All my homies are wifing up single moms...

Larry Lambo

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Most people are average looking with a good job. What are they supposed to be looking for? What is anybody supposed to be looking for? Billionaires and supermodels?

Touche.

But I've seen some of these ladies and the guys they dealt prior to having a kid vs. after. They may not have been dating billionaires but those requirements changed up a little.

Before kid: Popular athletic stylish type dudes (exciting)
After kid: Conservative basic looking family oriented dudes (boring)

Of course women will argue that's not "lowering their standards", but nonetheless it's a guy that wasn't good enough for you before but is good enough for you now.
 

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Touche.

But I've seen some of these ladies and the guys they dealt prior to having a kid vs. after. They may not have been dating billionaires but those requirements changed up a little.

Before kid: Popular athletic stylish type dudes (exciting)
After kid: Conservative basic looking family oriented dudes (boring)

Of course women will argue that's not "lowering their standards", but nonetheless it's a guy that wasn't good enough for you before but is good enough for you now.

So you're just going off the stereotype that only frumpy, unkempt men date single moms?:childplease:

I know no one like this......
 

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So you're just going off the stereotype that only frumpy, unkempt men date single moms?:childplease:

I know no one like this......

This is what I see

Before kids

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After kids

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I have no problems with the single mother or the child, its the separated father that gets on my nerve. Men are territorial as hell, and I'm not sure if I want to deal with that for the rest of my life. Men see you moving in on their girl ( no matter how bad he treated her) , and wars breakout.
 

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It's damn near unavoidable these days
Yes if you date black women. I date PAWGS and most of the ones I meet wouldn't dare have a kid out of wedlock or they'd be disowned byt heir family.

Date Black women brehs
 

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Yes if you date black women. I date PAWGS and most of the ones I meet wouldn't dare have a kid out of wedlock or they'd be disowned byt heir family.

Date Black women brehs
A lot of white women are single mothers too.. Especially in Ga
 

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nikkas dont even like sharing their apartments but, we suppose to share our women. And not just any broad but, our damn wife :gucci:
:francis:Ever had someone ask you to break them off a piece of a kit-kat bar? I bought it because I wanted both pieces:ufdup:

If you want all the pieces, the only way to guarantee that is if nobody opened the package:ohlawd:
 

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Finding a person without kids is hard especially in the black community. I really wish people would stop because its most of the parents are not together & or the relationship wasnt serious to begin with. I just randomly looked up an ex-coworker who is 24 now, has 2 kids now, she has 1 and the other is due this month. And the baby mama/daddy usually makes it difficult to move on. Especially if the other parent is crazy. But I side eye people who dont have kids who consistently date people with kids. Like the single moms with 2+ kids and who don't have their stuff together. Most of the men I know without kids who always date single moms do it to freeload off them. Single parents are quick to move someone in and start new relationships. In fact a single mom in my state boyfriend got arrested because he was raping her 19 old daughter for 4 years.
 

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Finding a person without kids is hard especially in the black community. I really wish people would stop because its most of the parents are not together & or the relationship wasnt serious to begin with. I just randomly looked up an ex-coworker who is 24 now, has 2 kids now, she has 1 and the other is due this month. And the baby mama/daddy usually makes it difficult to move on. Especially if the other parent is crazy. But I side eye people who dont have kids who consistently date people with kids. Like the single moms with 2+ kids and who don't have their stuff together. Most of the men I know without kids who always date single moms do it to freeload off them. Single parents are quick to move someone in and start new relationships. In fact a single mom in my state boyfriend got arrested because he was raping her 19 old daughter for 4 years.
:huhldup:And fact is, if the relationship is serious, the kids are gonna meet the significant other at SOME point. Not saying that is the norm, but there are a host of reasons
not to get tangled up in "Just add water" families.
 

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:francis:Ever had someone ask you to break them off a piece of a kit-kat bar? I bought it because I wanted both pieces:ufdup:

If you want all the pieces, the only way to guarantee that is if nobody opened the package:ohlawd:

Where all these virgins at breh?
 
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