Being in your 30s with no kids and not being married puts you in a strange place.

[Balla]

I can't provide women using me. I'm talking about women using men, as in they want him to spend all his money while she just saves up.




Men want p*ssy, but women don't want dikk?

You are not using a woman's body if you have sex with her. She's having her fun too.

That's meeting both needs.

Why do women think like this? So if I'm making a bytch cum back to back and I'm barely nutting, is that me using her?

They technically using me because I'm making them cum like crazy and they want to fukk as much as I want to.

Sex is an equal thing, not some you're using a girl for her body, then what she doing to men?

That to me sounds like a nikka should jump though hoops to get p*ssy.

No thanks.

What I'm saying is that this is how the dynamics go.

Women care for their kids and themselves only.

Men care for both.

Most men are weak to their wives and a woman needs a strong man to make her love him.

What do you mean by the bolded?

Most women want me to cuff so I can't live my life like a lion.

Provide examples of these women you speak using you and how?

Men use women and women use men. It’s only a problem when one feels more used than the other. If you want p*ssy you are using her body for sexual gratification.

Men’s wants will not always be first depending on the dynamic of the relationship neither are women. Are you capable to put others before you or do you expect to be put first at all times. That’s never going to consistently happen not even in a healthy relationship. Someone always has to somebody else needs before his or her own and hope that the other person does the same for him/her when the time comes. People who think ONLY of themselves and their pleasure are never going to sustain a healthy relationship man or woman.

I met guys who attract selfish women. I hope you are not that guy.

 

[the bossman]

Men want p*ssy, but women don't want dikk?

I never understood why people say shyt like that. You're "using" her p*ssy. Like Wtf? This broad came more times than I did

 

[Balla]

That's why u got all these simps out here. They don't think like real nikkas, they don't know how-to fukk these bytches to sleep.

I always think "I bet this bytch won't make me cum once, but I bet I'll make her cum all night."

I've always thought about myself making a bytch feel good, like imma make this bytch love me.













#SleazeBallGang

I never understood why people say shyt like that. You're "using" her p*ssy. Like Wtf? This broad came more times than I did

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I think women on average are far better at handling being alone than men. But at the end of the day no one wants to be truly be alone.

i agreed with up until this point. This is a blatant lie, i see more aunties wishing they had family then uncles.

If that was true women wouldn't be jumping into the next relationship just as fast as they got out of their previous ones

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

By the time I reached my late 20's I was making great money and was a bachelor. Had a nice lil rotation of 3 or 4 chicks a week but still felt loney going to sleep/waking up alone everyday. It was time to settle down. I slid in the dm of that girl that got away from me back in the day. Pulled her wife's her and have a fam and now im slowly getting back to the old me and now im getting the best of both worlds. Got a wifey but smashing chicks on the side when I choose. Her ass ain't going nowhere

Ya'll like playing games

I wish my broad would consider having a side dude. It'll be a cold day in hell that day...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Facts.

Marriage is really for kids, comfort, and society. There's rarely that ever lasting love.

I won't ask you to share your personal story about your uncle, but was there any key thing besides that that caused your view towards marriage ?

Do you ever think about getting married ?

Well the my parents for one played a critical role in how I view marriage and my mom treated my father. My dad has a lot of beta make in him. To this day me and my monther don’t speak cause I’m one of the few men that she can’t control. My parents Divorce when I was 8yrs old and ever since then I always wanted to be game Savvy.

When started get poplar school for play sports I got see women date with the trend if you and I got to see women’s true nature going to school to school to compete in my sports that I was involved in.

When I went to all black college I just got numbe to it all and just women period funny shyt even thoe I lost my virginity at 16 I was a late bloomer it really didn’t all come together till I was 28.

Its just female nature is so Unpredictable and in my family alone it been some horror stories. Looking out at feminism today marriage is damn near susicide. Even the pimp rosebudd said no matter how tight your game is a women can always leave and you should let her walk some come back some dont. I just like my peace of mind and just wanna focus on self betterment.

 

[ThugLife]

Most people in their 20s are too broke to do much of anything.

fukk you nikka

 

[Alpha Legend]

Shid I am 21 with a kid and a baby momma who I am on great terms with and a bunch of other hoes I mess with. I live one hell of life. When i did not have a kid I did not give af about living or nun. I was like fukk it mane. I will just survive. After I had my kid I was like this lil nikka need to look at his dad and be like damn. This guy is the shyt. Every since than. I got a damn near perfect credit score, a travel all the time, awesome, great pay, saving on point and I got HUGE investments. All I saying kids don't always tie you down if you a rel boss nikka they inspire you to step your game up. shyt plus my kid cost around 500-600 a month to maintain unless minus all the trips we take to disney world and stuff like that. Me and baby momma split all kid cost too and bills.

 

[Max Power]

Not everyone's built for this wife and child shyt. Some of us just gotta go it alone... Population control

 

[Phitz]

We just agree to disagree

I agree, you worship the system. The rest of us can breed in spite of it.

 

[Diyhai]

A month after I wrote this I got my girl pregnant.

did u get a test
might be a stepdad and not even know it
jokes .... i hope

 

[1thouwow]

did u get a test
might be a stepdad and not even know it
jokes .... i hope

 

[Rell Lauren]

Your peak shouldn’t be until your mid to late 30s as a man. I don’t know your situation but as long as you’re in decent shape, take care of yourself and have a good career, you should have p*ssy being flung at you from all angles.

I’m getting way more now then I did in my early to mid 20s now that I’m more established.

Most women peak by their mid to late 20s. That’s just how biology works.

All I have going for me is my job. I've accepted it as is.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

All I have going for me is my job. I've accepted it as is.

You’re 30. That’s still relatively young. You still have plenty of time to pursue a career that’s more fulfilling. What’s your job?

 

[StretfordRed]

This is very common in major cities e.g. London where I am from.

But to be honest I sit back and think - am I happy? The answer is no

I am going to Japan alone as the people who want to come are married and/or with kids. Even when going out I have to plan it around them needing to do stuff their their partners.

Weirdly enough all the women I am meeting right now are all anti-kids. It's frustrating as I know I shouldn't even think about being in a full time relationship with them. But it's really hit or miss out here

I am hoping this year I can just settle with 1 woman, who in the future would like children and would like a nice small personal marriage.

So after this post I actually met someone on OKC and although she’s from London we ended up in Japan around the same time inadvertently

We’re in a relationship still to today and moving in with each other in a little while

Funny, eh