Anybody on child support?
- Thread starter Silver Surfer
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Fuk that. No kids, no wife. I'm living life right now
Ya boy done had a couple of scares since than, but I'm still out here childless, no bm's , loving life ,I'm young, great job, own shyt, and live in ATL, so I know I'm a target for these chicks, but im not getting caught up any time soon.
Dog Based Gremlin
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Same here
I'm young, great job, own shyt, and live in ATL, so I know I'm a target for these chicks, but im not getting caught up any time soon.
When chicks try to make u guilty for being single
I be like
700 a month
Paying a all inclusive one week trip to Dominican republic monthly
Paying a studio apartment in 90 percent of the world monthly
Seeing my kids shine at life is easily worth more then that. I can make it another 6 years....I started doing this side hustle that covers around $950 a month so I'm good. The only thing I have to give up is changing out the 20's on my charge . 
Silver Surfer
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Seeing my kids shine at life is easily worth more then that. I can make it another 6 years....I started doing this side hustle that covers around $950 a month so I'm good. The only thing I have to give up is changing out the 20's on my charge .
Silver Surfer
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Most women on the onset will always give the tagline "I know you are a good dude and would take care of your kid. I wouldn't want to be one of those women if we broke up and put you on child support etc.."
Then you break up, and everything changes. I was giving mines money every month after we broke up, my people told me to keep records, but me thinking things were cool, I was being ignorant about it, we almost got back together and then broke up again(check the worst things you have said to a girl thread). 3 months later she filed child support.
She had a lawyer and the whole 9 and everything. I didn't think I needed one, but boy was that a mistake. She lied and claim I hadn't helped her with anything, they hit me with $3000 in back child support, and wanted me to pay $800 a month. This was all in the back room with a mediator. I could accept that or take my chances with the judge, I took my chances with the judge because the mediator was totally bias, amplified by salary at the time with "projected OT" and hit me as hard as she could.
Went in front of judge, at that moment I was steaming, because I was basically being railroaded. Judge was more sensible though. She kept the $3000 back child support because I had no proof I was paying but chopped down the monthly payment into half and required I provide the healthcare coverage.
All in all I would suggest filing on yourself if you and the baby moms aren't together. I was going to file on myself but she seemed cool on the money I was giving her so I didn't think it was necessary. I was ignorant back then I know better now.
I went through that so none of you would have to. Heed the advice brehs.
They can refile every 3 years, I keep thinking mine will because my salary is 3x's what I was making before. But whenever we come across each other I try to look as modest as possible, even borrowing someone elses car to go so she doesn't think I'm ballin when she sees mine. In the meantime she has had another kid and has another dude on CS. Guess it has become a hustle for her.
I'm young, great job, own shyt, and live in ATL, so I know I'm a target for these chicks, but im not getting caught up any time soon.
Same here
When chicks try to make u guilty for being single
I be like
Salute and respect to y'all, please believe they will try to pull that on you, keep dodging those bullets.First off:
at you financing this broads lifestyle.Secondly: Why you got so many kids man?!?
@Gene E. Yuss to answer ur questions..
I financed her lifestyle cuz I was married n we had two kids right away. And its part of our religion that a man be able to have his fam debt free and comfortable. We divorced right when the sec one was born, but I had to help her start her business because she had a master's degree but zero work exp.
I have so many kids cuz I was foolish. Then ended up getting money too young , which leads to sluts. I don't have regrets but I have lil bro n cousin, like 13 of them... none have kids. I preached all this shyt to them and they see how much I pay out. Sec bm, I was a hoe.. and simply got caught up w one chick. 3rd bm... was in love with, in love for the first time after like 200 bytches n still w her. If I would have waited I would have just one w her.
And im not a fatherless nikka either, lol, my pops always talking shyt.
I financed her lifestyle cuz I was married n we had two kids right away. And its part of our religion that a man be able to have his fam debt free and comfortable. We divorced right when the sec one was born, but I had to help her start her business because she had a master's degree but zero work exp.
I have so many kids cuz I was foolish. Then ended up getting money too young , which leads to sluts. I don't have regrets but I have lil bro n cousin, like 13 of them... none have kids. I preached all this shyt to them and they see how much I pay out. Sec bm, I was a hoe.. and simply got caught up w one chick. 3rd bm... was in love with, in love for the first time after like 200 bytches n still w her. If I would have waited I would have just one w her.
And im not a fatherless nikka either, lol, my pops always talking shyt.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
I'm glad I ain't got no kids. I want to be in a stable marriage first. I could say I'm lucky but honestly I've never came into a close pregnancy call. I've been too cautious. Shoutout the mothers AND fathers that hold it down. I know too many deadbeat daddies and mommas that manipulate the system.
The Refiner
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What effect does the baby mother not having a job have on the amount of child support? Should I put myself on child support?
IT all matters.... both incomes... and even income earning potential.
one thing that hurt my bm is her education being higher than mine.
and if you are the guy-- yeah put yourself on support..... because anything u do now might not count and if it doesn't count then she might try to get back support from you.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Some women don't even want to put dudes on support......
The court and state actually forces women to go in on nikkas.
and even the trif chicks who want to screw you over ----------at the end of the day, it's all regulated. ......... they can only 'get u' as much as the law says.
I'm like whatever about child support.I pay over $2500/month, around ... not including health care and private school and random other shyt. like 40k or some shyt.
It sucks but it's not the worse thing that could happen. Being a sry nikka not in your kids life is the worst thing that could happen.
If you're not prepared for ALLL the consequences, then just don't have sex At ALL.
2500/mo? My nikka for half that I can make it so you never have to pay child support ever again 
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Breh, I've had broads literally get angry at me once they learn I gotta vasectomy.
Marriage?
Kids?
No thanks
. I've been shooting blanks for like 5 years now. Literally impossible for me to get caught slipping 
$700 and two days off work is all it takes breh. If you think you might want kids, freeze your sperm. Costs around $500 for one year.