Are Average Women RUINED by being Sidepieces to Ballers, Players or just Men with Better Options ?

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When are we going to move on from these simpleton conversations?


This is what the "high value" wealthy black men are up to in this country. At this point all I can do is hold yall in my arms,and tell you its going to be okay. As the assimilation happens:wow:
 

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If she's been with men who have certain qualities she's never experienced, it could be money, wisdom, very good taste, sex, etc. she's never satisfied with any man who has less than that. I have several exes who are pushing 30 or older and refuse to get married or settle down because they're still holding it for my equal. They're always tweeting about refusing to settle and listing their requirements which all happen to describe me. Like @LadyJ2 said, they'd rather be with that nikka once in a while than be taken off the market by a man they deem as below them.

this.
 

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If I had my husband screened by my dad I’d still be single. My dad HATED my husband when we first got married for no reason, literally that’s it. Then he got to know him and saw how he treats me now they’re best friends. So had I asked him initially, he would have said no despite all the positive qualities he has and that he thinks I’m the greatest woman ever. :martin:
Ain't he middle eastern. He don't know no one middle eastern that's his friend. Do he have friends before knowing him that's middle eastern? That's a lot to ask for from a man. We always invision having a great friendship with the father of your daughters husband. You feel me so I get it. Just keeping it real.
 

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You should have before hand.

But to not focus on you,

based on what you see in the landscape I don't see how you can think women are good at choosing partners.

Oh so this is why you’re not making sense. You’re trying to prove a point. I never said anyone is good at picking my partners. I’m not arguing with you about who’s better or worse, i don’t care about that. My initial post was about me and me only.

I did good not listening to my dad because he actually loves my husband, you can admit that and still believe women aren’t good at picking partners breh.
 

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If she's been with men who have certain qualities she's never experienced, it could be money, wisdom, very good taste, sex, etc. she's never satisfied with any man who has less than that. I have several exes who are pushing 30 or older and refuse to get married or settle down because they're still holding it for my equal. They're always tweeting about refusing to settle and listing their requirements which all happen to describe me. Like @LadyJ2 said, they'd rather be with that nikka once in a while than be taken off the market by a man they deem as below them.
You sound like you treated them too good.
 

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Oh so this is why you’re not making sense. You’re trying to prove a point. I never said anyone is good at picking my partners. I’m not arguing with you about who’s better or worse, i don’t care about that. My initial post was about me and me only.

I did good not listening to my dad because he actually loves my husband, you can admit that and still believe women aren’t good at picking partners breh.
Let's wait for your looks to fall off and see how it goes. Let's wait for your husband to have an accident before we see how it goes.
 

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Women are ruined by not having the men they deal with screened by their fathers or brothers. Women don't know s*** about choosing a man for themselves which is why they're so easily trapped in cycles they can't seem to break.

Women running to gay men and the men who treat them as side pieces for advice on finding a long-term relationship. Then they run to their thot friends.

When that fails they watch some TV or talk to a woman who hasn't had a real relationship in decades
First page classic :russ:
 

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Ain't he middle eastern. He don't know no one middle eastern that's his friend. Do he have friends before knowing him that's middle eastern? That's a lot to ask for from a man. We always invision having a great friendship with the father of your daughters husband. You feel me so I get it. Just keeping it real.

No all my dads friends are black but he does get a long with my father in law. Especially since they’re both from SF. But I understand where my dad was coming from, especially looking at the times he grew up in, it’s hard to get used IR relationships when you’ve dealt with racism first hand. So I wasn’t too hard on him.
 

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Let's wait for your looks to fall off and see how it goes. Let's wait for your husband to have an accident before we see how it goes.

So this won’t happen if my dad picked? :dead: Answer Me this, why are you ignoring the fact that my dad has said that he would he pick him now? Plus my stepdad and my brothers liked him the first time they met him. What does that change? Will my looks not fall off now? Will there be no accident? :dead:
 

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You sound like you treated them too good.
Yeah, I realize that now. I just had too low of a bar for women. If she was cute enough to smash and tolerable to be around, I'd have them in my crib and open my life to them. I never looked into their past or the types of nikkas they were used to
 

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So this won’t happen if my dad picked? :dead: Answer Me this, why are you ignoring the fact that my dad has said that he would he pick him now? Plus my stepdad and my brothers liked him the first time they met him. What does that change? Will looks not fall off now? :mjlol:
Mowgli married an Asian woman, why he going so hard on you? I remember when juicy was on tiny chat, she gave brehs a chance.
 

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Yeah, I realize that now. I just had too low of a bar for women. If she was cute enough to smash and tolerable to be around, I'd have them in my crib and open my life to them. I never looked into their past or the types of nikkas they were used to
That's a big mistake. I never let females get comfortable when I was single and always make sure they earn everything they get.

Wife treatment has to be earned. That confuses chicks and you make it impossible for the next nikka to follow up when you just hand them shyt with no serious intentions.
 

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Mowgli married an Asian woman, why he going so hard on you? I remember when juicy was on tiny chat, she gave brehs a chance.

He’s trying to prove a point that women can’t choose men so he’s trying to make it seem like relationships can’t go south if the dad picked the man initially, it doesn’t matter if the dad likes the man after learning more about him, he had to choose him first or the relationship won’t work.

I was with a black man before my husband, I never stopped dating black men. I just met my husband and fell in love with him so I chose him. No bad feelings towards bm at all.
 
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