Being in your 30s with no kids and not being married puts you in a strange place.
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FIVE THINGS I WOULD TELL MEN OR MY SON ABOUT WOMEN
1) Her loyalty is to her nest and her offspring . When a woman “loves you” quote unquote she dosent necessary love you or the essence of what you are she loves the IDEA of what you are.
2) Women don’t see the world as man does. Men and women are polarized reflections of each other. Women FEEL the world and men THINK the world
3) Women see men differently. Men are vehicles men are an means to an end and a means to a lifestyle that a women may want. Men are a means to build whatever life she has in her head. When a women meets or is interested or looks upon a man she see her house her children her wedding and even her bridesmaids. Women see men as a tool to get to were she want to get. As long as you are a useful tool for her she is happy...if not she will find somebody else and discard you funny shyt is try not to take it personally
4) Women dont love you the same way. When men pick a women and love a women we connect to her and threw her. We want a balanced reciprocal connection we give so she will give back to us the same way we give to her . Since men love threw a women and connect threw her men think women connect with us men and threw us the same but they don’t. Women love and connect threw the best the children ,you the house it’s all the samething. Women love threw a whole Conglomerate women don’t love Individually. Men love ad generate passion women do not they give it back to you. A women’s love is nothing but a reflection of the love you give to her.
5) A women mission is just different. A women’s Ultimate mission in life is to have offspring and her nest and Perpetuate life that is a women’s biological function that is the mission that guides her threw her entire life. This mission is different from a mans. A mans mission is to passion and a man MUST have a passion. A man with no passion is like a ship with no rudder and direction. If you dont have a passion a mission or a direction in life you will get swallowed up by hers if you pick a women. You will become weak and Ineffective and you want be happy. With the same token and if you do have a passion a mission and a direction in life you have to find a women that is going to get on board with those three things. No matter how she looks how good the sex is or what type of personality she has dosent matter if she not on board with those three things she isn’t good for you. You can’t pick a women for the wrong reason if you don’t have a mission a passion or a purpose you will pick a women for the wrong reasons...a women is an accessory not a priority.
Sorry to get so preachy.
1) Her loyalty is to her nest and her offspring . When a woman “loves you” quote unquote she dosent necessary love you or the essence of what you are she loves the IDEA of what you are.
2) Women don’t see the world as man does. Men and women are polarized reflections of each other. Women FEEL the world and men THINK the world
3) Women see men differently. Men are vehicles men are an means to an end and a means to a lifestyle that a women may want. Men are a means to build whatever life she has in her head. When a women meets or is interested or looks upon a man she see her house her children her wedding and even her bridesmaids. Women see men as a tool to get to were she want to get. As long as you are a useful tool for her she is happy...if not she will find somebody else and discard you funny shyt is try not to take it personally
4) Women dont love you the same way. When men pick a women and love a women we connect to her and threw her. We want a balanced reciprocal connection we give so she will give back to us the same way we give to her . Since men love threw a women and connect threw her men think women connect with us men and threw us the same but they don’t. Women love and connect threw the best the children ,you the house it’s all the samething. Women love threw a whole Conglomerate women don’t love Individually. Men love ad generate passion women do not they give it back to you. A women’s love is nothing but a reflection of the love you give to her.
5) A women mission is just different. A women’s Ultimate mission in life is to have offspring and her nest and Perpetuate life that is a women’s biological function that is the mission that guides her threw her entire life. This mission is different from a mans. A mans mission is to passion and a man MUST have a passion. A man with no passion is like a ship with no rudder and direction. If you dont have a passion a mission or a direction in life you will get swallowed up by hers if you pick a women. You will become weak and Ineffective and you want be happy. With the same token and if you do have a passion a mission and a direction in life you have to find a women that is going to get on board with those three things. No matter how she looks how good the sex is or what type of personality she has dosent matter if she not on board with those three things she isn’t good for you. You can’t pick a women for the wrong reason if you don’t have a mission a passion or a purpose you will pick a women for the wrong reasons...a women is an accessory not a priority.
Sorry to get so preachy.
TheArchitect
All Star
Being in your 30s with no kids, not being married AND minimal sexual experience (3 bodys) puts you in an even stranger one....
If I may inquire, how'd did you get here my good man? Some long term ish didn't work out?
TheArchitect
All Star
Honestly it was more of a mental thing...To put it simply, females left a bad taste in my mouth from an early age. Asides from a friendly/polite basis, any experience I'd had with them was always negative and hurtful. I suppose you can say I mentally checked out after a while, and my frequency from interacting with women on that level went from average to damn near non-existent. Even worse, I consider myself to have a high sex drive, but I could/can never do anything about it. I don't even know what it's like to have "soul-snatched", per sey. (sp?)...Hell, I don't even know what it's like to even have any kind of connection with someone I even find attractive, much less like....If I may inquire, how'd did you get here my good man? Some long term ish didn't work out?
I feel you I mentally checked out too for years, but I had a bytch I was fukkin tho.
I'm so mad that I let all that time pass by without me getting at more women.
Do you plan to get back in the game?
I think you should because I don't think you'll be ready to deal with a relationship or marriage if you haven't been dealing with women like that.
I know it's sucks, I really do, it feels like it's not worth it, but in the end you have to keep pushing through because if you don't holla at chicks you won't get one that will magically show up to you. So you gotta put in the work.
Idc how old you are get at these hoes man.
I'm so mad that I let all that time pass by without me getting at more women.
Do you plan to get back in the game?
I think you should because I don't think you'll be ready to deal with a relationship or marriage if you haven't been dealing with women like that.
I know it's sucks, I really do, it feels like it's not worth it, but in the end you have to keep pushing through because if you don't holla at chicks you won't get one that will magically show up to you. So you gotta put in the work.
Idc how old you are get at these hoes man.
Ayeeee you sound like me in a decade
, I got 7 bodies and I'm 20, but I too haven't had a serious girlfriend or actually got an emotional connection :strugmjcry:, plus porn just making me more hesitant to put myself out there, since I can get that nut plus, hearing endless stories of heartbreak makes not even want to take the risk 
nikka u 20 lol u gotta whole decade plus.
Ayeeee you sound like me in a decade
I know, I've just always felt distant, as a person IDK
Bumblebreh
Collecting honey and money
It means you are now an official employee
Henry Orbit
Wave Gods
I can relate to what you’re talking about. After the last three women I went on a few dates with (and they all ended weirdly), I just mentally checked out. I can be a bit socially awkward, I’ll end up saying or doing something they don’t like which they break it off right there. So I figured the common denominator was me, decided to check myself out of the game and go work on whatever I was doing wrong, which left me jaded. Even when I see women I’m attracted to now, I’ll tell myself “ehh, what’s the point?” I’m not sad or depressed, but I just don’t want to expend energy on approaching or dating when I use that towards doing something else constructive.
I always tell my buddies if you have a good woman, don’t mess it up, because dating gets strange after 30. I hope I can get out of this state of mind eventually
Nah imma boss.
I was asking about the ya poster.
When you hit her with facts she never responds.
I was asking about the ya poster.
When you hit her with facts she never responds.
Damn nikka. Sounds like you 30+ single with no kids and only 3 bodies involuntarily. Do you still live at home?
TheArchitect
All Star
I want to get back in, but I don't get as many opportunities seeing that I'm working most of the time. I've started Uber as well, so that may help with some interaction. To me dealing with women is like that shyt everyone goes through when they first start working: To get a job you need experience, but to get experience you need a job....
Ayeeee you sound like me in a decade
Ha, when I was your age I only had one body, and it stayed that way for years after......
Not exactly involuntary. I just never really try....i can count on my two hands how many times I've ever tried anything with a female...
For now I do...been living in hotels the past year because of my job I've been working....getting my own spot in a month or so....getting back on the road this Sunday
