All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Yup. Dudes who date single mothers have no other options.

Cam newton aint got no other options.
Russell Wilson aint got no other options.
Future aint got no other options.
Common aint got no other options options.
Diddy aint got no other options.
Bun B aint got no other options.
Fabulous aint got no other options.
TI aint got no other options.
Juelz santana aint got no other options.



I wish y'all would just stop saying stupid shyt.

Don't want to date single mothers? Dont.
No need for all this other bullshyt.

all those rappers already had kids. wtf you talking bout breh breh

 

[The Mad Titan]

A man with anything going for himself at all shouldn't date a single mom, especially one that's in her 20's or younger... or that is financially unstable. This is coming from someone that has dated single mom's in the past. I try to learn from my mistakes and others.

Mistakes happen's, things change, and people break up. But just like most women have no problem passing on a man with a kid let alone multiple the same should be the norm for women. This isn't law and everyone's situation is different but over all most people that are single parents really don't need to be jumping into relationships with other people that either A ) have no parenting experience or B) aren't stable in life financially or mentally.



Being a parent is a selfless act. You get no special props for doing the right thing outside of hopefully watching your kids grow up right. So Male or female when your a single parent you gotta hold that L. There is nothing good about being a single parent, doesn't matter how or why you are one.


I love kids, love them. But going into a situation with kids especially toddlers or teens isn't plus. Your lying to yourself if you think its going to be viewed as anything positive, at most the man or woman won't care because they like you. But no person goes out looking for people with kids to date unless perhaps they are unable to have kids or something.


I advise all men and women to not do that, nothing against single parents obliviously.


Men date single mom's all the time though. Doesn't matter the race.


How many women do you know that date single fathers Women aint dumb, "why would I date a single dad when I can get a man that has no kids."


Kids take priority over everything and if they don't then you already dun messed up.

 

[Man On Fire]

shyt is crazy, everybody i grew up with is legit wifing single moms lately now that we in our mid 20s

my cousin proposed to his girl last night for NYE, she got two kids now he got one on the way with her

my other homie i known since we was 12 proposed to his girl late 2016, dude ain't ever been happier

another homie got a kid and found a girl with one, dude is way happier now then he was with his baby moms

the tides are turning and maybe it ain't so bad brehs, the pursuit of happiness should always be the goal

A good woman is a good woman breh

to your homies finding happiness in our sisters and channeling the strength of our ancestors rebuilding the traditional Black family

 

[Diyhai]

They ain't black.

A lot of these women are being punished for relationships ending. Yeah, some of the nikkas sucked. Some didn't. It's fukked up a chick who's relationship/marriage ended and she had two kids during that time is painted with the same brush as a thot with five kids by five thugs.

Problem is why did they need to have a kid to find out he sucked
if u knew he wasnt shyt why have a baby with him

 

[aXiom]

I mean if they're not a bonus then what are they? The children are usually the deal breaker soooooo...........

And that's some passive fathering. If my children will have to interact with some nikka I better be okay with it.

nikka... if you found a woman with 2 kids that was great enough that you would consider her long term potential, would or would you not opt for a seedless version of that same woman if the option was available?


And no, it's not passive fathering.. the woman has the final say in who she decides to let into her life. If you have an issue with dude being around your kids then take it to the courts. Relationships go south for any given number of reasons, but if you chose good woman to have your seed, then worrying about whether or not she'd jeopardize your kids well being for companionship isn't something you'll be doing... as per @Out2TheOld post... I don't disagree with her and she has the right mindset.. I just stated that dudes looking for a long term relationship with a woman would preferer her to be seedless... I'm still lost at me having to explain this to some of you.

 

[Street Knowledge]

My cousin dated a single mom for 4 years and got engaged. 4 months after getting engaged he got a great job offer in Texas and was planning on moving there. She was down to go but her baby dad found out and was like

"Um... what are you doing? You're not taking my daughter from NYC to Texas"

Long story short it was a huge shyt show but eventually they broke up because he couldn't turn down that job and she couldn't leave her child

 

[2CT]

Let's nip this in the bud since my show is on...

@Rarely-Wrong Liggins I hate to put you on the spot, Love however...as a childless handsome, sexy , man with plenty of options...

Do you consider me "tainted goods" or my children as a "con" or "liability"? The Coli seems to think so....

if your children's father hit you up right now and said "take me back" you would at least consider it

that's what makes a relationship with you a liability, it ain't anything to be offended about though cause it's still possible to have a long and successful relationship

 

[blackzeus]

:Sadjeb:

 

[Voice of Reason]

Not only am I a woman but for all intents and purposes I am also a single mother. Please believe me, my stock didn't decrease the moment I gave birth nor the moment I decided to separate from my husband. For every arrogant prick who believes he's somehow better than me because he was lucky enough to not knock someone up, there's someone else out there who sees my value and my children are an added bonus.

fukk what you heard....I'm choosing.

The simps that dapped that

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

if your children's father hit you up right now and said "take me back" you would at least consider it

that's what makes a relationship with you a liability, it ain't anything to be offended about though cause it's still possible to have a long and successful relationship

I wouldn't consider it. I have no reason to...

And I'm definitely not offended. To be offended would mean that I consider anything said to be true. This is funny to me.

 

[Dr.seuss Swag]

Honestly my whole life I wanted to date an older mature woman, less drama and a woman that actually knows how to take care of man and isn't worried about the stupid shyt in life that younger woman find themself getting caught up in

 

[DaHNIC82]

Sadly the majority of the females today have at least a child or two. Its about what you're willing to tolerate. Now if the baby daddy is some bytch nikka that always wanna trip or the in and out of jail types, I suggest you leave them alone.

But the sad part is what options are really out there for cats unless they really really put endless time and energy out? the vast majority ones whom are single are either on that "I don't need no man, Im bout my money and career " bullshyt, Crazy as bat shyt, play lil mind games with you etc.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Single moms and broke nikkas are one in the same so why is only one okay to shame? Works both ways by the way.

what if she's a single mom with a good income and got all her own shyt. I've never dated a single mom but I do know a couple who fit that description, the reason they single is just simply because the marriage didn't work

 

[2CT]

I wouldn't consider it. I have no reason to...

And I'm definitely not offended. To be offended would mean that I consider anything said to be true. This is funny to me.

you an anomaly than, most females would and i bet you would too he gave you the right reasons to

but anyway we speaking on generalizations not on a case by case basis, you seem offended cause you the one in here taking shyt personal

 

[ⒶⓁⒾⒶⓈ]

Only if you already have the same number kids


otherwise