It don't have to be like man. U sound jaded. Most women aren't shyt and will kill your dreams but good ones still exist
It's not jaded it's reality...
I don't know where people get the idea that adding someone else to their life...gives them more options...and more freedom...
It is not about whether or not she is a good woman, it's about the struggle for power and control in a relationship. People want things...
It is the same for women too...
I would tell any woman...if you really wanna be some shyt in your life besides someone's girlfriend or wife or mother...don't get with a guy while you are young...spread that p*ssy around..and get your rocks off....
Do what you gotta do...and when your older and done doing what you gotta do...
You gonna find the male version of you at 35
Someone like me...
And Ima be like..."Well this ain't an ain't shyt bytch...she did something with herself besides getting knocked, cooking dinner and going to PTA meetings..."
And I'ma fukk with her and we gonna do cool fly shyt together cause we ain't gonna be none of these broke ass let's build together motherfukkers...
I already built my shyt...she built hers...we gonna go fukk off some money cause we ain't got no kids and we can travel and do all types of cool shyt...
Now I'ma enjoy a mature stable relationship with a motherfukker that has something and I ain't gonna try to knock her up and all this wack shyt because I wanna have a heir cause I maxed out at 28. If she gotta pull a 55 hour work week...I ain't being like..."Baby you need to be at home..." nah bytch...go get your bread and I'll see you next week...cause I have my own life...
It's 2018...
It ain't 1955...
Nobody is leaving their momma house at 19 getting the equivalent of a $20 hr job and a wife and a house and having a pension ready for them at 64 and going off into the sunset...
People gonna move and hustle and fight and claw for their money and as a man...you shouldn't have stragglers...you shouldn't have to explain why you gotta do this and why you gotta do that...
You should do what you gotta do because nobody else is gonna do it for you...
And no woman wanna hear why you can't do something...or why you don't have this or why you don't have that...
Women ain't getting with no man because of her heart or because you make her feel warm and fuzzy inside...
Black men need to get off this "I gotta have a wife and kids..." shyt....get your money first Black man....cause motherfukkers ain't gonna take care of you...
And that relationship you get into at 28...can be the death of you at 45...if you wanna take that risk in this economy go the fukk ahead...
Ain't nothing like a single stable Black man with money...ain't fukking nothing in this world
) I'm getting back out there. It's bad enough I have to go on trips involving tolls to get to events, or nightlife with a young black professional crowd. Most of the women around here are married, or have kids. All my friends are married with kids. Their wives' single friends mostly have kids.
