ottorocket
All Star
Personally, I don't think you can TRULY know if you're compatible with someone until you live with them.
Been with my girl for two years and she wants to live together
- Thread starter the cool
- Start date
Yup. Next time you get in a argument, she'll be like "get your shyt and get out"
You gonna be looking at her with the"you sure?"
She's gonna be like, "nikka you heard me"
Now you packing your bags while she playing TLC's "No scrubs" hella loud and you looking
....all while she is on the phone texting her new nikka setting up a dikk appointment likeand then looking at you with the
and then she says "you got 5 minutes breh and you gotta get
"
Happens all the fukking time
"Two heads are better than one"
Literally and figuratively.
You don't have to pay two rent/mortgage/water/cable/light bills.
Taxes work out better with two people.
You don't have to commute to each others house.
There's plenty of stuff.
And living together is only part of it. There's making investments, having kids, and a plethora of other thing teaming up with another human being can grant you.
My point was. If you aren't ready to explore those things after two years. The when/how will you know when you are ready. What are you waiting for?
No offense but it sounds like she was the alpha and you were the beta of that relationship and she figured she could play on you once the ink dried on that paper. They say what doesn't kill you, teaches you, salute for learning from experience
I moved in with my ex after dating for 4 years (18-22) after we both graduated from college. We lasted for 2 more after going out seperate ways. As everyone else is saying, if you think she's the right one there's only 1 way to find out. Personally, I felt as if my girl and I grew apart. We went from spending quality time together (but living in seperate places) to basically coexisting in 2 seperate worlds (when living together). I wouldn't change anything and I'm glad I could learn from the experience. We're still cool tho, not a bad breakup at all. Looking back, I was too immature and wasn't ready for that settled down life
guess I'll always be a rolling stone
. As everyone else is saying, if you think she's the right one there's only 1 way to find out. Personally, I felt as if my girl and I grew apart. We went from spending quality time together (but living in seperate places) to basically coexisting in 2 seperate worlds (when living together). I wouldn't change anything and I'm glad I could learn from the experience. We're still cool tho, not a bad breakup at all. Looking back, I was too immature and wasn't ready for that settled down life guess I'll always be a rolling stone
Action Mike
All praise..
And my point was, bring these points in first before mentioning it's been 2 years.
Thanks
Op mentioned 2 years.
There is no set time frame, but after two years you'd expect to have at least considered those things.
mcdivit85
Superstar
Been with my gf for almost 4 yrs and im 23 giing on 24 and she turn 23 this year both college grads. No talk of moving in together at all. She said she rather be alone and I'd rather just live alone too until im ready make sure this chick is wofe material.
- been with girl since she was 18
- she's about graduate college and experience a whole new set of opportunities
- she'd rather live alone that with her dude
Peace
Blackrogue
Superstar
girl wants to live together after one month..
I could never marry a woman before living with them
daboywonder2002
Superstar
you arent gonna learn anything new by living with a woman. All that stuff you can learn just by visiting or sleeping over.
mcdivit85
Superstar
If you're in your low to mid 20s, I would say wait. If you're in your late 20s and over, and you've been with her for two years, then it might make sense. I would hope that if you've been with her for two years, you two make a good couple. If not, then then you shouldn't even be dating much less moving in together.
Don't let ghost stories stop you if you really want to try it out. Either they moved in with someone too quickly or they weren't a good judge of character to begin with. I don't know how you can date someone for a year or two and not have a good gauge on who someone is. How do you not know if someone is clean or not after two years? Living together or not. How can you not know if someone is sensible with money after two years? Living together or not.
I live with my girlfriend and it's been great. But I'm not an idiot, so I had a good understanding of who I had been dealing with for the two plus years we dated before getting a place together. And it's been smooth sailing.
Peace
Don't let ghost stories stop you if you really want to try it out. Either they moved in with someone too quickly or they weren't a good judge of character to begin with. I don't know how you can date someone for a year or two and not have a good gauge on who someone is. How do you not know if someone is clean or not after two years? Living together or not. How can you not know if someone is sensible with money after two years? Living together or not.
I live with my girlfriend and it's been great. But I'm not an idiot, so I had a good understanding of who I had been dealing with for the two plus years we dated before getting a place together. And it's been smooth sailing.
Peace
daboywonder2002
Superstar
yes u can.