Anybody on child support?

[Rawtid]

Again with the non comprehension. I stated to you why I replied to you. That sentence shouldn't have even been difficult to read, even for you.

But lets see if you can give a serious answer.

How do you define 50%? And what is your argument as to why the childs father is responsible for that 50%?

And I'm no deadbeat, my daughter doesn't hurt for anything, trust. And I don't even have any issues with the way her mother spends the money except that she doesn't put any in savings. I'm arguing for the common man here, not for myself, so miss me with the deadbeat shyt.

How do you define 50%?

What new expenses do you have because you had a child? List how much you pay for them per month and divide it by 2.

 

[Wild self]

There's no arguement. He's responsible for 50 because he's his father. Simple as that.

So what about the mother? Where is her 50% of her share of the kids' bills? Talk to ya pops about his opinion about CS and see if he wishes it on any male that takes care of his seed...

 

[Rockstar Mom]

They swear women make babies by themselves.

He's an idiot. I doubt he takes care of his daughter. He feels like doing the minimum is enough. When as a real parent, you want to do above and beyond. You want props for a judge forcing u to do minimal?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

@MeachTheMonster Most men don't ask for shyt from women, cause we know that women don't like to buy things cause they cheap as fukk.

you dapped up this post in the other thread

Remember women are spenders they make more but you probably have more

Now you're saying women are cheap.

But anyway most women who have a standup guy who takes care of his responsibilities won't try to trash him or take him to court. It's an Internet myth that there are a bunch of innocent dudes out there being taken advantage of by women or the courts. 9 times out of 10 if the woman is being purposely hateful/spiteful the man gave her plenty of reason to act that way.

Even towards their own children, even if the courts told them to pay CS, they still refuse and GET NO JAIL TIME. They think that life is a joke and think that someone has to protect them. If a woman is immature enough to let the courts get involved with family affairs when the man is still holding it down properly, then she is a worthless bytch. Most of them type of women grew up without fathers, anyway.

Again the laws aren't gender specific, women can, and do go to jail for child support as well. The type of woman you describe here the "worthless bytch" will 9 times out of 10 attract the "worthless nikka" and they will doom each other to a lifetime of fukkery, this has nothing to do with child support, custody, or anything else.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

So what about the mother? Where is her 50% of her share of the kids' bills? Talk to ya pops about his opinion about CS and see if he wishes it on any male that takes care of his seed...

My parents are married. Why would my dad be on CS?

 

[Rawtid]

So what about the mother? Where is her 50% of her share of the kids' bills? Talk to ya pops about his opinion about CS and see if he wishes it on any male that takes care of his seed...

The custodial mother pays for the expenses up front. Child Support is a reimbursement of what she already paid, Unless dude is paying by the day.

 

[Numpsay]

If you live in a major city (which most people on here complaining do) your average jump in rent is gonna be a good $500-600 at least.

Maybe you are the kind of father to have your kids live in the hood because it's cheaper?

It's all over the place, because it's responding to different dumb shyt from an incompetent group of nikkas.

The way you all are trying to simply the role you should play in your kids life is "You're already pay the rent, utilities, and car note for your self, what else do you need from me? A kid isn't much. ".

Y'all act like you don't remember the financial impact BOTH of your parents had on your life. Or maybe you don't because you never had both, or maybe you did and you just don't appreciate the impact of 2 parents or maybe they did nothing for you. Three possibilities which would explain why your child doesn't come home to both biological parents everyday anyway. You tried to build a foundation on an earthquake fault line. Your parents obviously didn't do it right, so of course your kid will suffer from your fukked up mentalities about the way family/finances work.

You are making up numbers to support your argument. I stay in Houston, I have a mortgage. If I wanted to upgrade into a house with another room(I have 3 already) my mortgage just might jump $50.

In regards to apartments here in Houston, going from a one bedroom to a two bedroom you will see an increase of $100-$150 if that much. So quit with the bullshyt. No ones rent is doubling are going up in excess of $500 if they are adding another room.

To your second point, would a responsible woman not already be responsible for her own living expenses? It appears you want to absolve females for the majority of their responsibility and have the male take on the majority. Not once in any of your post have you attempted to balance the two out. But you want to preach on what males should do. From what I have read in this thread none of these males are trying to duck child support, just pointing out the fallacies and injustices of the system. If you are to blind to see them then so be it, but don't talk down on us because of it. We have lived it and we experience it you are on the outside looking in.

My child doesn't come home to two parents because we just didn't work out. We moved on, it would be worst for my child if we attempted to "force" things to work and have her in an unhappy household. I'd wager you don't have any kids, and kudos to you for that, but I have a kid and I live in the real world. No relationship married or not is fool proofed to not fail. shyt happens, we deal with it.

To your last paragraph just stop with that bullshyt already.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

I really can't believe dudes are arguing about paying chump change in CS.

I have yet to see anyone state they're paying 1k+ a month.

These couple of hundreds y'all talking about BARELY cover daycare.

 

[Wild self]

Yeah because every guy on CS is father of the year who is a victim of a lazy triflin baby mamma

Most fathers are decent men that want their fair shot to raise their kids without going broke. Using courts to get your way is just plain selfish and ignorant. If you had a father and if you heard his opinion about it, he would be pissed too. If you were forced to pay CS and rarely saw your kids, would you not be outraged? Especially when the CS money is not tracked and used by your ex's selfish endeavors?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I really can't believe dudes are arguing about paying chump change in CS.

I have yet to see anyone state they're paying 1k+ a month.

These couple of hundreds y'all talking about BARELY cover daycare.

You were gonna pay rent for yourself anyway. You should be fine.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

You were gonna pay rent for yourself anyway. You should be fine.

nikkas don't even feel like they should be responsible to keep food in their child's mouth, all because they don't live with them

 

[thoushallhustle]

Most fathers are decent men that want their fair shot to raise their kids without going broke. Using courts to get your way is just plain selfish and ignorant. If you had a father and if you heard his opinion about it, he would be pissed too. If you were forced to pay CS and rarely saw your kids, would you not be outraged? Especially when the CS money is not tracked and used by your ex's selfish endeavors?

How are you a good dad if you rarely see your kids? there is no Wanting to raise your kids but not wanting to go broke. Are you stupid?? Kids cost money. If you cant afford a kid dont have one. Who whines about a check when you dont have to feed, bathe, supervise, chauffeur, clean up their vomit and diarrhea, get up at 3am when their sick, help them with their homework, do their laundry, etc.

 

[Numpsay]

There's no arguement. He's responsible for 50 because he's his father. Simple as that.

50% of what? Are you going to make an argument or continue with your trolling bullshyt.

They swear women make babies by themselves.

Again no one is claiming that. Like I swear you nikkas is acting ignorant in here.

How do you define 50%?

What new expenses do you have because you had a child? List how much you pay for them per month and divide it by 2.

There is no 50% line that can be drawn in all situations which is the real issue here. Not all situations are the same. But off top general bills should not be included IMO because that is something a responsible adult is responsible for anyway. Things like...

Rent
Utilities
Carnote
Car insurance
Groceries

No custodial(male or female) should expect their support from the other parent to cover 50% of those things. They could possibly see an increase a couple of those things, but not enough of an increase to warrant the other parent pay half of that expense.

Now parents should be responsible for 50% of

Clothes
Shoes
School expenses
Extracurricular activities
Camps
Grooming

What a lot of you are missing is CS payments in most situations are turning into 100% funding for the child and the female isn't having to use her own income to pay her half or 50% because she doesn't have to.

Now my situation.

My childs mother still stays with her own mother. The only bills she has is her car note, and car insurance. Should she use the money she receives from me to pay half of those things? She doesn't, but its the argument some of you are making here. She splurges on my kid with the CS payments monthly, because she can, she basically has no bills. Her and her mothers schedule allow for daycare to not be an issue either. So in my case, my payment in effect is 100% of what takes care of my child. It doesn't bother me much because I at least know where all the money is going, but she could still stand to put some up for a college fund but instead of arguing with her about it I just started one myself.

 

[Wild self]

I really can't believe dudes are arguing about paying chump change in CS.

I have yet to see anyone state they're paying 1k+ a month.

These couple of hundreds y'all talking about BARELY cover daycare.

$6-800 goes a long way in today's economy. Is that same $6-800 not a lot of money if you had to pay for CS?

"Just a couple of dollars."

Especially if you hardly raise the kid or see them grow up properly.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

$6-800 goes a long way in today's economy. Is that same $6-800 not a lot of money if you had to pay for CS?

"Just a couple of dollars."

Especially if you hardly raise the kid or see them grow up properly.

the average child support payment is $280

And if you hardly see or raise the kid that is your fault, not anyone elses