Are Average Women RUINED by being Sidepieces to Ballers, Players or just Men with Better Options ?

[Mowgli]

If I had my husband screened by my dad I’d still be single. My dad HATED my husband when we first got married for no reason, literally that’s it. Then he got to know him and saw how he treats me now they’re best friends. So had I asked him initially, he would have said no despite all the positive qualities he has and that he thinks I’m the greatest woman ever.

I'm sure you'll see he was right in the end.

 

[Bossino]

If I had my husband screened by my dad I’d still be single. My dad HATED my husband when we first got married for no reason, literally that’s it. Then he got to know him and saw how he treats me now they’re best friends. So had I asked him initially, he would have said no despite all the positive qualities he has and that he thinks I’m the greatest woman ever.

You're relationship gets a decent amount of scrutiny on sight, but honestly it's mad interesting because I feel like one of the average man's better outcome with serious dating is what your man has with you. I wouldn't aspire to it, but assuming you stay with him it's far better than what most men in the middle get when they try to get out of the game

 

[Strapped]

Yeah. I’ve said it before but I had a friend who ain’t cute. But she used to fukk with Brehs that looked good as hell, they never claimed her though. Anyway she was sad because she does online dating and no one ever really was clicking on her profile. We went out she never got approached. She never been in a relationship… but she had high standards for Brehs because of the men she was fukking. But she couldn’t pull those Brehs, let alone average Brehs. We had to talk some sense into her. She ended up with a balding Breh that has toothpick legs and a pillsbury dough boy stomach.

My other girl is on the higher end of average, she got huge ass and is thick. Her face is okay. She dresses like a slut. But she’s never had a man claim her. She just goes from endless fwbs and situationships. She too don’t understand why she’s never had a real relationship, but part of it is how she carries herself (half naked all the time) and that she has high standards for Brehs too. But she does at least try to come up off these Brehs and get their credit cards and have them fly her out places. She just never had a man love her or been in love.

What’s sad is that both are in their thirties and have kids…but never had a real relationship.

I tell women not to do the fwbs/situationships. There’s no benefit for women. If you never do those and only get in relationships, you understand where you stand a bit more. I do think the hook up culture has had a negative effect.

Take a long walk with often & tell her to eat better because she'll feel better

 

[TheGooniestGoon]

I have no reason to lie on here. I still don't understand why everyone in this site assumes everybody here is an ugly incel lame. Whenever I mention real life stories, everybody thinks I'm capping. My birthday just passed and exes I haven't seen in 5+ years just texted me happy birthday and how much they miss me. Another ex I haven't seen since 2013 legit got married and hit me up right after to come visit her at the hotel she works at. @LadyJ2 and @CarmelBarbie already broke down exactly how women think in this thread

You might not be an ugly incel lame who knows it’s just that everyone on this site claims to be some 6’4 6 figure handsome ass nikka that bytches constantly try to fukk every time they’re out that it gets hard to believe. But who knows you might actually be the real deal

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Yeah. I’ve said it before but I had a friend who ain’t cute. But she used to fukk with Brehs that looked good as hell, they never claimed her though. Anyway she was sad because she does online dating and no one ever really was clicking on her profile. We went out she never got approached. She never been in a relationship… but she had high standards for Brehs because of the men she was fukking. But she couldn’t pull those Brehs, let alone average Brehs. We had to talk some sense into her. She ended up with a balding Breh that has toothpick legs and a pillsbury dough boy stomach.

My other girl is on the higher end of average, she got huge ass and is thick. Her face is okay. She dresses like a slut. But she’s never had a man claim her. She just goes from endless fwbs and situationships. She too don’t understand why she’s never had a real relationship, but part of it is how she carries herself (half naked all the time) and that she has high standards for Brehs too. But she does at least try to come up off these Brehs and get their credit cards and have them fly her out places. She just never had a man love her or been in love.

What’s sad is that both are in their thirties and have kids…but never had a real relationship.

I tell women not to do the fwbs/situationships. There’s no benefit for women. If you never do those and only get in relationships, you understand where you stand a bit more. I do think the hook up culture has had a negative effect.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You might not be an ugly incel lame who knows it’s just that everyone on this site claims to be some 6’4 6 figure handsome ass nikka that bytches constantly try to fukk every time they’re out that it gets hard to believe. But who knows you might actually be the real deal

It's not that difficult when you fukk ugly bytches like I do

On the flip side I've noticed that ever since I started to wear suits everyday more women approach me.

 

[Manolo]

You might not be an ugly incel lame who knows it’s just that everyone on this site claims to be some 6’4 6 figure handsome ass nikka that bytches constantly try to fukk every time they’re out that it gets hard to believe. But who knows you might actually be the real deal

I wasn't aware people on this site were like that, I just signed up here for The Booth and then started lurking in Locker Room later. I do make 6 figures and am handsome. My nickname growing up was Pretty Boy. All my friends get women and I didn't know dudes struggled with women like that until I got on here honestly. I'ma fall back on sharing my stories and go back to lurking cause it's clearly rubbing yall the wrong way

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm sure you'll see he was right in the end.

But he admits he likes him for me now, he just wouldn’t give him a chance at first because he’s not black. Is he wrong now?

 

[Mowgli]

But he admits he likes him for me now, he just wouldn’t give him a chance at first because he’s not black. Is he wrong now?

Yes.

Probably dont have kids.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yes.

so I shouldn’t let my dad pick for me? My stepdad, my brothers, my uncles all like him, they’re wrong too?

 

[Mowgli]

so I shouldn’t let my dad pick for me?

You should have before hand.

But to not focus on you,

based on what you see in the landscape I don't see how you can think women are good at choosing partners.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

It's been said that women can't go backwards in lifestyle. So if she's chilling with a high caliber man, but never getting wifed. Will she able to go back to a normal guy?

Im a womanizer. I keep a roster. I consider myself a 7/8, bcuz I date mostly 6s and 7s., but I only wife up 8s and 9s. But I will put 5 on the bench with the quickness. Some of these 5s are very cool. I take them out and chill, they have great times, but I couldn't wife them right now.


I guess what i'm asking, if I'm a 7, smashing a 5. Will this 5 ever be able to be with a 5. Or will she always chase 7s.?

whether she's a five or quarterpiece, she gon always believe she deserves the bag — especially if she every got a taste of being treated somewhat well or has been around a breh who has his life in order.

Forget about the ballplayer dudes and shyt like that because they want the (visually) higher end looking bytches. That will put a basic chick in her place with the quickness, even if she won't admit it

A so called regular breh with his shyt together will always eat.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Average bytches been blunts for handsome nikkas forever. Usually they realize that nikkas like me ain't feeling them the way they want and they move on to nikkas who really are feeling them. The problem is social media today has made them delusional or they would rather be along then to have average or worse.

My generation got jacked up the most because they thought they can hoe it up and now realizing, no one wants to wife hoes and no matter what, we will figure it out if you tell us or not. I would just rather women be like some I've dated and be like, "yeah, I was a hoe. I fukking and sucking dikk but here's why." Usually it's an abuse story or rape story as girls don't just hoe for no reason. They aren't stupid, they know nikkas don't like hoes like that.

yup.

she will learn tho. and often a bit too late.

you either stay in your lane or step it up and stay in that lane forever. and that's a tall task for 99% of these chicks. The competition on gets fiercer but an average chick can still reasonably go toe to toe against other average chicks and possibly "win"

 

[Majestyx]

Yeah. I’ve said it before but I had a friend who ain’t cute. But she used to fukk with Brehs that looked good as hell, they never claimed her though. Anyway she was sad because she does online dating and no one ever really was clicking on her profile. We went out she never got approached. She never been in a relationship… but she had high standards for Brehs because of the men she was fukking. But she couldn’t pull those Brehs, let alone average Brehs. We had to talk some sense into her. She ended up with a balding Breh that has toothpick legs and a pillsbury dough boy stomach.

My other girl is on the higher end of average, she got huge ass and is thick. Her face is okay. She dresses like a slut. But she’s never had a man claim her. She just goes from endless fwbs and situationships. She too don’t understand why she’s never had a real relationship, but part of it is how she carries herself (half naked all the time) and that she has high standards for Brehs too. But she does at least try to come up off these Brehs and get their credit cards and have them fly her out places. She just never had a man love her or been in love.

What’s sad is that both are in their thirties and have kids…but never had a real relationship.

I tell women not to do the fwbs/situationships. There’s no benefit for women. If you never do those and only get in relationships, you understand where you stand a bit more. I do think the hook up culture has had a negative effect.

more jawns need friends like you

 

[Apollo Creed]

You're relationship gets a decent amount of scrutiny on sight, but honestly it's mad interesting because I feel like one of the average man's better outcome with serious dating is what your man has with you. I wouldn't aspire to it, but assuming you stay with him it's far better than what most men in the middle get when they try to get out of the game

she spends her time arguing with men on the internet instead of with her husband.

let that sink in.