liability. I just said they weren't an "added bonus"

2. I don't have to be "okay" with anything. She has the final say in who she chooses to date. I can only offer my opinion or express my disagreement in her choice of partner.

I mean if they're not a bonus then what are they? The children are usually the deal breaker to a lot of y'all soooooo...........

And that's some passive fathering. If my children will have to interact with some nikka I better be okay with it.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

it ain't a problem it just means you have unrealistic expectations for most men's perspective of the relationship

So basically... I need to accept the fact that ANY respectable man who finds it in his heart to date me will always see my children as a con?