Care to define "great man?"
Are Average Women RUINED by being Sidepieces to Ballers, Players or just Men with Better Options ?
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Care to define "great man?"
It is her that chooses the definition, not any of us men. That's why you gotta ask questions and the right questions as a man
No doubt; subjective for sure
RareHunter
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Men and women should be courting for marriage. Anything outside of that will lead to the current ”community” we have. Then with no pride we have now started the next phase of disfunction, which is to be whited out through dating out. No dude seeing my daughter if he just wanna “date”. Go ”date” the next man daughter.
Thurgood Thurston III
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This is exactly what I keep saying.
Men are the problem.
Take a look at ANY fat chick's phone and you'll see ALL kinds of men trying to get with them--six figure earners, tall guys, guys with clout etc.
THIS, his pride too for sure, particularly for regular men. If the woman sacrifices some desires/preferences it can work. The issue contemporarily is women are no longer interested in doing the bolded, which is why most regular men are in places of subjugation in modern relationships, hence more dysfunction relationships, less relationships overall, and more single women than ever.
Why average men should "focus on themselves" word to all the memes
This is a precise way to say this, and definitely will use this in convos.So you’re saying women practicing hypergamy allows men to practice polygamy?
Y'all don't understand that relative to dating you're like rich people speaking on the middle class, you really don't have an idea of what day to day life is like for most regular looking mufukkas, and honestly don't have to work as hard. It's not an indictment on your character as y'all can't really help it you can only fully experience your own existence, but taking people's word for it, especially when large swaths of people give you the same sentiments would probably be smartSee, I feel you. I didn’t know that dating was so bad until I started reading the comment sections in YT videos. I thought ppl were exaggerating for attention
If a woman says I'm not normally the type of man she dates, or has guys vastly different from me in her dating past, I'm in a disadvantageous position. Only way out of this is too be relatively decent to well off in life and or to be one of top 2/3 sexual experiences. Otherwise she'll be able to palpably FEEL the settling.
When women say the bolded it means the guys she desires/is attracted to don't take her seriously or she can't get to commit, not necessarily due to a disparity in her as woman, but more often because she's so replaceable because the guy can get what she offers from boundless attractive women so they'd rather play the field at the time, or indefinitely.
When women have dating pasts resembling the italicized it can mean a lot of things but the most important is that she can be seduced/impressed/convinced with the right approach even if it doesn't come from Mr. Right per se. This is arguably worse than the first situation as it means she clearly emotional in partner selection and there are less basal standards/criteria. Therefore you can be solid to her but someone else can always "make her feel special"
Again this makes dating a zero sum game for the bulk of average men, as the women dealing with average men INCLUDING AVERAGE WOMEN feel they should/could/can/will have better.
This why despite a strong amount of bodies haven't had an actual GF, I only see dating as worth it if you see the potential of a life partner in the woman. Anything else is fwb/kick it/coolin
No, I totally get it now. I legit didn’t know women had never been on real dates.
All the girls around me were getting rent paid and cars and shyt. I was good and stayed with my one college boyfriend for years
(not saying I “missed out”), but he was good to me so I couldn’t complain about maltreatment or anything. I remember some girls caught an attitude because I said you didn’t need money to go to the club.
I really didn’t know
But I always encourage folks to think highly of themselves and not to put other men or women on pedestals. I still know what it feels like for a dude to not be feeling me or my look and I’ll be damned if that shapes how I feel about myself or makes me beg for his acceptance. We all just have to strive to be the best versions of ourselves, make prudent decisions and rock with those who value us.
Not MEN, thirsty men and simps. I refuse to give a woman attention I can't fukk or don't want to date
Every girl I've ever dated longer than 3 months in my life has told me that she loves me. I've only loved two women in my life outside of my family.
Agreed, bolded is key and well worded. I don't try to convince anyone to believe anything about me, either you get it or you don't. I really don't have to explainNo, I totally get it now. I legit didn’t know women had never been on real dates.
All the girls around me were getting rent paid and cars and shyt. I was good and stayed with my one college boyfriend for years
I remember some girls caught an attitude because I said you didn’t need money to go to the club.
I really didn’t know
But I always encourage folks to think highly of themselves and not to put other men or women on pedestals. I still know what it feels like for a dude to not be feeling me or my look and I’ll be damned if that shapes how I feel about myself or makes me beg for his acceptance. We all just have to strive to be the best versions of ourselves, make prudent decisions and rock with those who value us.
