I curious to know what you had written. I'm 'that girl', so I hear you, but that's also how I managed to do it right, by actively looking for what could go wrong. I tested and discarded MANY potentials before finding the right one.
I don't see that on the internet
at all, where you be at?
Lol... Well on thecoli for example.
When a marriage/relationship thread pops up it's always a bunch of
"Been married 75yrs... I'm the best. She's the best. Sex is the best. Nobody cheats, nobody farts....Kids going to to Harvard. All my friends been married 75yrs too, they don't fart either.."

Ive been on this earth a good while now, and I can say for certain either muthafukaz are just lying...or they are living in a delusional world because it's feels better to live in that world, than to face reality.
I'm around all kinds of people, from different cultures, different races, religions ages etc...
I have yet to meet 1 person in a marriage who: isn't cheating
hasn't gotten cheated on
Isn't Unknowingly getting cheated on right now.
Isn't Only together for the kids.
Hasn't been separated
Doesn't Wish they were never married
Isn't unhappy
There are only a few exceptions that I know and they seem to be happy with their situation... They're like the super religious couples that I know.
Some real Muslims from the middle East, 1 really super devout christian couple, and I know a few Amish people too lol.
And thats only a few of couples out of 100s of relationships I've seen.
They only work because marriage seems to be their life's purpose and no matter what, they're gonna make it work. I've seen bullshyt with them too tho
Now you husband might not have cheated on you because there are a few men with great self control...but he definitely wants to fukk other women.
If you ask him and his says otherwise... He is a bold face liar and is probably cheating on you. Cause he can't even keep it real about that question.
If you ask him does Harlemhottie ever get on his fukkin nerves and he says NO...he's a bold face liar and he might kill you in your sleep.
If you ask him does he ever wish he was single again and he says NO....he's cheating and has secretly been putting small amounts of rat poison in your food for months.
I kid, I kid lol
In conclusion lol...Married dudes are always reminiscing about the life they use to live and would trade their life for mine in a heartbeat . If I even think about their lives I get physically sick
(Sorry but You asked for this long ass shyt HH lol)