LadySimone
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Girl it's the same with the "anti thug" dudes. They want to redirect traffic to themselves and away from the so called thugs.
Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shyt storm ensues
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Girl it's the same with the "anti thug" dudes. They want to redirect traffic to themselves and away from the so called thugs.
AnotherRoute
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That's the only reason I would say it. 4 of the online feminist that I have met in real life do not believe in gender roles but believe its man's duty to provided protect and cater to women. To them that's not a gender role just what a man should do.
Also, the only time I have felt like women should approach men is when I find out a chick liked me and the only clue she gave me to pick up on it was the fact she was standing 5 feet away from my vicinity
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I know right. Lol @ being 45 single and still trying to play the game, but mad bc it ain't working no more
PhonZhi
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MalikReloaded
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She's not bad looking for a 45 year old but the days of getting a fairy tale prince are over 
And to be honest, maybe she should be more proactive about letting the guy she's interested in know she's interested because men aren't running to date chicks who're almost 50 years old
And to be honest, maybe she should be more proactive about letting the guy she's interested in know she's interested because men aren't running to date chicks who're almost 50 years old
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Larry Lambo
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She's mad the men she wants aren't approaching her, at that point you might as well take matters into your own hands. Approach a dude if you're interested in him, light casual conversation is enough. Then it will go on from there. And as much as these days the conversations are about gender norms and roles, this is a consequence of questioning it. Personally, I don't think a woman should twiddle her thumbs and anxiously await a man to approach her. Men can be absent minded as hell, also they are not mind readers and don't pick up on things women expect them to. When you're 45 you might as well just approach the dudes yourself.
Real talk.
A woman that is getting approached by men she likes, shouldn't approach. But if she's not getting approached by the men she likes then I'd advise her to take matters into her own hands and make moves.
Maybe she needs to get pumped and dumped by some of the dudes she really likes to realize what level she is on.
Everybody is glossing right over this shyt.
And even then some women respond to different things, your job is to intuit the vibe and exercise some basic fukking empathy. Men on both sides of this debate fail to do that the majority of the time.
Elle Driver
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I hate the tip toeing. It's not that men aren't men, it's just the quality of men she believes should be approaching her aren't.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
ok...how am im shallow again ?
Been telling nikkaz all that pickup artist bullsh*t is for the birds. Workout, get money, let your body and wallet speak for itself. However their should be a caveat explaining the difference between "approaching", and "sweating". If you see a girl you like, you walk up to her and speak your mind, give her your number, etc etc. Don't get out of character or start being something you're not just to bag a bish. You calling her 10x a day is not the wave. Now ironically on the other hand, even if women don't admit it, and it disgusts them, deep down they like being sweated, they enjoy the catcalls and the looks, even if they have no intention of responding to it. So a lot of dudes can't differentiate between the two (due to women blurring the line a little bit), so they say f*ck it to the whole process, if she wants, she will come to me.
i never said i wouldnt date a female in her 30s....and most ppl men and women avoid unattractive people....actually im not shallow at all....
Larry Lambo
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"Physical cues to approach?"
What does that even mean? If you like what you see then you should spit, plain and simple. If she doesn't want to be bothered she will let you know after you approach. By not approaching you eliminating the possibility of success without even trying. That's lame to me.
Plus if you are a high value male then it doesn't matter whether she showed physical signs of interest. If you're an average looking physician, why the hell would you wait for physical cues? You know how many dudes smash chicks that weren't physically feeling them at first? But then they open their mouth, and either their game or their perceived wealth got them the draws.
Elle Driver
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She'll be fine, white men are notorious captain save a hoes.She waitin' for a Tommy Lee in a business suit to ask her out
So much truth to this.