Are Average Women RUINED by being Sidepieces to Ballers, Players or just Men with Better Options ?

[Bossino]

I can't tell you how terrible just two years of average life was. I got no bytches. I got clowned for getting no bytches. A bytch would tell me about her "man" (12 yo boy) with no intentions of getting with me, my momma wasn't even telling me I'm handsome anymore and people don't want to be around you like that if you not really good at anything at that time and you just meh to look at.

For nikkas that gotta do this for their entire life. I get why you hang with me. Women want to be around me. You want to be around women. You gotta be a top tier guy. I get to be an a$$hole and a dikkhead who shows no care for anyone and I get what I want. Even if you hate me, you can't hate what's around me and that puts you in place to market yourself to her and sell her on your long term viability.

I really had to think back to that to have appreciation for brehs who just don't got it like that. With cacs, at least they can go to other races where the standards are lower. The only way a Black man can go to another race and benefit is if he's packing. And yes, women talk and they know.

Packing don't mean much for BW. A lot of brehs packing, they want more than just that. White women sometimes want just that.

I can tell you from unfortunately recent experience you can be packing, there's always a bigger fish, especially with sistas, bc they'll deal with more brehs, than most Beckys and Marias.

I'm out the game, 5'8'' in good shape, responsible, intellectual black man just screams safe settle down option to bw and I get that at this point in my life. But I refuse to not be desired by the woman I'm with/claim. Having her be with you bc you make her laugh, you're witty, you're well off, but she's fukked considerably better or is primally attracted to another type of man is just willingly placing yourself in a low success scenario. You can believe when she tries to hit you with that Jets "You Got It All" spiel, but it's BS and women who are certain level of attractive 7+ are masters at this emotional gaslighting/manipulation, but when they pull the rug if you fully believed them. Boy that shyt'll sting, hell even if you were skeptical if blindsided it'll still hurt

I'm just gonna focus on me and fukk what chooses up that's decent. I'm done looking for anything of substance, and I'll shut down any interested broads post 27 because we know what's that's about

 

[Bossino]

If you average or you gained weight and you average now, take your ass overseas if you got bread and single. Dennis Spurling and plenty of six and seven figure cats doing it, you should too

Dawg I'm headed to Vancouver as soon as I'm done with school. I know a rigged game when I see one. I was never going to find what I like/want in SoCal

 

[Bossino]

I appreciate that.

I’m just trying to save both genders from heartache.

The problem is that society tells us women are the romantics and men are the practical, logical sex. It’s actually the opposite. Men are HUGE romantics and fall in love and think that’s where their story ends. But marriage is honestly the start of the race and a lot of men lose because they didn’t realize they had to keep running.

Man that's my only peace with ol girl I had to bush I didn't do anything/give anything to her I couldn't get back but time. I'm not giving out time going forward. It's not my nature nor do I have the playing rank to be mean, but I'm just switching to wallflower mode

 

[TheGooniestGoon]

If she's been with men who have certain qualities she's never experienced, it could be money, wisdom, very good taste, sex, etc. she's never satisfied with any man who has less than that. I have several exes who are pushing 30 or older and refuse to get married or settle down because they're still holding it for my equal. They're always tweeting about refusing to settle and listing their requirements which all happen to describe me. Like @LadyJ2 said, they'd rather be with that nikka once in a while than be taken off the market by a man they deem as below them.

You nikkas are so delusional I’m crying

 

[Stuntone]

Crazy thing is OP is in his 40s.

40 and Fly loser.



How old is your Moms? I got a roster spot open.

 

[LadyJ2]

Most men don't want marriage. Few dudes are like me. Most want consistent sex, relationships and marriage are the main gateways to those Arenas.

Yeah, well, that’s the conundrum men have faced for thousands of years. Most men cannot get consistent sex without trading in their freedom. They also want their children to be raised well and cared for.

They think sacrificing their freedom = regular sex, cooked food, peace and quiet. But women don’t see it that way.

To quote the great Janet Jackson, we’re more - “What have you done for me lately?”

 

[#1 pick]

Yeah, well, that’s the conundrum men have faced for thousands of years. Most men cannot get consistent sex without trading in their freedom. They also want their children to be raised well and cared for.

They think sacrificing their freedom = regular sex, cooked food, peace and quiet. But women don’t see it that way.

To quote the great Janet Jackson, we’re more - “What have you done for me lately?”

I agree but I disagree with your point that men want marriage. Most don't want marriage from my experiences around a lot of men regardless of race

 

[LadyJ2]

I agree but I don’t think women are necessarily more logical when it comes to relationships. I think things are just more conditional with us. We definitely aren’t the romantics society says we are though.

Yes, conditional is the perfect description.

 

[Manolo]

You nikkas are so delusional I’m crying

I have no reason to lie on here. I still don't understand why everyone in this site assumes everybody here is an ugly incel lame. Whenever I mention real life stories, everybody thinks I'm capping. My birthday just passed and exes I haven't seen in 5+ years just texted me happy birthday and how much they miss me. Another ex I haven't seen since 2013 legit got married and hit me up right after to come visit her at the hotel she works at. @LadyJ2 and @CarmelBarbie already broke down exactly how women think in this thread

 

[#1 pick]

Dawg I'm headed to Vancouver as soon as I'm done with school. I know a rigged game when I see one. I was never going to find what I like/want in SoCal

Montreal is the best city I've been too. They didn't have more dimes than others but what they had was more 5s and 6s than anywhere else I've been. You know how 6s can be small town 8s. Just imagine that acting like a 4 with standards like a 3. Even average nikkas can go out there and clean shop. Very underrated Black female scene. But yeah, best looking city I've been to in my entire life. No where else comes close.

 

[Gloxina]

Low-key brag....so I gotta follow it up wit a low-key neg.


EDIT: I'm a womanizer too, so u already know the answer to the question, and you've jaded those bytches.

The next man who makes a thread about bitter, jaded women needs to be directed to this thread

 

[Gloxina]

nikka shut up and go get your fleshlight out the microwave

Y’all put that in the microwave

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

It's been said that women can't go backwards in lifestyle. So if she's chilling with a high caliber man, but never getting wifed. Will she able to go back to a normal guy?

Im a womanizer. I keep a roster. I consider myself a 7/8, bcuz I date mostly 6s and 7s., but I only wife up 8s and 9s. But I will put 5 on the bench with the quickness. Some of these 5s are very cool. I take them out and chill, they have great times, but I couldn't wife them right now.


I guess what i'm asking, if I'm a 7, smashing a 5. Will this 5 ever be able to be with a 5. Or will she always chase 7s.?

You ain’t got to lie to kick it smh

 

[Gloxina]

Yeah. I’ve said it before but I had a friend who ain’t cute. But she used to fukk with Brehs that looked good as hell, they never claimed her though. Anyway she was sad because she does online dating and no one ever really was clicking on her profile. We went out she never got approached. She never been in a relationship… but she had high standards for Brehs because of the men she was fukking. But she couldn’t pull those Brehs, let alone average Brehs. We had to talk some sense into her. She ended up with a balding Breh that has toothpick legs and a pillsbury dough boy stomach.

My other girl is on the higher end of average, she got huge ass and is thick. Her face is okay. She dresses like a slut. But she’s never had a man claim her. She just goes from endless fwbs and situationships. She too don’t understand why she’s never had a real relationship, but part of it is how she carries herself (half naked all the time) and that she has high standards for Brehs too. But she does at least try to come up off these Brehs and get their credit cards and have them fly her out places. She just never had a man love her or been in love.

What’s sad is that both are in their thirties and have kids…but never had a real relationship.

I tell women not to do the fwbs/situationships. There’s no benefit for women. If you never do those and only get in relationships, you understand where you stand a bit more. I do think the hook up culture has had a negative effect.

Everything you stated

 

[Ashley Banks]

Women are ruined by not having the men they deal with screened by their fathers or brothers. Women don't know s*** about choosing a man for themselves which is why they're so easily trapped in cycles they can't seem to break.

Women running to gay men and the men who treat them as side pieces for advice on finding a long-term relationship. Then they run to their thot friends.

When that fails they watch some TV or talk to a woman who hasn't had a real relationship in decades

If I had my husband screened by my dad I’d still be single. My dad HATED my husband when we first got married for no reason, literally that’s it. Then he got to know him and saw how he treats me now they’re best friends. So had I asked him initially, he would have said no despite all the positive qualities he has and that he thinks I’m the greatest woman ever.