Being in your 30s with no kids and not being married puts you in a strange place.

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Being 30 and single with a good career your options are unlimited.

Dating in your thirties as a man is friggin easy

And only insecure people care what others think about them

I have a couple friends in their 40’s who are unmarried and no kids. shyt gets very strange after a while. Women don’t want dudes that nobody else wants so you have to keep some females in rotation you cannot be single!

My advice to those that are over 30 and single. You better get money and stay fresh on the dating scene.

Or get a female from overseas.

Don’t be the old single weirdo.
 

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Once people find out that you're over 30, no kids and not married, they'll tend to try to find ways to bring you in the land of misery. Folks out here lying like having kids is a walk in the park and marriage is the best thing ever. Live life on your own terms.
Had a few pregnancy scares last year. So glad none them came true, i enjoy my freedom too much right now :whew:
 

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After a certain age clubbing and all that shyt seems juvenile. Just get your shyt together. Some people just like shyt to fit they narrative.
Stopped clubbing when i was like 22. Dont miss it all. But now I'm intrigued with building knowledge, businesses, passive income, etc(obviously you can do both, but the risks associated with clubbing are drinking and promiscuous unprotected sex which is eventually a recipe for kids)

Feels great to have the money spend on shyt i want.
 

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Tomorrow isn't guaranteed to any of us.You can be 40 have your first kid and live to 100 .Kids aren't the hard part,it's the woman you impregnate.You will always love your child but that woman things can change.That young slim woman weight can change from 120 to 220 faster then a sports car.Waking up to same woman every single day for rest of your life you better be peepared.Marriage is strong decision.Cats afraid of being old and lonely :mjlol:
 

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Once people find out that you're over 30, no kids and not married, they'll tend to try to find ways to bring you in the land of misery. Folks out here lying like having kids is a walk in the park and marriage is the best thing ever. Live life on your own terms.
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I'm single in my 30's, no kids, good job, own spot, :flabbynsick: etc. It's dope being able to pick up and go when yo want, travel and smash randos, not having to "answer" to someone. While all that is cool, after a while though you realize you not tryna be that 40 year old single weirdo. IMO most (but not all) cases being single and old tends to say either you haven't grown up or you're incompatible.


I'm not in a rush to settle down but I'm not tryna be 70 years old with nobody to watch re-runs of Martin with :sadcam:
 

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Stopped clubbing when i was like 22. Dont miss it all. But now I'm intrigued with building knowledge, businesses, passive income, etc(obviously you can do both, but the risks associated with clubbing are drinking and promiscuous unprotected sex which is eventually a recipe for kids)

Feels great to have the money spend on shyt i want.
Peace of mind is when you have kids you chose to have.
 

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Move to a big city instead of dusty ass Louisiana. It's normal to be a single childless 30something professional in a big city.
But then he couldn't afford a paid off house, which he needs to feel better than nikkas

shyt I can afford to buy house cash in Bumfukk, LA and I have a wife and kid :pachaha:

For someone doing so well at life dude spends a lot of time crying about what other men do :jbhmm: :dame:
 

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we are like damn unicorns to these broads.

i'll be at a get together with my
homies,theyre women and loose
female friends and i'll have broads
laughing and flirting (because i'm charming)
and one will always go......so how many kids you got.
and after one of the homies ole ladys go.
he's never been married and dont got any children.
:usure:


you can almost hear a synchronized puckering
of pussies.


wat6rr.jpg

Yo!

You had me dead with this shyt man. :pachaha:

The exact scenario is SPOT THE fukk ON describing this shyt.:whoo:
 

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To each its own my pops is in his mid 40s been divorced from his 2nd wife for 5 years and loves it he has a new broad every few months, got a new whip travel when ever he wants and got a roster of single moms looking for a :cape:

And the current generation is his on steroids when it comes to thots and single motherhood so if you move right in your 20s you should :eat::eat:in your 30s
 

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35, married, a 2 year old daughter, me and wifey make good paper, do what we want, and life is great.

:blessed:

Pick the right woman (Proverbs 31) and all that mess you talking will be obsolete.

The PROBLEM is y’all choose and deal with foolish women.

When you realize sex is nothing more than a physical sensation that binds you to a woman spiritually you’ll recognize how to find a woman you can be a wealth builder with.

Like someone said on here before...

#CBFB

CHOOSE BETTER FEMALES BREHS!

:blessed:
 

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I'm open to the idea of a LTR but one thing I realized as I turned in my 30's is that I find myself turning down women more and more often. I can't begin to tell you the amount of chicks that put their bid in only to later show they were nothing but a bird in disguise. From my experience I can say that women past the age of 31-32 are practically undateable. Because they got this ticking time clock going on in their bodies, they are in a rush for your full commitment. And when I say full commitment I mean moving in, kids, and marriage within 1-2 years. Women in their 20's are just looking to chill and go with the flow.

But that's just from my experience. Your mileage may vary. :manny:
 
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