Imma be real, she didn't put down black men at all. She simply said she wasn't interested.
Self-Hate by definition means she finds fault in herself. It doesn't mean herself and people like her. Ethnic self hatred would.
1. We don't know her life, we only know this snippet, and The Coli bias for anyone saying something like she did automatically means she will be demonized.
Is the prevailing preference on the coli to date only blacks a form of ethnic love, or simply a hatred for others? We can't have it both ways.
2. Again, she never put down black men, and she made a fair arguement. She might be in love with alabaster skin, square jawed, Calvin Klein model types. What is wrong with that?
Granted, I can never understand writing off dating people simply because of their skin color or ethnic background, as it seems silly for me to say "I dont date black girls/indian girls/white girls/etc" when I find all kinds attractive. That said, her preference to not date them doesn't make her bad, especially if she didn't go on a tangent about the lazy and disrespectful Tyrones and Deshawns of the world.
She might very well love herself, she just don't find particular features of black men attractive. I typically don't find flat butts attractive, whether on white or black women, but its more prevalent on white women. Does writing off a white woman with a flat butt make me racist, and not accepting a flat butt sista me exhibiting self hate? I think this term is being used as a weapon and not a diagnosis.
this lost bytch has cacs messaging her saying she is pretty for a dark skin girl and she is still lusting after them 
