Are u still holding out for marriage and a family or given up hope?

[DrX]

I'm at a crossroads of sorts. I really want a wife to build with and at the very least a companion to share my life with but we live in crazy times were I'm not sure if that's possible for a large amount of people.

My goal is to find a like minded soul mate to love and build if not I'm just going to stack money and try to leave the country. I don't see any other way to live logically. I'm definitely not trying to be around multiple random American women. These chicks r hurting and got fire in their eyes looking for a meal.

I do get lonely tho holding out for this like minded spiritual connection that's suppose to be waiting for me. I don't think it exist anymore.

Time will tell I guess. I'm hoping once I move I'll have a good dating pool of women with diverse backgrounds and personalities but I'm starting to think woman everywhere r the same because of social media influence.

 

[AlainLocke]

Nope...freedom until death...

Loneliness is just a side effect from being free from any commit outside yourself...

 

[Archangel]

I got married in November and just had my first son last week

If I can do it, anybody can.

 

[the cac mamba]

back with a vengeance, huh

 

[DrX]

Nope...freedom until death...

Loneliness is just a side effect from being free from any commit outside yourself...

So u want to be chasing woman into your 60s looking like a creep? Instead of having a companion? I'd having a relationship really that bad?

 

[King Poetic]

I think the reason people say this, is because a lot of men and women are waiting on that perfect person to come sweep them off their feet...in reality it's all bullshyt

 

[DrX]

I think the reason people say this, is because a lot of men and women are waiting on that perfect person to come sweep them off their feet...in reality it's all bullshyt

True but not me. Honestly I just want somebody that i can be friends with. I.dont even care about superficial shyt.

 

[Couth]

I gotta keep a girl on my arm.

When you got a female it makes you seem more human and less threatening.

But I've given up on the idea of a meaningful relationship. Just not gonna happen for generation y Nikka's. I'm gonna accept whatever decent looking broad starts stalking me next.

 

[El Coupeacabra]

Oh shyt a X thread

To answer the questions...if you a rolling stone, then get your roll on breh

I went the one woman route because the thought of catching ANYTHING from vagina of questionable quality terrifies me

If you can find you a woman who checks your boxes with a verified positive vaginal history report then fukk what these GMB nikkas talmbout

 

[semicko82]

Return of the Dude

 

[Mastamimd]

Sometimes I feel like I want to be alone. But real talk for the first time in my life I actually have semi legit options. Most the time I just got wasted and didn't date that much. I'll probably get hitched one day. Or just date until I die. Most the people that I find or have found lately have been long distance and that shyt is just frustrating. POF is eh. And I rarely go anywhere. I'm too much of a recluse nowadays but I still tend to find folk that want to put up with my bullshyt. Eh, one day I'll have the family. One day.

Hope all is well X. Real shyt.

 

[El Coupeacabra]

True but not me. Honestly I just want somebody that i can be friends with. I.dont even care about superficial shyt.

Lesson time.

Don't try to love a friend. Usually women will befriend you because they feel comfortable around you. Relationships ARE NOT comfortable. So the first time you hit her with the "baby I need you to ----" she gone and dip on your ass.

My BM is needy, expensive, and straight unreasonable sometimes. But shyt so am I

Once it got to the point (pre-parenthood) where I was thinking about calling her before I called my mama when shyt went left I knew what was up

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I definitely want a wife and kids. As soon as my house is finished renovating (the god damn contractor hasn't been here all week ) I'm getting back out there. It's bad enough I have to go on trips involving tolls to get to events, or nightlife with a young black professional crowd. Most of the women around here are married, or have kids. All my friends are married with kids. Their wives' single friends mostly have kids.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

Yes

Partly because I took a purity vow at age 17 & won't have sex until I get married

Partly because I never want to have sex with a condom on

Partly because sharing love & romance with a woman who truly cares about you >>> skeeting on random freak hoes

Partly because I want to have jits, and I grew up in a single mother-headed household and have an aching desire for my kids to grow up with a loving father at home

 

[SirReginald]

I'm at a crossroads of sorts. I really want a wife to build with and at the very least a companion to share my life with but we live in crazy times were I'm not sure if that's possible for a large amount of people.

My goal is to find a like minded soul mate to love and build if not I'm just going to stack money and try to leave the country. I don't see any other way to live logically. I'm definitely not trying to be around multiple random American women. These chicks r hurting and got fire in their eyes looking for a meal.

I do get lonely tho holding out for this like minded spiritual connection that's suppose to be waiting for me. I don't think it exist anymore.

Time will tell I guess. I'm hoping once I move I'll have a good dating pool of women with diverse backgrounds and personalities but I'm starting to think woman everywhere r the same because of social media influence.

I know a perfect woman doesn't exist just compatibility, so I still look at myself being married.