Besides work and school how do us wack brehs build rapport with interested women?
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SheWantTheD
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the internet?
also maybe start with girls on your level. you ain't gonna come out the gate smashing IG models. so stop living that coli dream. if you can't deal with that then become less lame and get your money up, focus on yourself.
also maybe start with girls on your level. you ain't gonna come out the gate smashing IG models. so stop living that coli dream. if you can't deal with that then become less lame and get your money up, focus on yourself.
ThisUh...there are thousands of dudes with multiple baby mamas that ride the bus with Obama phones bruh.....some homeless dudes got girls comfortable being homeless with them living on the streets and in shelters....so what's the problem...ur mentality is stopping u...not lack of possessions...
SheWantTheD
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How busy are you on the weekends? There are all types of stuff and meetup groups online where you can meet people and shyt.
Why don't you just get you a girlfriend, that way you won't have to stay in the game lol.
Why don't you just get you a girlfriend, that way you won't have to stay in the game lol.
This, dude sounds like a crybaby bytch tbhThis is sad.
A nice car and clothes isnt what you need to be confident.
You literally just listed all your insecurities and instead of trying to fix them you tryna find a gimmick to mask them.
Work on yourself, hit the gym, focus on getting your funds up, meet new friends. You only feel you need a gimmick cause your inner self is lacking, don't hide it fix it. Be the nikka you want to be and stop tryna pretend
Unfortunately a lot of cats don't have anu real passion for anything and p*ssy is their self qualifier.
I can't see who you're quoting. I block suspected cacsSavage
I agree with you, OP is looking for a magical pill to solve his women problems.
I think this is a recipe for disaster. Think about this, Catholic priest are not getting buns on the regular because of their “vows” of abstinence. But because they are still men, they got a lot of pent up sexual aggression. That sexual aggression is going to come out eventually. When it does come out, who typically is the recipient of it? The kids that they work with. I’m not saying that you are a pedo, but your situation could turn into a “situation” really easily, especially if you have to constantly remind yourself that they’re “teens”. I think that if you don’t have a normal and healthy outlet to quench your sexual appetite, then your mind will start to develop attractions in places that you shouldn’t be developing attractions in.
With that said, although I have a girlfriend, most of the quality women that I meet have been through recreational activities that I’m in or through volunteering. Join a running or cycling club. Something that is coed that you will have access to women on the regular. As @Slystallion mentioned, join a meetup group. They literally have a group for every interest. Join a Yoruba language meetup and you’ll meet some beautiful Nigerian belles. Take a Toastmasters class. On top of meeting people, you will learn how to speak confidently in any setting. And do some volunteer work. I sit on a few non-profit boards and the highest quality of women that I have had contact with do some type of volunteering or board work for non-profits.
The most important thing is getting some type of healthy social outlet with women your age so your situation doesn’t become a situation. And quickly!
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Improvement is going to hurt worse than your day to day life right now. Let’s preface what I’m going to say with that.
Now, it seems like you don’t like where you are in life or who you are in life. That’s fine. I’ve been there. So what next?
Stop focusing on what you aren’t and put more focus on what you are. To extend it further, take some deep time to reflect and decide who you want to be. Once you have figured that out, write it down. Then once you have defined the person you want to be, start imagining you are this person—what would that person need to do and think EVERYDAY in order to be that person. Write that down as well. After you do that, you’re going to think about all of the barriers in your way to becoming that person. fukk that kind of thinking. That’s your mind trying to keep you where you’re at because where you’re at, even if you hate it, is always more comfortable than where you want to be. The mind and the body is programmed to make you as comfortable as possible so not changing is what it wants you to do. You have to fight that. So anyway, now that you know who you want to be and what that person does and thinks everyday the next part is simple. Just start doing the things that person you want to be does. In 6 months to 2 years you will wake up one day and realize you’re the person you want to be.
Like I said at the beginning, it’ll be uncomfortable and it’ll hurt and you’ll make mistakes and you’ll feel shame. Accept those feelings and keep going anyway. It’s part of the process. It sucks to not have gotten all this shyt naturally growing up but many of us don’t have that luck. So then we gotta do the hard work of becoming the men we want to be. Good luck!
Now, it seems like you don’t like where you are in life or who you are in life. That’s fine. I’ve been there. So what next?
Stop focusing on what you aren’t and put more focus on what you are. To extend it further, take some deep time to reflect and decide who you want to be. Once you have figured that out, write it down. Then once you have defined the person you want to be, start imagining you are this person—what would that person need to do and think EVERYDAY in order to be that person. Write that down as well. After you do that, you’re going to think about all of the barriers in your way to becoming that person. fukk that kind of thinking. That’s your mind trying to keep you where you’re at because where you’re at, even if you hate it, is always more comfortable than where you want to be. The mind and the body is programmed to make you as comfortable as possible so not changing is what it wants you to do. You have to fight that. So anyway, now that you know who you want to be and what that person does and thinks everyday the next part is simple. Just start doing the things that person you want to be does. In 6 months to 2 years you will wake up one day and realize you’re the person you want to be.
Like I said at the beginning, it’ll be uncomfortable and it’ll hurt and you’ll make mistakes and you’ll feel shame. Accept those feelings and keep going anyway. It’s part of the process. It sucks to not have gotten all this shyt naturally growing up but many of us don’t have that luck. So then we gotta do the hard work of becoming the men we want to be. Good luck!
Don't tag a women hating porno addict
If I wasn't my social life wouldn't be non existent
He seems to have more luck with women than you do. So why not. Your methods are failing you.