Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shyt storm ensues

[Arishok]

Complain about being approached by men, then complain about not being approached by men, brehettes

I've never complained about men approaching me/street harassment. Women are individuals with individual thoughts, not a hivemind.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Men should definitely approach but the problem is that women as a group are sending mixed signals. The same woman who want you to pay for dates, approach first and do all the other traditional male roles also want you to share house work and cook.

 

[DaRealness]

They want you to approach them....they don't want you to approach them. Jesus......

Which is it?!

 

[Killer Instinct]

#YouOKsis



I've approached the majority of women I've been with but this is what women campaigned for.
They have literally backed a political campaign to legally prosecute men they didn't want speaking to them.
Perhaps the women who seek solace in traditional courting rituals and who want to find a s/o before menopause should begin speaking out against those who don't.
Between society attempting to stifle male masculinity at every turn and the talk of sex robots?
America will be Japan status in the next few decades.
You made your own bed. Lie in it.

 

[darealvelle]

I did a little observation this past tuesday night at this bar(black majority bar). A lot of dudes were approaching females for dances and small talk, and none of those birds were not having it. So women want men to be aggressive, but when men do the females act like they got germs or something lol.

 

[Audemar]

I can believe people are seriously entertaining what this washed-up White chick has to say, like her opinion is of value? If she were being approached constantly by Black men she would be saying something else wouldn't she? As always, it's not about being approached/not, it's about WHO is approaching vs who is NOT approaching.

 

[GunRanger]

A 45 year old women posting pictures on Reddit seeking attention. If she was getting attention in real life she wouldn't be posting thirst lingerie photos on a site that houses all sorts of weirdos. There is something off about her mentally, most likely. She is single for a reason.

Good looking women of all ages post sexy pics on reddit. It's not some niche site

 

[Yesterday]

Listen to what a washed up old attention whore says brahs.

Men approaching has little to do with women finding it attractive and more to do with them wanting to be lazy and not risk rejection. Women want to be able to find what they want with as little risk as possible.

Y'all need to stop letting these women pic and choose when they want to be equal or seen as inferior

 

[Vandelay]

I get into debates with my lady because she's a quasi-feminist. You can't champion a lot of these so-called women's issues and then say your attracted to what you just chastised when the right dude comes along.

Does a segment of men need to really step it up when approaching you, sure. Do they need to refrain from calling you out your name, check. Should he not reduce you to a fat ass, I get it.

But don't get all aggy, when men lose the very thing that makes them distinctly male outside of a penis.

These stupid ass internet campaigns for criminalizing "street harassment", make me want to call them all some sensitive-ass bytches...and I don't even use the word bytch.

 

[KingFreeman]

I can believe people are seriously entertaining what this washed-up White chick has to say, like her opinion is of value? If she were being approached constantly by Black men she would be saying something else wouldn't she? As always, it's not about being approached/not, it's about WHO is approaching vs who is NOT approaching.

Her looking like that, being white, and 45 apparently without a husband is lookin' real suspect

But this is truth. women only talk that 'don't approach me' spiel when a dude they don't find attractive does so. That's basically it.

 

[philmonroe]

Reddit is full of weird CAC geeks who wouldn't know proper casual interactions if it knocked them over the head with a mallet.

This site the black equivalent at times when it comes to the same subject. You seen some of these threads and responses about this topic?

 

[YouMadd?]

Good looking women of all ages post sexy pics on reddit. It's not some niche site

okay what's your point?

 

[BlackAchilles]

Of course you need to make the first move




... Unless your height/bank coefficient's too low, you creep harasser

 

[unit321]

For whatever it's worth, I don't think men are feminized. She's probably upset that men aren't hitting on her because she isn't all that... and she had to rationalize the reason why they aren't approaching her.

 

[Gravity]

TL;DR

45 F • /r/AmISexy

skinny, fit 45 yr old women posts pictures to a subreddit, redditor asks how to approach her, she says she would be impressed if a man approached her in general, men are feminized and that she wants a the guy to be dominant and approach her. Absolute shyt storm ensues.

Body

To begin with, a decent looking, fit 45 yo lady posts pictures in a sub dedicated to asking 'am i sexy?' (surprising, but she looks 10x better than the fat 20 yo feminists running all over the place).

A redditor compliments her and asks:



She responds with:



My first thought was, "yeah sounds about right, you might be 45, but you look decent enough to be approached", reddits responses was as follows:



Whiny-ness levels are off the charts, her reponse (yes its worth the read):



I don't think you could get much more honest than this. This is the unspoken attraction that women experience and if you haven't picked up on this by now, then what are you even doing when you talk to a women. Their response just screams of butthurt, she gave you great advice, to grow some balls and be the one to initiate and of course the response was:



Apparently saying that fit men like fit women is being judgmental. I'll end the discussion between them with this last response:



Summary

If you haven't already, learn how to initiate with girls. It should be obvious by now that a dominant, goal oriented guy is going to be more of a turn on than one who sits back and expects them all to chase him. I know that some may complain by saying, "she's a 40 yo who hit the wall, she just wants attention from guys, this doesn't prove anything!!", but really her point stands pretty clear and it obviously applies pretty well with a lot of our new generation of 'men' and the fact that it strikes a nerve with so many people just stands to prove it even more. In general, great read, and shows reddits reaction to a feminized women.

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She should blame feminists who are trying to make a crime for a man to say anything to a woman in public. Saying "hello" to women now is considered street harassment.